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United States, Michigan, Wayland

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UPDATE ***: Since you have to pay to hide your profile, I have met someone and will not be responding to anymore *** luck to the rest of you, I have actually found a wonderful man on here, it can work:)NO MORE CRAZY PLEASE!! If you are unemployed, psychotic, bi-polar, have multiple personalities, jealousy issues, or have any substance abuse problems, please do not read any further. I am an independent woman, with a full life. I am looking for someone to complete me, not change me. I love to travel, and would love to find someone that would like to see the world.I am passionate and loving and willing to try almost anything once. I am a funny, outgoing, sarcastic, and adventurous person, looking for the same. Good communication skills, honesty, and some semblance of normalcy are critical. I am an inner city English teacher, so nothing surprises me anymore, and good grammar and proper spelling don't hurt. :) If any of this sounds appealing, then I would love to hear from you.Update ***: I feel like I have to add to my profile, if you are looking for a stupid Barbie doll who has no opinion and only looks good on your arm, I am not the one. If you are looking to play games, and waste my time (I don't have much extra time anyway), please keep looking, and lastly if you are married, still hung up on your ex, have extra drama, are looking for a one night stand or booty call, and/or do not know how to be considerate of another persons feelings, please keep going!! Thank you!! Update ***: OMG, seriously are there any men out there that are a little bit normal? Someone who would like to actually date, have some fun, and maybe lead towards a healthy relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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