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Alecia, 49

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Hi, I am very crafty and a bit artsy, I am in the health care field and I love my work.I am very sensitive and even emotional at times but it makes me very good at what I do.I love many different types of music but not rap and country only in small doses.I have been separated for over a year after 15 years and will be divorced soon. I have dated a bit and enjoy it on some level but eventually I would like to find someone special. I have 50% custody of our youngest son ( the only one at home now) so I find myself with free time and where as I love going out to eat and movies and love trying new things I also love just hanging at home watching movies or whatever.I'm looking for someone who is ok with kids although my youngest is 13 so no little ones. I'm ok if he has kids and would consider that a bonus. I want someone who is kind and honest as I always try to be and I don't like games. I'm a bit old school about dating meaning you make a date you keep a date and you expect it to be a chance to get to know someone and that's it, the rest must come naturally.I am not perfect and I am not looking for someone perfect. I work hard and I exercise as often as I can, I am pretty careful about what I eat but just like many middle aged people I battle with some excess weight. I have been told that I am very sweet and I am a good cook, I enjoy doing nice things for the people I care about. Coffee or a drink fallowed by a walk if its going well, I find it a really nice way to get to know somebody.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nicolasa

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I guess there are those who talk the talk but don't know how to walk. would love to find one who knew how to do both! Why am I here? Just....why...beating my head against a wall here. One needle in this cyberstack of hay is all im looking for. Keep finding thorny weeds.Little boys need to keep looking for another playground...won't find one here. Promise.Recent conversation with a Personal Trainer/Model: Me: If I could ask you, how do you deal with women always looking or treating you like a piece of steak?Him: Lol.. Thank you so much! Not always going to be in great shape so better work on that personality as well.. lolMe: well yea...but Im not even close to your stunning looks and I know there is more to a persons beauty than the outside. It can make a handsome one turn ugly in a minute. But what I seem to be having problems with is guys only wanting one thing from me and thats all lol they dont even know me. Its a compliment on one hand but empty in the other. All different guys and all the same. Disgusted lately with them all really.You are right tho,.... As far as the guys go, it's tuff because we are physical beings, while woman are more emotionally based. I think the sooner you accept that the better. Every guy is gonna want sex, find a guy who wants to work to get to that point.Me: yes, this much i undoubtedly know! And I don't mind that part, its how men and women are wired. And sex is great but better with that special someone (yes, emotionally based). Finding that one is the hardest part!! SO! Having said that, here I am. HMMPH! Me: country, tattooed, animal lover, playful, loyal, communicative, work out but (not insanely), head strong, conservative, military mama, reserved, respectful, one on one kinda girl (not a serial dater), caring and loving. I'm the kind of girl who doesn't do things half ass. Say what ya mean, mean what ya say. Action does speak a whole lot louder than words....Can you back it up, or are you just yelling into the wind? Ok maybe I have a bit of a roughness to me as well?,...can't help it, I was raised around guys lol But I can be quite soft, warm and loving with the right person. Team player--but "team" as in my partnership with a man, not as in a relationship with the entire soccer team "team" HA! :) I love to laugh....most times it's at myself just cause if I didn't find some humor in some of the things life throws at me, I might have to be in a straight jacket! Don't seem to act my age (or look it from what I am told). Younger gravitate to me. Won't settle tho I don't expect perfection and don't want it expected of me either. Love to laugh but know when to be serious. Love a new adventure. Miss romance. What happened to that anyway? Why are most guys out for "it" (between their legs), and not "it" (inside their chest) anymore? Its such a turn off when guys just talk about "it" as tho "it" is unattached to the rest of the body. ya know what I mean? Inanimate. You know we are connected to it all..Mind, heart, spirit, body. That "wired" thing,...see above again. Some of you need to think before you speak. yea? Not attracted to overweight, older, non white men. Sorry, its just not for me. We are old enough at this point to know what we like and don't. Right? Oh yea,...and when if I say six pack, and beer comes to your mind, probably need to keep going. Drunks are a no go. Social drinking on occassion is just fine but every nite,..not so much. No drugs, no married, no BS...no drama! ain't nobody got time for that! If you think we may have some things in common, message me. Any questions, just ask.... but don't waste my time, or yours, with one line messages or if its pretty obvious we are not a match. Good luck to ya'll Who knows. I don't tend to plan things out...kinda go with the flow...cliche but true..its not where you are, or what you are doing, but who you are with!

  • Milisent

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    First of all I am not on this site just for good time, looking for someone that is serious about finding a partner in life. also I am a country girl and love Country Music.......hopefully my partner will as well!!!!I am a single mom. My kids are old enough to take care of themselves.... My children are everything to me. I would like someone in my life who I can hang with, whether it be with me relaxing watching tv or going out for a ride or even just taking a nap with.....companionship......I also would like someone that has established their life and appreciates that sometimes, a little space is needed in a relationship.......Most important thing is HONESTY!!!!!! if you can't be honest with me, then it isn't gonna work.....I would like to meet someone who would like to start out slow as friends and see what happens.....it seems that some of the other singles websites that alot of people what to jump in a relationship immediately, even before they meet you. I believe that there must be an attraction and defintely chemistry in order to enjoy each other's company. Please don't be offended if I do not have a chemistry with you......Life is too short and to waste my time and your time, just isn't fair to either of us.... My close friends say that I am a good listener and deserve to be with someone who will treat me as I treat them. when I am in a relationship, I give it 100% and I love to show my affection in many different ways. I want to feel that lust again! that silly, head over heals, I just adore you ..........feeling! am not a fan of b/s.....life is too short to play games......if your just looking for a good time, please do not respond as you are wasting my time as well as yours.....sorry to be so blunt, but it is what it is..... I am looking for a long term relationship, so if you are looking for just dating, then I am not your match.....also, if you say your gonna meet up then I would expect you to follow through and not just *** so not into games....I am a one man type of woman.I have more pics, upon request. Meet for coffee.....or in a park to just talk and get to know one another.....dinner is just 2 awkward for the first date......

  • Lorayne

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm an out going fun loving woman who enjoys good conversation and laughter. I like country and classic rock music. Im looking to meet people and have fun. Life is tooooo short not to. I'm not looking for a commitment or relatiinship just looking for fun.

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