Carreen

• Wyandotte
• Michigan
• United States

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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

First off, I do not think I am God's gift to every man....but I do think I am God's gift to one man. Somewhere out there is exactly the match that was created for me and vise versa. Everyone you meet will not be relationship material...so call it what it is. I am looking for the one, but I am not opposed to making some great friends along the way. I am not looking for a man to pay my bills, play daddy to my daughter or mow my lawn. I have all of that under control. I need a man to enjoy life with me, laugh at stuff that only we would understand and have some degree of meaningful conversation. He needs to have a great sense of humor and a keen sense of when I am being sarcastic and how to read that sarcasm. I always seem to fall for the guy with an attitude or at the very least overstated confidence. Wish that fact were not true, but it is what it is. I do believe that you have a pretty good idea from the get-go if there is an attraction and should be honest and not waste someone else's time by "settling" until something that feels right comes along. People get hurt that way and I do not play games with emotions. If it turns out to be friendship...call it friendship and hang out and have good times all the same."Serious user" seals out by your picture scream desperate and getting no mail. That was just some FYI...no additonal charge for it. And if you message me six times in one day or send me an *** for not replying, chances are we are not a match. I do not do high maintenance men who have nothing to do but chit chat. I want someone who has a LIFE outside of this site. I am not a player BUT love the motto: Treat me like a queen, I'll treat you like a King. Treat me like a game, I'll teach you how to play it. I am a hard worker and have dreams, goals and ambitions. Travel is my passion and I would like someone who wants to experience the world. Cruising is one of my favorite vacations, but I would love to see all of Europe someday as well as Australia, New Zealand and the Mediterranean. I am very frugal in most other areas of my life, but I think travel is worth the splurge. I do not have pictures on here of my pets, my house, my cars, or my watercraft. If I need all of that to impress you, I am perfectly content being single. I usually do not respond to profiles with pictures of your accomplishments either....it tells me two things...you do not have confidence that I will like you without all of that (and I love a confident man) and you are open to a gold-digger (which I am not). And when you picture yourself in a group with the caption "guess which one I am"......ummmmmmm, you are the ugly one or you would not hide yourself in a group!! lol .....a joke (thus the sarcasm spoke of in paragraph two comes out).If you have described yourself as non-religious, there is no need to respond. My belief in God and my effort to live a Christian life are a priority. It may sound crazy, but the one that God has intended for me is out there. I may not know him, but I pray for him every day that God will lead, guide and protect him until He sees fit to have us cross paths. If you are looking for a one-night stand or a hook-up, also no need to respond. If you have ever, or think you may ever, have an interest in men please do not respond. I do not and I will not "understand". And yes, I have run into that situation, more than once, on here. It would be nice if your profile reflected a little capitalization and punctuation...not a deal killer, but it would be extra credit. DEAL KILLERS:Smokers....just not for me. I do not participate in inter-racial dating. I have great friends from many cultures....but I only date caucasian men.Facial hair that is not neatly (very neatly) trimmed.Living at home with your parents. ....don't care what the reason....if you are over 25...move out...get half a dozen roommates or two jobs...but it is time to be independent.Only child...not to say I won't date you because of that, but if you were raised to think the world revolves around you, I don't have the energy to make you realize it doesn't. I am an only myself, but I am not selfish or self absorbed and I will not associate with someone who is. Momma's boy....I want a man who LOVES his Mom to pieces...but if you need to call momma every time you sneeze or need her approval to make an investement...or her approval to date me....pass me by. Someone who has to be in a bar every weekend or drinks daily.If you have kids you do not support or have given rights up to.....you wont love mine if you do not take care of your own. Please do not contact me with emotional baggage....be there, done that, got hurt. If you still love someone...heal....allow yourself to HEAL COMPLETELY before you put yourself out there. You may think you are just out to have a good time and someone great comes along and you ruin the opportunity because you were not ready. Yeah, been there, done that....burnt the t-shirt. Just trying to save both of us some time....thanks for understanding.I appreciate the fact that you have taken the time to look over my profile. Time is a gift and you will never regain the time you just spent checking me out...so thanks. To each and every one of you, I hope you find exactly what you are looking for in a partner. You have a desire to find something you are missing or you would not be here. Happy fishing!! Good company.....isn't that all that really matters?-looked by a hammock in the middle of no-where...things might start off on the right foot. I am more impressed with the thought you put into it than the money you spent.

Philis

• Wyandotte
• Michigan
• United States

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Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

I've been through it all and back again. I'm thankful for all the blessings God has given me-- I'm proud of all I've accomplished in my education and career and give work all I've got and then some more. I believe in the value of education, and I'm committed to public education down to my very core. I'm proud to be an educator, and believe I'm making a difference in the lives of children.I'm very passionate about everything in my life, and that passion defines me as who I am. Intense, quirky, and gung ho, I go at life with everything I am and everything I have. No, I'm not easy to handle and I wouldn't have it any other way. I march to the beat of my own drum and while I welcome company during that march, I won't change the cadence of the march to make someone else happy. I like me just the way I am and am lucky enough to have so many friends who also like me that way!While life has not always led me to where I wanted to be, it has always led me to where I needed to be and I gain tremendous comfort from that. Whatever path my journey has led me down, I have loved deeply and appreciated those who stood beside me during some of those paths through dark and scary places. I am fiercely loyal to those I love and who love me, and my loyalty never falters. I speak the truth, no matter how difficult the truth is. I am straight-forward about who I am and represent myself with integrity and honesty. With me, what you see is indeed what you get. That has been both a blessing and a curse, I guess.While I have regrets, I also know that I am who I am today because of the mistakes I made in my youth. If I had to do it all again to be where I am today, I would do so in a heartbeat. At the end of the day, I can rest my head on my pillow and know three things: I am loved by my God; I am loved by my family and friends; and I have given the day all I have inside me to give. That's how I roll.I love to hike, go for long walks, and Pilates. I am an avid reader, often reading two or three books at a time. I enjoy the theater, opera, and ballet. I'm also a rabid football fan and support my teams without fail (Go Vols, Geaux LSU, Go Titans, and Who Dat!). I guess I have a variety of interests. I'm a well-rounded person who is very intelligent and well educated. I am at my best in the outdoors, and I spend as much time in nature as possible. What am I looking for? I am looking for someone who understands that I am new to the dating scene and who will be willing to move very slowly. I enjoy being courted and am at heart an old fashioned girl. I am looking for someone who is willing to be emotionally present in a relationship and who values the same things I do. I'm not a superficial person and can't abide someone who is. I'm looking for someone who is real and down to earth, someone who has lived the highs and the lows of life and is ready to embrace life with all he has. Life is too short to be any other way. If this is you, send me a message. Something very public with quiet for talking for first dates. I'd like to get to know each other through texting/email first then move into phone calls and face to face meetings. I believe having coffee, lunch, dinner, or touring a museum are excellent choices for a first date. Once we have met and become comfortable with each other, a walk in the park or on the trails would be my idea of a perfect date. I also love sporting events, so watching football, baseball, or hockey would be a fun and exciting date. Any theater, opera, or ballet performance would work well too. I'm very flexible and have a variety of interests, so I'm very easy to please when it comes to dates.

Ardis

• Wyandotte
• Michigan
• United States

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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

I am a 50 year old with two beautiful girls that mean the world to me. I was married for over 27 years and find myself starting over. My girls are all grown up and away from home and now so it is time to enjoy life. I love long walks looking up at the stars, relaxing over a glass of wine, or just cuddling on the couch in front of a fire. If you are serious about getting to know me and enjoying life then I would love to hear from you and see where it leads.