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Cathey, 31

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About Me

I'm not new to this site, I've been here before and I thought I wouldn't have to come back, but what can you do...I'm a kind, affectionate person and I'm looking for the same in a guy. I have been described as a perky person by more than one person, so I'm taking it as a good thing. I have no problems talking to anyone but it would be nice if you can string more than three or four words together so we could actually have a conversation.If you describe yourself as a gangsta or thug, please move on, I'm not looking for the bad boy. If your looking for a one night stand or a booty call keep looking, I will not sleep with you before I've gotten to know you and that will not change so don't even try. I would like someone who has a job/career or is attempting to better themselves. I may sound harsh but I know what I want and I would rather not waste anyone's time.A little bit about me, I'm a nerd...I love sci-fi. I enjoy action movies over romance movies...you pretty much can predict the ending of a romance movie and after the first dozen they are all the same lol. I also think the first Die Hard movie is the best Christmas movie EVER! (lol) I love to read, again more action type books than romance. I have read the Fifty Shades books and I did enjoy them. I've just started the Jack Reacher series so that'll keep me occupied for a while (yes the movie staring Tom Cruise is based on the books) I cross-stitch when I'm not reading or surfing the net. I'm currently working on two birth announcements for my new nephews, who were impatient to join the family and decided to show up 3 months early and they are doing amazing - in case you didn't guess I'm a proud auntie to two tiny fighters :) I have 3 tattoos and I'm planning a few more but nothing definite yet. I have 8 piercings all in my ears. I also have a not so healthy obsession with 5 inch stiletto heels. I have more than enough of them and I have nowhere to wear them. Maybe someone could help me out ;) That's all I can think of right now but if you want to know more feel free to ask away, I'm not shy and I am willing to answer any questions! I think a coffee date is a nice choice for a first meet. If we hit it off we can talk about where we would like to go for an official first date. I think wings and a beer is a good choice :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Latashia

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I would describe myself as caring, compassionate, outgoing, and determined. My friends and family are a huge part of my life. I wouldn't be half the person I am today if it wasn't for their unconditional love and support. Spending time with the two of them brings the biggest smile to my face and really helps me to remember that I have so much to be grateful for.Physical fitness is very important to me, so staying in shape is something that my match should value, as well. I work out daily, so meeting someone who could join me on my jogs or who would want to hit the weight room with me would be a bonus. I love setting goals for myself both personally and professionally. There is no better feeling than accomplishing something that you've worked hard at to achieve.I would definitely consider myself to be an independent person. I have owned my own home for four years now. It has been stressful at times, but it has also been one of the best learning experiences I've ever had. Renovating this house and making it "my own" has been a process, and I still have a ways to go, but I have proven to myself that I can do things I never thought I'd be able to do. Most importantly, though, I've realized that I can take care of myself, and I think that's crucial for anyone to understand before getting into a relationship. You can't take care of someone else if you don't know how to take care of yourself first.I am generally attracted to men who are ambitious, kind, family-oriented, and funny. Bonus points if you pay attention to the little things, like opening doors, walking me to my car, etc. Ideally, I would like to meet someone who likes to go out on the town for dinner and drinks once in awhile, but who is also willing to pop open a bottle of wine and enjoy a quiet evening with me at home. Looks are not everything, but they are important to an extent. I prefer a man who takes pride in his appearance, is put together, and takes care of himself. I love a guy who is serious when he needs to be, but who can also let loose and be a little silly at times. I would like to meet someone who will make time for me in his life, who understands how to put effort into a relationship, and who has his priorities in check. While I think it's important to maintain your own interests in a relationship, spending time together and attending family functions and events with friends is something that is important to me. I'd love to meet a guy who has a good head on his shoulders and is driven when it comes to his career, but who knows how to balance things out. If this sounds like you, shoot me a message, and we'll take things from there!

  • Dalene

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am an honest and kind-hearted, loyal friend. Family and friends are very important to me, as is maintaining a relatively healthy lifestyle. Though I am able to slow down occasionally, I enjoy being active, especially outside. Taking care of myself is something in which I place significance, so I enjoy being around others who feel the same. I love to travel, explore the amazing things this world has to offer, and sometimes even to just hop in the car and drive. I like to read when I can find the time and believe that the right music can reach your soul. We're only given so long on this Earth, and each year seems to fly by faster than the last. Life is meant to be lived and is fueled by experiences.

  • Darcel

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Love to have fun but pretty down to earth at the same time, energy healer. I\'m looking for someone who likes to have a good time, you have to be smart sexy and funny, and we can have a ball.

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