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Refugio, 46
United States, Michigan, Yale

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About Me

Like most in our 40’s... I’.. lived fast and loved hard... worked too much and slept too little... and still have a soft spot for 80’s rock ballads. These days I enjoy the quieter side of life… the scent of the flowers when working in the garden, watching the dog roll in the snow when I talk her for a stroll, swaying to some sultry blues, sharing conversation over coffee or a glass of wine. Keeping balance between work, personal interests, friends and family is important to me. I’m a professional with a range of interests... riding my motorcycle and attending the ballet are two of my favourites. The early chapters were all about the quest for strength, wisdom and independence… so I’ve learned to be handy on the tools and renovated my own home… rode horseback in the mountains and my Harley across the country, relocated for work and spent some years having more coffee than sleep… loved, laughed and cried along the way and wrote a book of poetry about it. I’d like to share the next chapters with a partner... laughing until our eyes water… Sunday morning coffee… reading in the front of the fire… dancing to slow music… strolling at sunset… holding hands… intense kisses… getting lost in your eyes.I enjoy the company of people who are genuine. I value loyalty, honesty, integrity, a strong work ethic and appreciate a great sense of humour. Physical affection, chemistry, confidence, personal appearance and how you handle yourself matter to me. I’m equally comfortable in the little black dress or boots and jeans...the occasion helps decide the dress code. I can be serious and I love to laugh often…a riotous sense of humour that fluctuates from dry to sexual innuendo. I enjoy a glass of red wine or a cold beer (in the bottle). I’m comfortable in my own skin... moving through life to the beat of my own drum... creative... passionate... confident... hard working... motivated... sensitive... kind hearted... independent... direct... communicative... far from perfect... a bit of a pistol... genuine and caring... is who I am.I’m looking for the same... an equal with passion and a genuine heart to share and experience the simple pleasures in life. If you’re interested, please drop me a line and good luck in your search.PS I'm attracted to guys who are taller. I'm 5'8" and stand almost 6' when I'm in heels, which I wear often. Coffee and a chat are easy. Chemistry and humour are as important as the interests and intellect so it really takes having a conversation in person to gauge the attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Alison from Yale | Woman | 47 years old | Libra
    Alison

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm ready to have someone wonderful in my life. My boys are older now and I am ready to find the one. I love to go out and have fun night on the town or just stay in and order Chinese and watch a movie (chick flick lol)..I am a very hopeful romantic. I'm looking for my mate to be spiritual and attractive (to me) Inner beauty is huge not just attractive on the outside. He has to be health conscious, smoking is a big turn-off. A good sense of humor is a must, I love to laugh!! Being thoughtful is very important, volunteering or someone who likes to be giving to others in need is a huge plus. Bonus points if you can cook!! Love a man who can cook lol. I love going to concerts, sporting events, movies, dinners, or just a walk in the park..... I really do not like dating different people at one time, that is not me. If I like a guy, he is the only one. I am a one man woman. I will be so happy to not have to tell another man anything about met again. I don't like going out on a date and its like a job interview telling about myself over again. I just want to meet the one that I am supposed to be and grow old together and live happily ever after :) only in the movies I know lol. I do not need a man, I have been a single mom for many years and I take care of my boys just fine. I pay my own bills, do not need a sugar daddy or a baby daddy lol. I want a man to add to my life , not complete me. I am totally ok with myself; I have never needed to be in a relationship. I am better to be alone and available for the one to come along than to be with the wrong one so that Im not able to meet the right one. I also love going to the gym, hopefully he will enjoy working out also. I belong to Planet Fitness. I believe that health and fitness is very important to me and I would only want to date someone who feels the same. Looks are not the only thing that matters to me but being attracted and having chemistry is important. Along with having similar beliefs and interests. Good Luck with your search!! The best first date will be the last first date.... It wont matter where we are, it matters who I'm with......with the right person I can have fun just watching the grass grow. :)

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  • Celandine from Yale | Woman | 50 years old | Leo
    Celandine

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I have been divorced for about 5 yrs now. I have decided I am too young to stop living. I do not want to be alone for the rest of my time. I like to have fun, get out and do things and most of all laugh. I love to go camping, fishing, golfing and just plain old walks. I love to spend as much time as possible outdoors. I like to garden, have fires in the back yard or just sitting on the deck and talking. I have 3 adult children and 4 grand children, all of which are self dependant. I love to spend time with them and head up to Saskatoon every now and again to visit. We had a blast.When I can't be outside or just don't want to be... I like to listen to rock music such as Aerosmith, Kiss, The Eagles and many more. As for movies, I like action, true storey, humour and romance. Not a fan of horror... On a first date I think a walk in the park, or any public place is a good idea. I hate awkward silence but walking opens many channels, which gives a person so much more to talk about. Even if it is a small walk followed by a coffee at Timmies...

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  • Chyna from Yale | Woman | 46 years old | Aries
    Chyna

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Cinderella walked on broken glass.Sleeping Beauty let a lifetime pass. Jasmine married a common thief. We come to love not by finding a perfect man, but by learning to see an imperfect man, perfectly.I like the outdoors, nice restaurants, and animals. Love music and sportsLooking for someone who is ACTUALLY honest, not batsh*tcrazy, and doesn't play games. Not into an online chat, would like to get out and do things.I am honest, loyal, and a lot of fun, but a little shy at firstLooking for my perfectly, imperfect guy!!PS...Pandas Hockey is about to start again, so maybe you wouldn't mind watching hockey games most weekends ;) Something fun, up for almost anything, so long as we can talk and have a laugh

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