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Erna, 34
United States, Minnesota, Alexandria

Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Jun 2026 18:28:37

About Me

I want someone honest, dependable, and strong. Someone who knows themselves, and is not afraid to get to know themselves better. I also like guys taller than me, may seem silly to you but I don't like feeling like the jolly green giant. :) And no offense meant but I do not date black guys. I have just never been attracted. I want to meet someone worth my time and who won't be wasting it either. Someone who can enjoy a good conversation or just sit in silence, do some cooking, go out to eat, movies, live music, just hanging out. I'm open to trying new things as well.. I come from a large family and Christmas is my favorite time of year with my family. I am a bit of a wanderer and I love to be spontaneous when I can. I've been known to take very impromptu trips. I love to travel, I love nature, being with trees. I love to scuba dive, lay on the beach, go out for dinner. I'm into yoga, reiki and learning more about myself and what I want. Still learning but willing to grow with someone. I was in the Air Force for over 10 years but I'm out now and enjoying it and living by the water. I love all kinds of music, rock, country, oldies, blues, Christmas music, I could go on and on. Something fun for the first date, help get over that hurdle of feeling a bit awkward. Bowling, sailboat ride at sunset, drinks, mini golf, anything fun and exciting. Could be anything, just so we can see if we are going to have that connection to make it to date two.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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