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Shemeka, 47

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About Me

It has taken me alot of thought as to what my personal message should say to all of you, so I decided to make it something positive for everyone. My thoughts are about life's changes. God knows I have been through alot of them this past year and I'm positive some of you have to. These are my personal thoughts and I will try to keep it short cause I hate to read a really long message. This relates to all aspects of life, relationships, work, etc...* Let go and trust what lays ahead of you, even when you have no idea what it is.* Think about what you can gain from change *** what you are losing.* What you are afraid of is never as bad as what you imagine.* Fear you let build up in your mind is usually worse than the situation itself.* Think about what can go right *** what can go wrong.* When you change what you believe, you can change what you can do.* Don't over analyze or complicate things. I know I am my own #1 stresser.And finally, live life to the best of your ability and please don't forget to be happy and smile. Life is to short as it is and tomorrow is not promised to any of us. Have a most wonderful day today and everyday.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rosie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-45

    Hi! My name is Rosie. I am never married catholic caucasian woman without kids from Wyandotte, Michigan, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Nicolasa

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I guess there are those who talk the talk but don't know how to walk. would love to find one who knew how to do both! Why am I here? Just....why...beating my head against a wall here. One needle in this cyberstack of hay is all im looking for. Keep finding thorny weeds.Little boys need to keep looking for another playground...won't find one here. Promise.Recent conversation with a Personal Trainer/Model: Me: If I could ask you, how do you deal with women always looking or treating you like a piece of steak?Him: Lol.. Thank you so much! Not always going to be in great shape so better work on that personality as well.. lolMe: well yea...but Im not even close to your stunning looks and I know there is more to a persons beauty than the outside. It can make a handsome one turn ugly in a minute. But what I seem to be having problems with is guys only wanting one thing from me and thats all lol they dont even know me. Its a compliment on one hand but empty in the other. All different guys and all the same. Disgusted lately with them all really.You are right tho,.... As far as the guys go, it's tuff because we are physical beings, while woman are more emotionally based. I think the sooner you accept that the better. Every guy is gonna want sex, find a guy who wants to work to get to that point.Me: yes, this much i undoubtedly know! And I don't mind that part, its how men and women are wired. And sex is great but better with that special someone (yes, emotionally based). Finding that one is the hardest part!! SO! Having said that, here I am. HMMPH! Me: country, tattooed, animal lover, playful, loyal, communicative, work out but (not insanely), head strong, conservative, military mama, reserved, respectful, one on one kinda girl (not a serial dater), caring and loving. I'm the kind of girl who doesn't do things half ass. Say what ya mean, mean what ya say. Action does speak a whole lot louder than words....Can you back it up, or are you just yelling into the wind? Ok maybe I have a bit of a roughness to me as well?,...can't help it, I was raised around guys lol But I can be quite soft, warm and loving with the right person. Team player--but "team" as in my partnership with a man, not as in a relationship with the entire soccer team "team" HA! :) I love to laugh....most times it's at myself just cause if I didn't find some humor in some of the things life throws at me, I might have to be in a straight jacket! Don't seem to act my age (or look it from what I am told). Younger gravitate to me. Won't settle tho I don't expect perfection and don't want it expected of me either. Love to laugh but know when to be serious. Love a new adventure. Miss romance. What happened to that anyway? Why are most guys out for "it" (between their legs), and not "it" (inside their chest) anymore? Its such a turn off when guys just talk about "it" as tho "it" is unattached to the rest of the body. ya know what I mean? Inanimate. You know we are connected to it all..Mind, heart, spirit, body. That "wired" thing,...see above again. Some of you need to think before you speak. yea? Not attracted to overweight, older, non white men. Sorry, its just not for me. We are old enough at this point to know what we like and don't. Right? Oh yea,...and when if I say six pack, and beer comes to your mind, probably need to keep going. Drunks are a no go. Social drinking on occassion is just fine but every nite,..not so much. No drugs, no married, no BS...no drama! ain't nobody got time for that! If you think we may have some things in common, message me. Any questions, just ask.... but don't waste my time, or yours, with one line messages or if its pretty obvious we are not a match. Good luck to ya'll Who knows. I don't tend to plan things out...kinda go with the flow...cliche but true..its not where you are, or what you are doing, but who you are with!

  • Sandee

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Well lets see, I am a hardworking Career oriented lady who is honest, kind ,loyal and has a good sense of humour ! I am not a drama queen and not into playing games !! Love spending time with Family and Friendsdoing outdoor activities or at Formal gatherings !I am looking for a serious relationship with a man who is honest very important trait, smart whohas his own interests and some we can enjoy together! kind and a loyal man,with a good sense of humour which is sexy! Looking for a man to be a friend first, lover and then more in the future ! I will spoil you rotten if you are deserving lol I will treat you like a king and expect to be treated like a queen in return !If you have kids great ! If not its fine too ! All the best to you all in the pursuit of Love ! First Date , to meet for a Coffee or Drink and see if there is a connection ; chemistry between us.

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