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Anika, 41

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*****If you do not look like your pics then you will have to buy me drinks until you do.. :)... If you are not educated in some fashion, I will not be interested....If I have to bait your hook or you are a lousy shot, please do not reply...PLEASE have a close up picture of your face so us gals can see if there is an attraction.. and a word of advice, clean your rooms !!! Yes, we are looking behind you to see if your a slob ...lol... ***** Hello everyone and thanks for checking out my profile. Please read it in its entirety before contacting as I will do the same.I find myself somewhere between "The Big Bang Theory" and "Duck Dynasty". I could blow things up and calculate its trajectory.. :) I am a southern woman with a city girl attitude. I clean up well. I love to get my hands dirty. I have great friends and among them, I am famous for my crazy dinners. I am looking for an adventurous guy that will backpack across Europe with me, make out in the Mediterranean Ocean, and live in Phuket on the beach for a month. I'm ready to start crossing off things on my bucketlist (and yours) while I can still run naked into the ocean.I appreciate entrepreneurial spirit. Although I have never been married, I would make a great business owners wife and partner. I am ingenious, supportive, inventive, adventurous, humorous and have always worked hard. Great friend, solid partner and communicates well. I really appreciate a nerdy conversation and a guy that can fix anything. I am a monogamous woman by nature and am seeking one man. He must not live at home with mommy, be an unkind man or bar fly. I am seeking a strong valued, loving man with a bigger build, who has his life in order and is ready for a longterm partner. No offense but I do not find skinny, obese, way older than me, bald with a comb over, drug addict men sexually attractive. We all know how important this connection is in a relationship. Sports, I don't watch them on tv but I'm more than happy to cook, serve drinks and get drunk with the girls while you do :) Things I find important:Sitting next to you in the truck with my hand on your thigh, dancing in the snow, bbqs with friends and family, laying in bed on a rainy day watching movies and eating something delightful, having a fulfilling sex life with my partner, holding hands and kissing, eating and raising/growing organic foods, getting hussied up for a night out with my hunny, working hard and being a solid person. Things I enjoy :The smell of burning leaves and a wood stove, anything that involves getting muddy, camping, 4wheeling, gardening, motorcycles, fixing things, traveling, cooking an incredible meal, photography, hunting, fishing, physics, shopping in Lowe's, and old pick up trucks. I may be looking for something nonexistent, but I'm putting myself out there and if you feel you are similar in nature, I would love to hear from you. Hook up your bass boat and come get me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Marx

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have lived my life believing that the best things in life are worth waiting for. While I still do believe this, some experiences over the past few years have made me realize that life is just too short to take for granted. So, I try to enjoy my life to the fullest while I wait for Mr. Right to come along.Adjectives used to describe me include “down to earth”, funny, fun, out-going, confident and genuine. Most people consider me to be intelligent, but I would much prefer to discuss sports or current events than something I learned in a textbook in college. I am much more a natural kind of girl, than the type that takes 2 hours to get ready for work in the morning; but I still like my manicures and do spend time shopping. Don't worry, I promise not to drag you from store to store, unless you want to go! However, during baseball season, I might ask you to join me at a Yankee game, since I usually buy a ticket plan. I’m not looking for the “perfect guy”, but the guy who is “perfect for me”. He should be intelligent, caring, dependable, have a great sense of humor, value friends and family, have personal and professional goals and ambitions and be open to a meaningful relationship. A love of baseball wouldn't hurt, but it is definitely not a deal breaker. My ideal first date would be one where time flies by. What seems like minutes is actually hours. Looking up and realizing you are the last ones left in the place. It's a product of the great conversation, laughter and mutual attraction. You don't want the night to end, and you can't wait to see each other again. I've gone on first dates to a bar and not even finished one drink, and the date was amazing because of the conversation and the mutual attraction - that's what's important. You know quickly whether you want another date. A kiss goodnight and asking on the first date for a second date are always the best ways to end a first date.

