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Destinee, 50
United States, Michigan, Zeeland

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. Would love to find that friend to go for walks for a couple times a week. To me, its a casual way to begin a friendship.I think i should lay it out in the first paragraph of what I am looking for on this site. Seems so many jump to conclusions so lets just say it in the first paragraph and if you can relate then you can read on. I am looking for a casual local friend,( someone close enough that there is not hours of driving to meet someone, that goes for you coming to see me too Im willing to share the effort.) I am not looking for a husband or father for my children. Someone to enjoy the company of on a casual basis. Not expecting every day communication, though casually nice to go and do something with that person. It's really hard to know how people connect via this site so of course it takes a meet and greet and conversation in person. One thing I can't commit to is an intimate relationship via this site and so many want that written in stone or they don't want to make the effort to meet.. For me it takes getting to know a person to know if that part is in the cards. Hopefully that lays it out and then it can help weed through the men who are just looking for a ";: and the ones looking for a full blown live in relationship. Im not saying a relationship isn't an option, but really is something that has to be decided after a meet and greet and the opportunity to spend some time with that person.. Good luck if you choose to not read any further.... Any relationship starts with being friends, if there is a connection the skies the limit, if not, its great to have the friendships. Not everyone clicks thou how are we supposed to know via sitting looking at a computer monitor. Looking to have that person to spend time with, enjoy each others company while doing things we enjoy. Not asking for a huge amount of your time, We all have lives that we have to live. Just nice to casually spend time with the opposite sex. Movies, hockey games, walks, cooking a meal together, going for a drive, concerts, comedy shows are always nice ways to get to know someone. Not expecting any of these activities to be a way for a free night out, Always willing to meet in the middle. Not a gold digger by any means. Just looking for that companionship first and if more came of it then great, its just hard to know unless you have the opportunity to spend some time with that person. I have two daughters. My oldest is 20 and is out on her own. My youngest is 14 and lives full time with her father. Seems it has to be that way but i do casually spend time with her but the older she gets the more it seems mom isn't cool any more for a 14 year old to spend time with Mom. Vegas anyone? Of course the trip would be after we get to know each other but love the city and would enjoy a vacation. Vegas is fun. Open to most music for the exception of opera. Even the odd bit of country is ok. Its great to have conversations with people and don't regret meeting the ones I have met. The opportunity to put a face to a conversation over a coffee or drink has been nice. I guess I really am not settling for what I don't want and maybe why I'm still in this pond I wish everyone the best of luck in finding what they are looking for. Just a coffee or walk in the park for that first initial meeting.... NO expectations or committments needed for the first meet. After the first meeting if a second opportunity arises then a Hockey game or Comedy Show can be planned. Laughing or Ducking the puck is always a good time.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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