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Lysanne, 49

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About Me

You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.- Sam Keen.I am a happy and positive person, kind, warm and always smiling. Love a good joke and am a passionate, affectionate and incorrigible romantic. I was born in Kiev, Ukraine and came to America 25 years ago. I had a happy childhood. Growing up I have learned to swim, tried cross-country ski. Performed in the Drama Theater, played keyboard and sang backup in a High School band. Learned how to play the piano in music school (my Mom made me do it). I'm a good cook and still love to make my traditional childhood Ukrainian and Russian dishes. I taught myself how to speak and read English. Took 3 years Salsa dancing lessons, loved it! I have one son who is 28. Also have four beautiful daughters who will steal your heart, oldest is in college. I'm not looking for a father for them, they have one; just for a great male role model. We are a very happy bunch! It could be anything: cup of coffee/tea or glass of wine with great conversation, a walk, or a casual dinner, somewhere not loud so we can hear each other, etc.I am looking for a heterosexual (Im not a prejudice person) Gentleman. Who enjoys doing things outdoors, but also enjoys quiet times at home. Someone who enjoys regular dates just the two of us, but also enjoys sledding or hiking with the kids and watching PG movies with popcorn and hot chocolate! I'm not into extreme thrills activities, more of a cautious type. I am a mother and I like children. If you are a father, that’s great too. In Profile my answer is NO to wanting more kids, meaning newborns. Well, unless they’re grandkids ;) I'm not in a hurry but am looking for serious relationship. And just to make it clear, I want to take my time to get to know each other first. I am looking for a Gentleman. This is our chance! "There is a freedom that comes in having nothing to hide. Living a life of integrity allows you this freedom."Honesty is very important to me.I don't understand what men have to gain in posting their age younger than they are. The truth will come out...it's still a lie that would make you wonder: "What else did you lie about?"No thank you!PS ****I will respond only after seeing your photo. I would like to see your RECENT (within a year!) photo too. Would like to see your photo without sunglasses and baseball hats, please! Also, when you're 15 and + feet away, or your picture is sideway or upside down (there is a rotate button!) it's very hard to really see you!!! I'm divorced since 04; if you're recently separated we're not a good match.No one likes rejection but we would never know if it will work unless we try.Thank you for reading my Profile; and if you are interested *** we can get to know each other :)Here we go, gentlemen, take a first step to communicate.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lucina

