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Jael, 46

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About Me

I'm at a point in my life where I am ready to look for more than just being friends, although I think we need to start out as friends and get to know each other first. I'd rather be single for the right reasons, than with someone for the wrong ones.I love just about anything outdoors, and photography is very much part of that. :o) I enjoy helping/working with people directly, and am now self employed as a housekeeper. I used to volunteer for a rural fire department, and Habitat for Humanities. I prefer to look at the glass as half full, and I can smile at just about anything-even myself-especially myself. I'm not looking for someone that "needs" to be with me, rather one that "wants" to be there. I am a low-maintenance kind of a gal, absolutely not a "Barbie." You get what you see~and I don't even mind the occasional guys night out.I am not much for jealousy, control issues or mind games, so if you are, please keep looking. My family and friends are very important to me, and they are very much a part of my life. I realize we have all a past, so let's just leave that there, and move on. I'm ready, are you? I think a good first date should be casual. Not too much noise (like a movie) to give you a chance to chat and get to know each other a little. Coffee? Lunch? A walk?If we get to the "meet" stage, and you decide I'm not for you, a courtesy "pass/reply" would be much appreciated. I don't expect a spark with everyone. Thank you for reading my profile! Good luck fishing!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shantell

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am an easy going gal, who wants to enjoy the outdoors and many smiles. I Know that busy schedules mean we have many interests and often time a part, but we will feel together when we are not, and respect our differences.I really don't look at the "meet me" or "favorites," so If you make me either of those please, just *** date doesn't matter, its who you are with that makes it special and fun.

  • Shyla

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a very happy woman who is thankful for the many blessings in my life. I have a wonderful family and great friends that I love to spend time with. We often have dinner parties, or casual get-togethers. My favorite nights out are listening to live music and dancing. I almost always have tickets to an upcoming concert. If U2 is on tour I will be seeing them....more than once. Most days you will find me at the gym, I call it my second home. Health and fitness are important to me and I'm looking for someone who also makes it a priority. I also love going out for great food and wine which is part of the reason I love my gym :) Animals are a big part of my life, I live with 2 very well mannered and well groomed dogs. Unless you are eating, in which case they will beg...we aren't perfect here. I also have show horses, who are also well trained and well groomed, but don't beg as much as the dogs. I enjoy going to Mariners and Sounders games, especially when they win. Travel has been a big part of my life, and I would love to be with someone who enjoys that as well. Tahiti is my favorite place that I have been to, so far. I love to read, especially biographies and educational books. I do yoga, for the physical, emotional, and spiritual benefits. I like balance in my life, working hard balanced with lots of time to laugh and have fun and really enjoy life, I'm looking for someone to share that with me. The man I am interested in is:Healthy and takes care of himself, exercises and is in decent shape.Has a positive attitude and is happy with his life.Has integrity, keeps his word, you can count on him. Values family and friends. Is interested in self discovery.Is financially responsible and stable.Is kind and compassionate.Is affectionate and romantic.Is able and willing to communicate, even when it's a tough subject.Has a great sense of humor and can make me laugh.Loves music and will go to concerts and listen to local live music with me. Bonus points if you can sing and play an *** travel, especially to sunny places.Understands that my idea of camping is staying at a hotel without room service....****Update on Oct 24th. Since I cannot hide my profile without paying to upgrade I will apologize if I do not respond to your message. I just wanted to take a break without having to completely delete my profile and then having to recreate it from scratch when I wanted to come back.**** After a meet for coffee type introduction, a great first date would begin at a place with an intimate atmosphere where we could talk over a really good glass of wine. Delicious food would follow... could be seafood, Mediterranean, Thai, French, a great steak house, would love to try your favorite place. If it is nice weather, then a place with outdoor seating and a view would be lovely. If it's rainy or cold, then a cozy atmosphere with candles sounds perfect. After dinner I would love to go listen to live music, dancing would be a bonus. I think a first date needs to provide the opportunity to get to know each other better without too many distractions. Movies and sporting events are better for later dates.

  • Mathilde

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    ******No Inmates******Yes...this is a lot to read...but it gives you a good idea of who I am. :) I'm just looking for friends first. I do still have all my warm and fuzzy dreams of finding my soul mate...someone to share a perfectly normal, boring and wonderful night curled up on the couch watching a movie...or sitting around with a bottle of Jack as we do spot-on impressions of our co-workers that we don't like...lol...or eating a big bowl of hamburger gravy at 12:00 on a rainy Sunday and then spooning up for a nice long nap. :). I like normal and comfortable and I think it's what you do together most days of the year and at home that are the most important things to look for in a person.What I like in a man...I like tall or taller than me and a man with some meat on him...lol...good for snuggling! I also like blue collar, maybe a little redneck or good ole boy...lol..but sweet, kind and passionate where it counts...a gentleman..affectionate..I'm not into the motorcycle thing..but I do like a big truck...I like to be treated like a lady and I like to treat a good man like a man.;). Big muscles and big bank account...not important...big heart...super important :).More about me: I'm a romantic person, I wake up happy or at least positive, I stop and smell the roses, I love a great sense of humor, people that never smile bum me out...I don't like arguing and angst. Things I absolutely do not like (tolerate) or bend on: If you have a criminal history I do not, will not and can not hang out with you, same with drugs, no drugs users need apply. Seriously...those are biggies and there is no compromise. I also don't like dead-beat or rotten parents. There's nothing worse than seeing a child hurt, humiliated, *** neglected by a parent. Same with animals, same with your mama. It's all so telling and bad/cruel behavior towards all people, but especially those that love you the most, is a deal-breaker in friendship and in love with me. I have zero tolerance for angry, hot tempered, overly jealous, violent people. If you have ever hit a woman then go away. Seriously...I live a pretty drama free life and I will not have that kind of ugliness attached to me in any way. I'm a mellow peaceable type B)...lol. We're all grown up here and not youngsters anymore so lets all be realistic and honest...I don't look I did when I was 25 and chances are you don't either..;). I'm not a Barbie doll and I'm not thin...but I'm a friggin sweatheart...lol...;). No false advertising here...:)Lastly....chances are we have all had ex's that treated us poorly or whatever...I'm not your ex-wife and you're not my ex-husband so lets not punish each other for what others have done...Talk about it? Sure...of course...but if you're still bitter....we probably won't get along. I've been hurt too...we all have. I'm moving on..:) Also, though my boys are grown and gone...sigh..I'm very open to children :). I miss having a family with me so bring it on!****is a favorite...he slays me!Music: I'm all over the place!....lol.....***! I always say I can go from June Clever to Joan Jett in 60 seconds...lol! Coffee/Tea...let's chat...honestly. No pressure, no baloney. We might both be super cool, but not a match. Or we might really click and start a Once Upon A Time....

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