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Chaya, 47

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About Me

Whew... Filling out this form was a pain. I answered the questions as honestly as it would allow me to .lol. I am a single mom with 3 teenage boys at home, ages 16,14,***I also have a 24 year old son). First and foremost I am not looking for a dad for my boys or a man to pay all my bills, so relax and take a deep breath.....I have been single since ***, with a brief stint of stupidity in ***where I married again. That lasted about as long as a sneeze. As soon as the band of bondage was on my finger, Mr. All I can say is I'm a dork. So noooooo more marriages for me.I have a car, roof over my head, and work full time. I am in a transitional period of my life. I just finished earning my degree this summer (with honors) so I am now looking for a career where my degree comes in handy. I have been buried in school for two years, and my social life has been nonexistent. I haven't dated during this time and figure it is time to quit being a hermit and see whats outside my front door. About me: What do I say? I am a BBW. I have red hair and green eyes. I am a real woman and not a beauty queen.My heart is as big as my butt. I am comfortable about my age, I have wrinkles and war wounds from having kids. I am just me. I am a bit shy at first, but once I get to know someone then my real self emerges. I have a wicked sense of humor, and not much fazes me. I am easy going, kind, I laugh till tears are rolling, and I am very down to earth. I know a lot of people say that, but with me it is true. My humor will show that once you get to know me. I guess that's the basics about me. You are welcome to say hi and can ask me anything except my weight, bra size and favorite sexual position. If you meet me you can pretty much guess the first 2 things and the 3rd thing is something that will be known IF we are ever in a situation where I need to tell you. I have no idea. depends on the day of the week, the hour of the day and the person I meet. I am pretty open for suggestions. The only thing is I know it will not be naked. Honestly guys , I am not looking for a quickie. I am not a prude at all, l am just not looking for sex only. I am looking for someone who would like to meet and say hi and go from there. I am looking for someone to date, who would like to go to dinner some time, or for coffee, maybe meet me out somewhere, join my friends and I to listen to music and dance. I have been out of the dating scene for a while, so I plan to just "wing it" and see where it leads. lolI am a bit old fashioned, in the sense that I will not message a man first on here (or maybe too chicken lol) So if you want to talk to me, please send a message and say hello

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    This is the tough part.... I love to travel and have been to many places around the world - I enjoy the combination of seeing the beauty of other people, culture, my love for ethnic foods and trying the local wine. I do enjoy nice simple weekends, maybe a weekend drive for some time to explore from a long work week or just spend quality time together.I am also an avid reader and enjoy foreign films with too many interests to list. I am not mainstream, have my act together (I ask that in return), well-balanced and on the chill side.!!!I am a foodie and avoid chain restaurants like the plague. I am very thankful for phone apps when I am traveling. :) Oops, I am trying to keep my sense of humor out of this. Love to laugh and have fun with friends and family.I prefer men that are in relatively good shape, great sense of humor, educated, on the white collar side, committed and not serial daters (I am not one as well) since we are now adults. The urban cowboy (sorry no offense) deal is not my thing, I just do not get it, I guess we all have our own taste.Take Care Gentlemen! First Date, I would say keep it simple... A nice little quiet place in the evening, a glass of wine so we can talk and get to know one another. If things click more wine and some food!! Let's not make things too hard on each other and laugh a lot... ;)

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    He must hurry to be Not a mere raindrop, but the whole sea. A stranded ship needed water to float, But he could not bother to help a boat. He leaped in the sea with a puff and a blare - And nobody even knew he was there! It got under the ships and helped them along, And all the while sang a cheerful song. It worked every step of the way it went, Bringing joy to others, to itself content. At last it came to its journey's end, And welcomed the sea as an old-time friend. "An ocean," it said, "there could not be Except for the millions of drops like me An egotist is not only selfish; he is usually ridiculous as well, for he sets us to wondering as to any possible ground for his exalted opinion of himself. The real workers do not emphasize their superiority to other people, do not even emphasize the differences, but are grateful that they may share in humanity's privilege of rendering service Which one are you? I know which one I am.***\\***Please***\\\***Put This***On Your***Profile If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\---OR who may be suffering from Phone calls to evaluate if its a fit ;-). Then a trip to the MOON! lol oh and one of my favorite songs right now is this one....Who wants to come over and just jump up and down with me to it *** slow dance to this one? ***

  • Silver

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I will be 46 in July and am seeking a person who has experienced some personal growth in their life. I love motorcycles, MMA/UFC,classic cars and trucks painted or not, helicopters, tools, architecture, plants, museums, hiking, art. I am training to learn the art of boxing, not to become one but to learn the sport. It is most excellent exercise. And it teaches nutritional diet and focus of the mind. I have learned some Krav Maga {self defense} my *** out of state .like to learn meditation. I belong to an organization that is grass roots politics, . I enjoy volunteering to do yard work for people and light maintenance.......wasnt enough seats . Dont let this fool you i am very intelligent, strong willed, independant, will not be your mother, sometimes i am too frank, i call it being honest. If you cant say 'shes the one that figured out what was wrong with my truck' then i would not be the right woman for you. I am looking for and a partnership, a deep friendship....nothing more nothing less.....a bonus for me would be that you like Mozart as well as Toolp.s. I am a very high tactile learning....i am constantly moving, wiggling, i talk w my hands and have an expressive face.....if this is too high energy for you, as one person recently told me..........do not even bother w meeting me........thank-you........hey lets pack a picnic throw down a blanket eat then play on the swing set....bet i can get higher than you......sushi on the beach.....race ya to the tides rolling in..l.or hey how about a helicopter tour of mount st helens...........but please dont try to take me to bed on the first, second, fourth, or even tweth date......Ive had enough of that, im tired of fighting those type of men off........and im damn tired of trying to figure who is being honest....... so if your conversatiopn will entail what a **** so and so was what everyone else has done wrong to you dont respond......you are not a responsible , accountable person, you are lying to yourself about who you are.share your part....what you have done to improve who you are........

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