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Elfrida, 33
United States, Minnesota, Andover

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About Me

Passionate and compasionate, fun loving, a little silly and a lot serious but not too much ;) I am hard working and not afraid of a challenge, overall I try to be well balanced in life. I have one of the hardest and rewarding careers imaginable and I love every second of it. I am very affectionate and love to spoil those around me. I like to spend my time with my kids and can admit that I think I like lego more then they do.I am looking for a man who is Confident, has a take charge/go getter kinda attitude, and can hold a conversation. Also understanding and patient, I have a very demanding career and need someone who accepts that and can be flexible. I like the outdoors and I am not much of a bar person, I am more drinks around a campfire or BBQ and game of cards kinda gal. Thats not to say I don't enjoy the finer things like breaking out a dress and some heels for a nice dinner out and some dancing or maybe a live show, I 'd love that too. So if you think this might be what you are looking for send me a message I will try and get back to you promptly but life happens so bare with me :)Oh and I 'd like to make this clear I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK UP!!!! So no booty call messages pleaseAnd one last request please don't message me if you don't attach a picture to it, or at least have a couple on your profile, you obviously know what I look like it's only fair that I do too:) Anything I've never done before and there is lots ....I dream of doing a whole bunch of new new things and I will try anything at least once so suprise me;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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