Total users: 61,854,809 Online users: 222,477
Chaya, 47
United States, Michigan, Wixom

Offline, last seen Mon, 16 Mar 2026 14:23:04

About Me

Whew... Filling out this form was a pain. I answered the questions as honestly as it would allow me to .lol. I am a single mom with 3 teenage boys at home, ages 16,14,***I also have a 24 year old son). First and foremost I am not looking for a dad for my boys or a man to pay all my bills, so relax and take a deep breath.....I have been single since ***, with a brief stint of stupidity in ***where I married again. That lasted about as long as a sneeze. As soon as the band of bondage was on my finger, Mr. All I can say is I'm a dork. So noooooo more marriages for me.I have a car, roof over my head, and work full time. I am in a transitional period of my life. I just finished earning my degree this summer (with honors) so I am now looking for a career where my degree comes in handy. I have been buried in school for two years, and my social life has been nonexistent. I haven't dated during this time and figure it is time to quit being a hermit and see whats outside my front door. About me: What do I say? I am a BBW. I have red hair and green eyes. I am a real woman and not a beauty queen.My heart is as big as my butt. I am comfortable about my age, I have wrinkles and war wounds from having kids. I am just me. I am a bit shy at first, but once I get to know someone then my real self emerges. I have a wicked sense of humor, and not much fazes me. I am easy going, kind, I laugh till tears are rolling, and I am very down to earth. I know a lot of people say that, but with me it is true. My humor will show that once you get to know me. I guess that's the basics about me. You are welcome to say hi and can ask me anything except my weight, bra size and favorite sexual position. If you meet me you can pretty much guess the first 2 things and the 3rd thing is something that will be known IF we are ever in a situation where I need to tell you. I have no idea. depends on the day of the week, the hour of the day and the person I meet. I am pretty open for suggestions. The only thing is I know it will not be naked. Honestly guys , I am not looking for a quickie. I am not a prude at all, l am just not looking for sex only. I am looking for someone who would like to meet and say hi and go from there. I am looking for someone to date, who would like to go to dinner some time, or for coffee, maybe meet me out somewhere, join my friends and I to listen to music and dance. I have been out of the dating scene for a while, so I plan to just "wing it" and see where it leads. lolI am a bit old fashioned, in the sense that I will not message a man first on here (or maybe too chicken lol) So if you want to talk to me, please send a message and say hello

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Indian Irish Spanish Vietnamese Martial Arts Romance Sport War
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Thomasena from Wixom | Woman | 46 years old | Leo
    Thomasena

    Offline

    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I've been out of the dating world for a long, long time, but excited to enjoy good company again! I enjoy wine, dancing, any music that you can sing to or relax with, movies, talking, and even a healthy debate when appropriate. My hobbies generally revolve around my kids, but I really want to explore some new activities. I am intrigued by an adventurous spirit and mind. A sense of humor, and the ability to deal with silly sarcasm is a MUST because I like to joke and play. Looking for someone to talk to, laugh with, share things with.......who isn't too serious, has time in their life for a playmate and DOES NOT LIVE FOR THEIR JOB :-). I'm an amazing cook, so says everyone that I know, and I grow my own herbs in the garden. Other than that I can't grow anything ;-) I am happiest when I have a project, plans and someone to laugh with and talk to about everyday life. I'm a touchy, affectionate person, who thinks that life is better when it's stable because there's enough drama and craziness in this world without adding to it. With that being said, baggage and occasional bumps are part of life, and part of what people share in the journey of getting to know each other. As far as music genre's are concerned, I'm a typical girl and I like the sappy stuff, the songs you can sing to at the top of your lungs in the car, tunes that make you work harder at the gym, the music that makes you smile and whatever makes me feel like dancing. Country, rock, pop, jazz, blues, some classical and oldies. I can't really explain what makes me unique, I just am! My only goal, at this exact moment, is to insert some fun, adventure and more smiles into my life :***No expectations or requirements. Whatever works :-)

    Chat
  • Chasidy from Wixom | Woman | 48 years old | Leo
    Chasidy

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Love the outdoors camping, boating, motorcycle riding and traveling. I enjoy BBQing and cooking for family and friends. Love wine tasting and dining and going to the movies. I like living a social and active life style.

    Chat
  • Cora from Wixom | Woman | 48 years old | Gemini
    Cora

    Offline

    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I took a break from here because of the craziness that I was meeting...so please, if you got issues, move on! Also, I like black men, do not think you can persuade me to change, I like what I like!!!!! am an independent woman looking for a man to spoil her. I need someone to make me laugh, I tend to be too serious! I like to cook and watch movies, pretty much a homebody, but also love to travel. I love reading and going to school. I consider myself open-minded and willing to try new things.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: