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Nicolasa, 46
United States, Michigan, Wyandotte

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I guess there are those who talk the talk but don't know how to walk. would love to find one who knew how to do both! Why am I here? Just....why...beating my head against a wall here. One needle in this cyberstack of hay is all im looking for. Keep finding thorny weeds.Little boys need to keep looking for another playground...won't find one here. Promise.Recent conversation with a Personal Trainer/Model: Me: If I could ask you, how do you deal with women always looking or treating you like a piece of steak?Him: Lol.. Thank you so much! Not always going to be in great shape so better work on that personality as well.. lolMe: well yea...but Im not even close to your stunning looks and I know there is more to a persons beauty than the outside. It can make a handsome one turn ugly in a minute. But what I seem to be having problems with is guys only wanting one thing from me and thats all lol they dont even know me. Its a compliment on one hand but empty in the other. All different guys and all the same. Disgusted lately with them all really.You are right tho,.... As far as the guys go, it's tuff because we are physical beings, while woman are more emotionally based. I think the sooner you accept that the better. Every guy is gonna want sex, find a guy who wants to work to get to that point.Me: yes, this much i undoubtedly know! And I don't mind that part, its how men and women are wired. And sex is great but better with that special someone (yes, emotionally based). Finding that one is the hardest part!! SO! Having said that, here I am. HMMPH! Me: country, tattooed, animal lover, playful, loyal, communicative, work out but (not insanely), head strong, conservative, military mama, reserved, respectful, one on one kinda girl (not a serial dater), caring and loving. I'm the kind of girl who doesn't do things half ass. Say what ya mean, mean what ya say. Action does speak a whole lot louder than words....Can you back it up, or are you just yelling into the wind? Ok maybe I have a bit of a roughness to me as well?,...can't help it, I was raised around guys lol But I can be quite soft, warm and loving with the right person. Team player--but "team" as in my partnership with a man, not as in a relationship with the entire soccer team "team" HA! :) I love to laugh....most times it's at myself just cause if I didn't find some humor in some of the things life throws at me, I might have to be in a straight jacket! Don't seem to act my age (or look it from what I am told). Younger gravitate to me. Won't settle tho I don't expect perfection and don't want it expected of me either. Love to laugh but know when to be serious. Love a new adventure. Miss romance. What happened to that anyway? Why are most guys out for "it" (between their legs), and not "it" (inside their chest) anymore? Its such a turn off when guys just talk about "it" as tho "it" is unattached to the rest of the body. ya know what I mean? Inanimate. You know we are connected to it all..Mind, heart, spirit, body. That "wired" thing,...see above again. Some of you need to think before you speak. yea? Not attracted to overweight, older, non white men. Sorry, its just not for me. We are old enough at this point to know what we like and don't. Right? Oh yea,...and when if I say six pack, and beer comes to your mind, probably need to keep going. Drunks are a no go. Social drinking on occassion is just fine but every nite,..not so much. No drugs, no married, no BS...no drama! ain't nobody got time for that! If you think we may have some things in common, message me. Any questions, just ask.... but don't waste my time, or yours, with one line messages or if its pretty obvious we are not a match. Good luck to ya'll Who knows. I don't tend to plan things out...kinda go with the flow...cliche but true..its not where you are, or what you are doing, but who you are with!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

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    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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