  • Bryanne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello,***- anyone with property and/or in need of a caretaker -- or know someone who does please ***'t knock the self portraits taken in the car or my mirror!! It just means I want you to have updated photos so you know what I look like. I keep my circle small and didn't have anyone to take photos (small circle = less drama). They're not the greatest, so maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised if we meet, although I'm not sure they fully depict my 3D fluffiness ;-)PLEASE - READ!! READ!! READ!! my entire profile BEFORE contacting me. I'm very direct but don't mean to sound aggressive, arrogant or rude.... My intent is to help decide if we might be a good fit. I started a business selling security and learning software to Enterprise & K***school districts nationwide. I've taken a detour from this but am going to go back at it again, all in! So, If you're willing, I could absolutely benefit from your knowledge and experience to help make this successful. **Hint: If you don't have an EDUCATION beyond high school then we won't be a good fit - I'm looking for brains, not brawn. ***Not interested in anyone under age 35.I prefer one-on-one time more than being out in large groups/events. I'd classify myself as the 'girl next door' type, with a good bit of sassy built in ;-o. little girl. I'm a person of integrity, so if you're searching for someone who's loyal, passionate and can be your best friend, then I may be the one for you. I appreciate a gentleman who will open the door for me and have a somewhat traditional mindset when it comes to relationships. I probably won't ***, so please take that step! I'm comfortable letting you take the lead, most of the time. You should know that I don't do the endless ***, totally over it. At the same time, if you can't type more than a few lines and share some things about yourself to get to know each other a little here first, I'm not interested in meeting. Please don't *** snippet of your profile. After several ***, I need to add that I don't discriminate - so PLEASE don't *** I "date men of your race"....Race is a Non-Issue with me! I'm not looking to date a smoker, it's like kissing an ashtray if you're a non-smoker. If you believe I should pay, or want a coffee date because you're cheap, I can assure you we aren't a match ***if you want a coffee/drink date because 'time is of the essence' then you are likely too busy for me. Please, take me to lunch/dinner, a movie (do something) to show you're willing to put time and effort into determining if there's a spark between us!Look like your photo! Mine are fairly recent, I expect yours to be as well. In fact, I just updated mine June 1st ***. I am more than a 'few pounds overweight' for those who take issue with and don't like a thick woman, you will want to keep it movin' I'm working on shedding the extra pounds. If you feel the need to lie about your age or anything else, move on. I don't have the patience or desire to put up with lack of manners or outright deceit. If you're a player, cheater, liar.... If you're too insecure and/or sneaky, always looking for 'the next best thing' and won't leave this and all other dating sites (should we start dating seriously), don't waste our time, as I have ZERO tolerance for such ***, disloyal and disrespectful behavior! You know who you are....Lol! You are the ones who will be here, still alone, in another 3, 4 or 5 years!! Be mature, be real, or be gone.I'm looking for a sweet and generous man. A strong man with a kind heart, who believes in working through our troubles, rather than *** other. A little space is fine, but *** for days and I'm gone. By now you can see I'm strong-minded, but I truly appreciate having a man in my life who I can trust, let take my hand and lead the way. I'm searching for the man who still believes in romance and taking care of his woman. I find intelligence very attractive and love a man with confidence (not arrogance), the ability to show humility is a good thing (“True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.” C.S. Patience is a must, as is willingness to compromise occasionally :-)If you've read this far, Thank you... Seriously. Only a few more things to share -- You won't find me watching sports, or see them on the TV in my home. If that's your interest I don't mind, I'd be happy to hit the mall with your credit card, while you watch the games! I'm a sexy & sensual woman, looking to give ONE special man the attention he deserves. I enjoy being protected, pampered, loved, appreciated and spoiled of course! ;-) The first date should be in a place where we can speak freely, get to know each other better and see if we have chemistry. A casual setting. Someplace we can relax, be ourselves and determine if there should be a second date.

  • Daphne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    **** A quick note: I am not looking for ***/ chat buddies - there is life beyond the computer - if nothing progresses beyond a few days of endless banter, say "it's been nice chatting with ya, good luck in your search", move on, tempus fugit! Life is too short and precious to waste such effort in nothing that will not progress. In fact, say that to everyone! It is only common decency.Also, when we progress to exchanging numbers, again... Not looking for endless texting... The purpose is to make a date and meet up for coffee or dinner...I understand there are plenty of other more beautiful and prettier women than I who like to tease, stroke and boost your ego and waste your time) Rant over lol *****.... wait, never mind, they all die at the end of the movie. A Yin to my yang or a yang to my yin. Anyways, you get the picture. Someone who is an equal and balances me out (yeah, the scale is a bit outta whack). So a bit about me: I'm just a bit shy and quiet when you first met me, yet easy-going and friendly and out-going once you've met me. I am not one to talk your ear off. I've been told that I am funny and make people laugh (not quite sure how to take this -- do they mean I make them laugh as comedienne, or a source of laughter and ridicule - I guess that's up for you to decide. I can and do tend to be sarcastic and snarky but only with good intentions. I love to laugh and not take things too serious (tried that route before, didn't quite work out well for me). Games are only fun when everyone knows and plays by the same rules. I am not a good game player, strategies always ellude me - Sun Tzi would make an example of me. Drama belongs on TV or the movie screen. (I tried to get rid of it but i think the Voodoo priestesses ripped me off) At this point in my life, I want simple and easy...Believe it or not I've made it this far without heavy duty baggage ( i think a lot of it got lost back in ***???? Any ways, I don't have the claim stub, so it doesn't matter) I like 60's and 80's music with a bit of ABBA and Mozart thrown in. But can rock out just as good.I like to learn new things and will try almost anything just about once (maybe). So with that said, I am always learning something new about myself and the world everyday. I just recently discovered that I might have the travel bug and would eventually like visit a few places. But for now, going to Vegas for long weekends is the extent of it. And just once, i would like to do a "guy's weekend in Vegas" the whole whiskey and cigars, all night long at the craps table sort of thing. A bit about you: Someone who enjoys laughing yet knows when to be serious...likes the fine and good things in life yet can appreciate Honest Ed's style. You "give in" to go ballroom dancing one night and "make me" go to a Jay's game the next. You know what Wednesday and Saturday matinees means. You like to volunteer and help out at charity events. There are times for going out or staying in and watching that night t.v line-up. Willing to try out new stuff but also know to stick to the tried and true. And once in awhile sit back and be amazed with what crazy and whacky things civilization is up to.Someone who willing to learn new things with me and teach me things they've learned. You like to suit-up and have legend- wait for it- dary day/nites (bonus if you know what this is in reference to)and go dancing and dining, but you don't mind staying at home and watching T.V. (and yes, we can even watch hockey, football or your guilty pleasure of DWTS***but my club days and nights are long gone and in the past (R.I.P.)But the reality is, we are all just looking someone who can be happy with what we can offer and vice-versa...If you made it this far, yay!If I added you as a favourite - was surfing on the phone and your profile caught my attention for one reason or another. Not for nothing but if you message me, please be able to string more than one word sentences. Good luck and happy fishing. An ideal first meeting would be to just meet up for a coffee or drink on a nice patio and have a conversation to see how things go to.

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