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Sharen, 47
United States, Michigan, Zeeland

Offline, last seen Sat, 31 Jan 2026 02:40:33

About Me

********The most important message about being on these dating sites or putting yourself out there is that there IS one person just for you. This is a numbers game (keep trying!!).....we do meet people for a reason but it is up to us to find the right person. Please, please do not let yourself feel undesirable because you may feel rejected. The one thing that I have had to learn based on my own experiences is that none of it is personal. No one likes to be rejected.....especially if the person is mean. :-( So let's all be nice to each other out there!! I respond to all *** try to do it in a timely manner. Read on and hopefully I will find "my ONE" :***I am a fairly direct person and have a strong personality. It doesn't mean that I can''t be soft, sensual and loving. I just want to put that out there. I want a kind, caring man but sometimes......I need to be told NO!! LolI consider myself Bohemian Chic with some Rock and Roll. I can dress conservatively and be taken out with business clients or more conservative people but that really wouldn't be me. My dream life would be a country home off the grid (yes, running warm water is a must) with a condo or monthly visits to a hotel downtown (I love the energy of cities). I am a girly girl that owns power tools.My hobbies right now are to explore the world and all that is has to offer as well as meet new people. I am willing to try most things once and I think that continual learning is a must! I do have a bucket list though!I work out at the gym.....gotten a little off track recently but will get back into my routine in November ***.Bikrams, hiking, pole fitness, did ToughMudder ***I like to eat good food.(sushi, vegetarian, steak, burgers, BACON, organic, creme brulee)good movies travel (just got back from Maui) Spain, Portugal and Argentina are next on my list a variety of music, especially live (rock and roll, blues) nature and preserving it (not a radical tree hugger) architecture and design (would be willing to live off the grid) love to have my own garden and chickens the ability to have an open conversation about different subjects health and wellness is important to me (i believe in combining alternative medicine with mainstream medicine)I am a trained hypnotherapist I consider myself to be a creative person and love the emotion that comes from art and music. I also enjoy science and math although math was never my strong suit but I find it fascinating. If you are an architect.......you get extra points!!My goal is to meet the right man whom I can share my interests with as well as he with me. Cheers, C Yup, coffee or drinks is good for me. Then if we hit it off we can arrange for a second date or find a place to hang out and listen to music or watch the sunset. When it is right it doesn't matter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Salsa Golf
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am an outgoing person who has many friends and interests. I love to stay active and try new movies and restaurants,or can be just as happy staying in and watching some TV. My background was in sales and marketing and I was very fortunate to retire 10 years ago . At that time I decided to embark on coaching girls volleyball, and so that's what I do most of the year as a volunteer for the high-school, elementary school, and a club team.I have a second home at Whistler where I head almost every weekend and most holidays. It is there that I relax, watch TV or movies,mountain bike,golf, and downhill ski. Skiing is my winter passion and I need someone who loves it as much as I do. Generally I ski ***days a year.This year will be a lot less as I have had hip replacement surgery on Oct 7th.The person I would like to meet is kind,easy going,intelligent but not a know it all, must have a wonderful sense of humor and sense of adventure and be open minded. Controlling,chauvinistic, or condescending to others are deal breakers for me.I am attracted to an honest,good communicator who makes a relationship a priority should be financially independent,well traveled, and cultured.I am a strong and independent female who needs a man who likes that, however the soft side of me would like someone who has a caring and attentive nature,who opens the door for me and pours the wine, helps me unload from Costco and does not just sit and read the newspaper while I huff it out.I would respond well to a man who is thoughtful, kind and giving I also would like to meet someone who lives within a 20 minute drive from my home in Ambleside.lolAlso someone between the ages of 45 and 54I know this is a big wish list but worth trying,right? going for a coffee and slow walk as i recoup from my hip surgury?

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  • Lynda from Zeeland | Woman | 49 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    under constructionAfter having been on here for a while.... lol, I'm taking a step back to re-evaluate.Looking for a great friend first. Someone who loves to laugh, learn and explore.I own a business and have a super packed schedule, so someone who is confident and would be able to understand this would be an awesome fit.I don't care how tall you are or what you do for a living. I do care that you're intelligent, strong, passionate and funny.I would prefer to meet sooner to see if there's any connection. It's been my experience that the endless messages and texting just goes nowhere fast.And PLEASE...if we meet up and there's not a spark for you....say so right away. There's no expectations for me on the first meet, so I'm certainly not going to be offended if you're not interested. Been there, done that... :-)Hope your experience on here is positive. First meeting - how about a beverage....? nothing too complicated.First date... how'd you like to learn to Tap Dance? ;-)I'm pretty open and like a lot of different stuff.... let's do something fun.

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  • Farrah from Zeeland | Woman | 49 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Besides my Children and Loved ones, riding is my life. I ride a Heritage Softtail and love every minute of it. Love to travel. My Goal is to find someone to share the rest of my life with. Must Love Kids. I love all kids of music, preferably Classic Rock....but its all good. I am Loveable, faithful, kind, generous, vivacious and caring. Laugh often, its good for the soul. My Date would consist of a Helicopter ride through valley to a romantic dinner destination. LOL

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