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Jessie, 31
United States, Minnesota, Albert Lea

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About Me

To state the obvious, I am a woman with a disability (wheelchair and respirator dependent). Seeing a woman with a disability on a dating site is not a common thing; I understand that. Curiosity is cool. Fear and ***? Not so cool. All I ask of you is be open to the possibility that your "special one" may not be what you have imagined her to be.Straight up; here are a couple things you need to know. 1. I am looking for a PARTNER; not a caregiver, a f*ck buddy or a pen pal. 2. I am the employer of seven to eight fabulous women. They are employed as my attendants to assist me with my physical care and upkeep of my home. I have one person at my place with me at all times. The common concern for most men at first is being overheard during sex. We're all adults, get over it. :)3. I have a cat that you will need to share me with. 4. Going to the guy's home as never been part of my dating life due to accessibility issues. Dates have always been my place or going out to restaurants, movies, parks, or whatever else is going on. All I can say is you'll have to decide what is ok for you. My belief is the only barriers in life are those self-imposed. Same goes for dating. :) Oh, and I'm not into casual dating, casual sex or one night stands so please do not waste my time or your's by asking.So, if any of this is a deal breaker... Run away NOW! :)I am looking for a meaningful relationship; one based on respect, trust and honesty, someone who is emotionally available, open-minded, accepting, supportive, positive, loves to laugh and believes that the only limitations are those we put on ourselves! And if monogamy is not in your nature than I am not for you. I have completed the Applied Counselling Certificate Program with a specialization in addictions from University of Manitoba. I also have a Bachelor of Arts degree with majors in English and developmental studies from the University of Winnipeg. I have two jobs; one primary and a second income on the side. My primary job is with an accessible and supportive housing program for people with disabilities and there I teach and assist people with disabilities to live independently. I am also the counsellor and founder of my own counselling practice. In both positions, I am blessed to live out my life's purpose of empowering others to discover their innate and endless possibilities!!!I also have exciting plans for the future! Ask me about them!!!I am fun, easy going, loving, and passionate about life and the people in it! On my weekends off, I love going to my parents' home in the country, eating good home cooking, suntanning on the deck by day and bonfires by night. If it is summer and the sun is shining, I'd much rather be outside than in! Due to lack of snow tires, I'm not much of a snow bunny, so in the winter, I watch my favorite T.V. shows, go to movies, listen to music, read, write poetry and just chill. I work hard at everything I do in life whether that be with work, relationships or life goals and I have accomplished everything I've set out to do so far. I've done a lot but I plan to do a hell of a lot more. My life's purpose is to fulfill my true potential, in all capacities and to inspire, empower and assist others to do the same. I am spirit-filled rather than religious. It does not matter to me what religion you identify with. What matters is what you do with when the sermon or practice is over. Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food:Books: Eckhart Tolle books, sci-fi/paranormal/fantasy, autobiographies and memoirsMovies: Avatar, RENT, Ghost, The Notebook and pretty much all superhero films. The list goes on!Tv Shows: The Big Bang Theory, Grey's Anatomy, The Mentalist, CSI, and a lot of the oldies like ER, The Practice, House, Fringe, Friends, Seinfeld, Mad About You... The list goes on!nk... And more!Food: Steak, pizza, sushiSome might think I should be so lucky that any guy pays attention to me at all or that I should settle. Sorry to break it to you, but that is definitely not me. You'll learn that soon enough. ;) I've had numerous relationships that have taught me a lot and this girl knows exactly what she wants and does not want. I love my life, my two jobs and my amazing family and friends and having a special someone to share my awesome life with would make it, well, even more awesome! :)I can't wait to hear from you!Ok, apparently this little bit has to be said so here we go! I can get sex anywhere. Love is a little harder to find, though, don't you agree? So, let's not waste each other's time by you messaging me silly sexual invites. K? K. Glad we cleared that up. :) Just a casual get-to-know-each other over coffee or dinner is fine by me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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