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Marvella, 34
United States, Minnesota, Andover

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About Me

This site gets old and boring fast! Does anyone these days actually know how to have a conversation? What I'm looking for hmmm. Well I want that good looking (in my eyes), respectful, mature, honest guy that will be proud to be with me and treat me well cause I treat him well. Not afraid to hold my hand, the one to hold me and talk to me all night if the need be. Oh and he can't snore (I'm a light sleeper) lol. But I'll just settle for casual conversation and hanging out for now :-)Not into going to the bars every weekend to get drunk. A few drinks is fine though. It may sound harsh, but that seems to be the majority of guys I've met out there and that's not my thing. Looking for someone past that and is more mature. Goofy is fine at the right times. I like getting outdoors in all weather. From hiking, kayaking, snowboarding, snowshoeing, fishing, camping, rollerblading and biking etc. Im looking for someone that will actually get out and do things in nature with me. Not just be all talk and no action. My family (especially my son!) and friends are very important to me. I am very independent (own my house and have a great job). I am also guarded with my feelings right now as I've been hurt (but who hasn't). I'm actually a very giving and caring person and would do anything for anyone. Im very affectionate and love personal contact. I believe that you should treat others the way you want to be treated. Must love animals too cause I have a dog that goes on walks and hikes with me often. I'm interested in chatting, feel free to message. Do not message me for a hook up. Im looking for more potential. Do not message me if you are a smoker or a druggie.Ps: I have a weakness for taller, dark hair and blue eyes ;-) Something casual for first meeting. Then the skydiving on the first date would work ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

French South American Turkish
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