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Cathey, 31
United States, Minnesota, Andover

Offline, last seen Thu, 26 Mar 2026 02:37:34

About Me

I'm not new to this site, I've been here before and I thought I wouldn't have to come back, but what can you do...I'm a kind, affectionate person and I'm looking for the same in a guy. I have been described as a perky person by more than one person, so I'm taking it as a good thing. I have no problems talking to anyone but it would be nice if you can string more than three or four words together so we could actually have a conversation.If you describe yourself as a gangsta or thug, please move on, I'm not looking for the bad boy. If your looking for a one night stand or a booty call keep looking, I will not sleep with you before I've gotten to know you and that will not change so don't even try. I would like someone who has a job/career or is attempting to better themselves. I may sound harsh but I know what I want and I would rather not waste anyone's time.A little bit about me, I'm a nerd...I love sci-fi. I enjoy action movies over romance movies...you pretty much can predict the ending of a romance movie and after the first dozen they are all the same lol. I also think the first Die Hard movie is the best Christmas movie EVER! (lol) I love to read, again more action type books than romance. I have read the Fifty Shades books and I did enjoy them. I've just started the Jack Reacher series so that'll keep me occupied for a while (yes the movie staring Tom Cruise is based on the books) I cross-stitch when I'm not reading or surfing the net. I'm currently working on two birth announcements for my new nephews, who were impatient to join the family and decided to show up 3 months early and they are doing amazing - in case you didn't guess I'm a proud auntie to two tiny fighters :) I have 3 tattoos and I'm planning a few more but nothing definite yet. I have 8 piercings all in my ears. I also have a not so healthy obsession with 5 inch stiletto heels. I have more than enough of them and I have nowhere to wear them. Maybe someone could help me out ;) That's all I can think of right now but if you want to know more feel free to ask away, I'm not shy and I am willing to answer any questions! I think a coffee date is a nice choice for a first meet. If we hit it off we can talk about where we would like to go for an official first date. I think wings and a beer is a good choice :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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