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Haven, 50

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About Me

I am independent and intelligent, although I think it's more interesting to be curious than smart. I'm interested in people-- all kinds. I like hearing about others' perspectives on life. I don't have to agree with you (or you with me) to like or even love you. I've traveled a lot, walked some interesting paths, and have had some even more interesting detours along the way. I love that. I try to live in the moment as much as possible, or at least slow down enough to find meaning in what's going on around me. That said, I can be silly and playful; I love to laugh and make you laugh too.I'm in a helping field and my professional life is an important part of who I am. Most important of course are my children. If you have children you understand that. And you understand unconditional love. I definitely like to have fun when not working; movies, dinners out, wine, live music, cooking, friends, travel. I've been divorced for a while and have dated, but have not been ready for anything serious. My children are a little older now, more independent, and I hope to have more and more time to offer to a relationship. After my divorce I thought I did not want to marry again. What I really want is to commit myself to a person and they to me. If that means marriage that's great. If not, that's ok too. I want to meet people, hopefully make some friends, and be smart enough to recognize the right person when he comes along.Thanks for reading. Early evening... A cozy corner in a busy restaurant for a drink or dinner.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Anamaria

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Outgoing, passionate woman that is looking for a "real" life partner. A true gentleman that is authentic and romantic and can communicate (not interested in texting relationship). Enjoys life's pleasures such as going to festivals, concerts, cooking together and weekend traveling. Love live music of all kinds, and riding on the back of a motorcycle (if you have one). I enjoy attending local wine events, baseball and football games and exploring the city. Looking for positive personality not afraid to have fun and live life to the fullest. Looking for that "one" man that can capture my heart that takes me off of here forever! Are you out there? Thanks for checking out my profile and good luck on your journey to love! I believe first dates should be fun for both parties! Whether it be meeting for a drink or coffee, taking a walk down by the lake, or meeting at a park for a nice talk, the possibility of making a new friend is well worth it!

  • Xochitl

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hey, I'm really not that good when it comes to talking about myself. I guess the only way to get to know me is to either message me or hang out with me. Like my profile stated, I'm 5'1, short black hair green eyes. You can find me on face book -*****UPDATE**** Lemme **** a minute- PLEASE DO NOT message me asking if I like younger men ok. Yes almost all of the guys I talk to are "younger" but its a matter of maturity more than age. IF you are not confident in your maturity as a man- regardless of your age and feel you need to ask a woman if she "INTO" younger guys then I would say your not ready to be "INTO' a woman older than you. Real men dont question the age factor. They have enough confidence within themselves to just go for it. ** It AMAZES me on the number of guys on here that let the age of someone affect their choices. Is it because your scared of what people may say? Sad...I quit judging others on looks or age years ago. If you do something as superficial as that then you never really know what you may be missing out on. I've been asked if I'm a dominatrix or a witch lol!! AM I REALLY THAT SCARY LOOKING????????? I am neither. In fact I'm totally opposite. I'm someone who can cook anything-its a hobby. My culinary skills are off the chain!! I'm shy til you get to know me and I definitely don't strap on the leather gear and carry around whips and chains lol! As far as witchcraft goes-cmon REALLY!!! Although I do know quite a few people I would love to put a spell on or do some VooDoo!!! Cmon guys-quit being so judgemental- I thought only women did that sh*t!!! ***Also...if you message me and make it painfully obvious that you are looking for a "friends only" relationship ..then please don't get annoyed when I put you in the "FRIEND ZONE" okay! Thats the impression you gave me and the vibes you put out. Up to you to change that situation-not on me..I have alot of friends and adding you to the list is just an option. Please don't assume I'm a B*tch- I'm just keeping things real. A first date doesn't have to be some monumental feat- just be yourself and lets get to know each other. Whether that is in a fancy restaurant..sitting under the nite sky or baggin it at Mcdonalds-its the company thats important to me more than anything.

  • Alexandra

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love to walk my dogs in the woods, go to the beach, watch movies and occasionally hang out at the local dive bar to listen to live music. I like being outside and have a hard time just doing nothing. I dont like winter weather or winter weather sports. I love love love the beach. I am not looking for anything in particular on this site; I would like to meet new people, make more friends, maybe find someone to ride my motorcycle with and see how things work out! A walk. A glass of wine. Anything that provides the opportunity to get to know each other without too many distractions.

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