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Mathilde, 46
United States, Michigan, Wixom

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About Me

******No Inmates******Yes...this is a lot to read...but it gives you a good idea of who I am. :) I'm just looking for friends first. I do still have all my warm and fuzzy dreams of finding my soul mate...someone to share a perfectly normal, boring and wonderful night curled up on the couch watching a movie...or sitting around with a bottle of Jack as we do spot-on impressions of our co-workers that we don't like...lol...or eating a big bowl of hamburger gravy at 12:00 on a rainy Sunday and then spooning up for a nice long nap. :). I like normal and comfortable and I think it's what you do together most days of the year and at home that are the most important things to look for in a person.What I like in a man...I like tall or taller than me and a man with some meat on him...lol...good for snuggling! I also like blue collar, maybe a little redneck or good ole boy...lol..but sweet, kind and passionate where it counts...a gentleman..affectionate..I'm not into the motorcycle thing..but I do like a big truck...I like to be treated like a lady and I like to treat a good man like a man.;). Big muscles and big bank account...not important...big heart...super important :).More about me: I'm a romantic person, I wake up happy or at least positive, I stop and smell the roses, I love a great sense of humor, people that never smile bum me out...I don't like arguing and angst. Things I absolutely do not like (tolerate) or bend on: If you have a criminal history I do not, will not and can not hang out with you, same with drugs, no drugs users need apply. Seriously...those are biggies and there is no compromise. I also don't like dead-beat or rotten parents. There's nothing worse than seeing a child hurt, humiliated, *** neglected by a parent. Same with animals, same with your mama. It's all so telling and bad/cruel behavior towards all people, but especially those that love you the most, is a deal-breaker in friendship and in love with me. I have zero tolerance for angry, hot tempered, overly jealous, violent people. If you have ever hit a woman then go away. Seriously...I live a pretty drama free life and I will not have that kind of ugliness attached to me in any way. I'm a mellow peaceable type B)...lol. We're all grown up here and not youngsters anymore so lets all be realistic and honest...I don't look I did when I was 25 and chances are you don't either..;). I'm not a Barbie doll and I'm not thin...but I'm a friggin sweatheart...lol...;). No false advertising here...:)Lastly....chances are we have all had ex's that treated us poorly or whatever...I'm not your ex-wife and you're not my ex-husband so lets not punish each other for what others have done...Talk about it? Sure...of course...but if you're still bitter....we probably won't get along. I've been hurt too...we all have. I'm moving on..:) Also, though my boys are grown and gone...sigh..I'm very open to children :). I miss having a family with me so bring it on!****is a favorite...he slays me!Music: I'm all over the place!....lol.....***! I always say I can go from June Clever to Joan Jett in 60 seconds...lol! Coffee/Tea...let's chat...honestly. No pressure, no baloney. We might both be super cool, but not a match. Or we might really click and start a Once Upon A Time....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Classical Disco Golf
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