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Jael, 46

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About Me

I'm at a point in my life where I am ready to look for more than just being friends, although I think we need to start out as friends and get to know each other first. I'd rather be single for the right reasons, than with someone for the wrong ones.I love just about anything outdoors, and photography is very much part of that. :o) I enjoy helping/working with people directly, and am now self employed as a housekeeper. I used to volunteer for a rural fire department, and Habitat for Humanities. I prefer to look at the glass as half full, and I can smile at just about anything-even myself-especially myself. I'm not looking for someone that "needs" to be with me, rather one that "wants" to be there. I am a low-maintenance kind of a gal, absolutely not a "Barbie." You get what you see~and I don't even mind the occasional guys night out.I am not much for jealousy, control issues or mind games, so if you are, please keep looking. My family and friends are very important to me, and they are very much a part of my life. I realize we have all a past, so let's just leave that there, and move on. I'm ready, are you? I think a good first date should be casual. Not too much noise (like a movie) to give you a chance to chat and get to know each other a little. Coffee? Lunch? A walk?If we get to the "meet" stage, and you decide I'm not for you, a courtesy "pass/reply" would be much appreciated. I don't expect a spark with everyone. Thank you for reading my profile! Good luck fishing!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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