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Birgit, 47
United States, Michigan, Zeeland

Offline, last seen Sat, 20 Jun 2026 13:55:27

About Me

Just looking to meet an easygoing attractive guy, and hopefully make a connection with someone on the same wavelength as me. I know this sounds like such a cliche, but I am looking for that "someone special" For now though, I am interested in seeing what we might have in common, establish a friendship first, take things slow, and go from there. Some of my qualities that I look for in others are a great sense of humour, mine tends to be somewhat sarcastic, and is not always politically correct. I enjoy intelligent conversation, but on the flip side, I'm still a kid at heart and can be nutty at times and like to be able to banter back and forth. Someone who is responsible but yet doesn't take themselves or life too seriously, is honest and has good values. I have a job that I am happy in, and would hope that you do also.I can also be somewhat adventurous, I am usually up for trying anything new, but at times I can be just as happy curled up with good book. Basically though, if there is good conversation and good company, it doesn't matter what you are doing, or where you are, just the fact alone that you can look forward to and enjoy time spent together.... whether its doing mundane chores, or simply a walk together and people watching :-)I also try to keep in shape with regular exercise, and I "mostly" eat healthy.I would love to hear from you if the above sounds interesting and you'd like to find out more.Bye for now.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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