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ; antique stores, all kinds of music (except bad Rap and bad country) but I especially love Motown, R& I like to randomly sing and dance around, sometimes it embarrasses my teenage nieces, but they have pretty much learned to get over it! I enjoy keeping a nice home and making holiday dinners, lacy and silky clothes (mostly pajamas), French perfume, natural, organic, vanilla, rose or patchouli baths (I'm trying my best to go organic with everything... when I can), working out, absolutely love rafting the river and I enjoy going on nature walks, preferably with somebody nice. My favorite television is the Antiques Roadshow, PBS mysteries, Futurama, Family Guy, Spongebob, SNL and SOA. I like traditional Gothic literature, not the new stuff. I love old classic romantic movies from the ***s-..... so well, you get the picture!People tell me that I'm on the dreamy side: Rainbows, unicorns, fairies, angels... and I guess that is mostly true, but I am a realist too and I know how to take care of business. I am what some people would call a "girly girl", I work out everyday but I'm not athletic or thin. I am a talented, creative, curvy woman who is very comfortable being feminine. I am not masculine at all. If you like cowgirls or tomboys, you probably won't like me very much! I am a bit of a grease monkey for my job, but that's about as boyish as I get and that's only because I have to do it. I am a strict vegetarian for myself and talk about it a lot, but I accept outside choices for others, I just don't like it. My political views tend to lean more to the left than the right, some of the time I'm in the middle. I believe in freedom for everyone not just the privileged. If you are a devout republican (like my ex) then be prepared for a debate or do not discuss it with me. Probably my favorite thing to do with my boyfriend is watch tv together in bed!-informed propaganda they were attempting to report!I think it would be great to meet someone nice for friendship and doing fun things together: dinner, movies, playing board games, talking, road trips, museums, art galleries, concerts or whatever else.If a romance develops that would be wonderful! If not, then fond friendship is fine with me and I feel happy to say that I have had the great fortune to retain all of my previous boyfriends as friends, some closer friends than others, but still I am friendly towards all of them regardless of whatever happened in the past. I tend to prefer the type of man who is successful in his field and who knows how to value and treat a lady. I prefer the type of man who knows how to protect and take care of a woman. But I am not completely selfish, I know how to give and receive and once a relationship is established, I am very loyal and supportive. I am proud to be a Christian, not prideful, but rather happy to know and serve the Lord, and I try to live up to the meaning of what that truly means everyday. So, because my faith defines Who I Am, I do ask if you contact me, please be a genuine Christian because otherwise we probably would not be compatible and I have learned that there is no exception to this, at least for me there's not.I would like to meet someone who makes me smile, who doesn't feel the need to control me or be my superior, who isn't out to use me. Ultimately I would like to meet the right man for more than just friendship but everyone is not a perfect fit and I don't want to jam a square peg into a round hole! If you think I could be the right girl for you, then please do not be shy and send me a quick note. But please know this, I am not a player nor am I interested in meeting any players or anyone who is searching for an "intimate encounter" (ie, one night stand). I have learned that some men say that they are a Christian, but they certainly do not always act like one! So, please do not contact me or respond to my inquiry if a meaningless, casual intimacy is your intention. If you are not divorced or actually single, then we should not starting communicating. Thank you for taking the time to read this and I sincerely wish all the best to everyone on here searching for their true love or perhaps just a compatible mate. My love and best to everyone! I think for a first date, going for coffee only, preferably in a bookstore and looking at books, talking and getting to know one another. If that worked out, then for the second date, I think going to lunch and then a nice walk along the river would be fun. For a third date, dinner and a movie, then going home for coffee and desert afterward and maybe playing a board game or cards, talking or even watching a movie on TV. I am always up for antiquing, too or going to museums, art shows, the theater, or wine tasting is fun. But I'm pretty much open to as whatever my date and I agree would be fun or interesting.

  • Mikki

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love life and love to laugh. I think I have a great sense of humor and enjoy being playful, life is too short to not have a good time. I am a loyal, kind and trustworthy person who is excited about where my life is headed. I was married for 16 years so I have been out of the dating scene for quite some time. I love to spend time outside! My kids are and have always been my first priority. However, they are at their dads every other weekend and that leaves me to explore my singleness. I would love to meet an interesting and funny man to spend time with! I like a lot of different kinds of music. I love to camp and hang out with friends. I love to garden and grow flowers and vegetables. I am working on living a more healthy life and taking better care of me. People always tell me I know no strangers, I enjoy conversations and people. I like to think that if I am with the right person, I can have a great time no matter what we are doing. Drop me a line... I have found that walking makes the conversation easy and a good strong cup of coffee for the walk is even better!

  • Jael

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I'm at a point in my life where I am ready to look for more than just being friends, although I think we need to start out as friends and get to know each other first. I'd rather be single for the right reasons, than with someone for the wrong ones.I love just about anything outdoors, and photography is very much part of that. :o) I enjoy helping/working with people directly, and am now self employed as a housekeeper. I used to volunteer for a rural fire department, and Habitat for Humanities. I prefer to look at the glass as half full, and I can smile at just about anything-even myself-especially myself. I'm not looking for someone that "needs" to be with me, rather one that "wants" to be there. I am a low-maintenance kind of a gal, absolutely not a "Barbie." You get what you see~and I don't even mind the occasional guys night out.I am not much for jealousy, control issues or mind games, so if you are, please keep looking. My family and friends are very important to me, and they are very much a part of my life. I realize we have all a past, so let's just leave that there, and move on. I'm ready, are you? I think a good first date should be casual. Not too much noise (like a movie) to give you a chance to chat and get to know each other a little. Coffee? Lunch? A walk?If we get to the "meet" stage, and you decide I'm not for you, a courtesy "pass/reply" would be much appreciated. I don't expect a spark with everyone. Thank you for reading my profile! Good luck fishing!

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