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About Me

I am independent and intelligent, although I think it's more interesting to be curious than smart. I'm interested in people-- all kinds. I like hearing about others' perspectives on life. I don't have to agree with you (or you with me) to like or even love you. I've traveled a lot, walked some interesting paths, and have had some even more interesting detours along the way. I love that. I try to live in the moment as much as possible, or at least slow down enough to find meaning in what's going on around me. That said, I can be silly and playful; I love to laugh and make you laugh too.I'm in a helping field and my professional life is an important part of who I am. Most important of course are my children. If you have children you understand that. And you understand unconditional love. I definitely like to have fun when not working; movies, dinners out, wine, live music, cooking, friends, travel. I've been divorced for a while and have dated, but have not been ready for anything serious. My children are a little older now, more independent, and I hope to have more and more time to offer to a relationship. After my divorce I thought I did not want to marry again. What I really want is to commit myself to a person and they to me. If that means marriage that's great. If not, that's ok too. I want to meet people, hopefully make some friends, and be smart enough to recognize the right person when he comes along.Thanks for reading. Early evening... A cozy corner in a busy restaurant for a drink or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Debroah

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am an easy-going, fun-loving, strong and independent woman; but not so independent that I wouldn't like to have a man that shows me that he wants to take care of me a bit (and I don't just mean him saying he wants to do things for me but he actually shows it with actions.."Say what you mean and mean what you say!") I'm a good listener and am caring and compassionate; but please don't take the complaints to the point where it interferes in the relationship (just like you guys don't want a woman that is dramatic and complaining, I don't want a man like that either). I love my family (daughter, siblings, mom; and I consider my true friends my family too) and need to be around someone that will accept that without reservations. My family/friends can be a bit kooky, but a lot of fun!I love golf and would love to take a golf vacation , go to Europe, travel with the right person. I like to throw darts and grab a few brews once in a while. I like all music except most jazz,rap and the real heavy metal. I like to go to concerts and go dancing. I would love to go to the symphony. I'm looking for someone that has the capability to surprise me, and be romantic. I want someone that will share my interests and I theirs; of course I don't mean we have to share and have all the same interests but having some are important. Above all, I need a man that is honest and will communicate to me his wants, needs, dreams, and show his loyalty once we have made a decision that we want to be a couple. I refuse to be a man's playtoy and am not afraid to date others until I know I'm with the one I feel a true connection and commitment with and sense that he reciprocates the same intentions and feelings. I will not settle just to be with someone; I'm happy as I am, but, like most people would love to share my life with that one special someone. Meet over a cup of coffee or drink to see if we connect and have chemistry

  • Setsuko

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    About me? Well, it depends on who's looking and what you want to see. I guess, silly in the morning and goofy in the night. Love to run in the rain and dance in the biggest puddles. Not afraid to get wet. Playful and always willing to share my Oreos and big glass of ice cold milk. Tender ears to listen, soft words to voice a strong opinion. Educated enough to build the most awesome sandcastles on the beach. Yet still can converse about the brainiest of thoughts. Kind of the Tomboy next door ...and a ball cap will dress up about anything . That's what you will mostly find me in. But if needed, there is maturity , trust, and loyalty that is found deep within. It takes a lot to bring me down. High spirited...kind of a TIGGER X 2!!! Bouncy, bouncy, bouncy. Yet, often found quiet, lost in thought, even speechless and lost for words. If a tear ever falls, it will always be wiped. Fingers and toes are for tickling quite often. Jokes always need to be told. A sincere heart filled... just waiting for that 'Knight in Shining Armor' to capture it all. Oh, by the way, I dress up quite well! Quite old fashion...cooking for a man is always a delight. Two hands that need to be held...tender and sweet but are yet strong to care for the weak. Deep blue eyes that will dance when they see your smile or when you play our music and we dance under the stars. It's all about truth...there can be no lies. A small nose that is soft and cheeks that smile responding to your laughter. Arms that hug so tenderly and warm. I dance, I play, I pray...a moment for all! Respect is the greatest gift friends can give. There's just so much to tell... I can go on and on. I've traveled the world far and wide and seen it all. Yet , a great vacation.. A good back rub only for a few moments, but it can take you a world away. Simple and sweet...deeply caring and honest, this is pretty much Me! Laughter is my favorite song. Friendship is where it starts. Must take me as I am. No chance of fixing, changing, repairing....... Just a plain old "Raggedy Anne Doll". Just a plain old girl. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~: ~~~~ Time go by so quickly~~~Moments are so important.They fade before we know it. LIfe is to precious. Talk to the ones you love more. Dance under the stars on a summer's night.Sing in the shower, and of course make a crazy hair doo with shampoo...no one's watching!Stop putting off what needed to be done yesterday.Listen and learn what compassion is. Be kind to a strangers. Say the words ' I'm sorry' a whole lot more and mean them. We've all been hurt but let it go.Free your spirit , heart and soul. Feel the wind on your face and taste a rain drop.Be sure though.... it's not a dead BUG!Laugh....really laugh and take time to play!Look outside your box and give a smile to a stranger even when life is dark. And more than anything.....find time to pray and give thanks to the Lord above.~Author....Just a silly 'ole' girl! ~We can start with a hello and go from there! No rules, no laws just see where our hearts and minds will lead us. Something stress free and simple, yet our time will be just right. How 'bout just a simple walk in the rain?????? ~ And if by chance...I'm not your type....That's OK! I do hope my life , my feelings and my words have moved you in a special way. Take just a piece of what you've read with you and try it out. Go ahead , color out of your box. A smile can really lift you on a cloudy day. I wish you the best!~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~***put this on your***profile if you***know someone that***died of old age***looking for their***perfect match***on a dating site!!!!!

  • Zoe

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    5 FEET 10 AND 225LBS APPROX...LONG RED HAIR, FUNKY GLASSES, PRETTY, SMART, SARCASTIC SENSE OF HUMOR, CAPRICORN, DOWN TO EARTH AND REAL..LOVES DOGS, TATTOOS,TALL, MUSCULAR OR ABOUT AVERAGE MEN...NOT INTO SKINNY MEN, LOVE GODIVA CHOCOLATE, WHITE ROSES,DOLCE N GABBANA PERFUME,S-ENSUAL,LOYAL N COMMITTED ,,,LOOKING FOR THE LAST MAN THAT I WILL KISS..MY ROCK WHO WILL take care of my heart, mind, body n soul. No endless chatting, texting. I'm old school i like actual phone conversations! no booty calls hook ups FWB-serious only!! **** no one under 32 or over 50..IF YOU ARE >>>MOMMY IS SEEKING HER DADDY A DRINK OR COFFEE TO GET A FEEL FOR EACH OTHER

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