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Effi, 44

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UPDATE ***: Since you have to pay to hide your profile, I have met someone and will not be responding to anymore *** luck to the rest of you, I have actually found a wonderful man on here, it can work:)NO MORE CRAZY PLEASE!! If you are unemployed, psychotic, bi-polar, have multiple personalities, jealousy issues, or have any substance abuse problems, please do not read any further. I am an independent woman, with a full life. I am looking for someone to complete me, not change me. I love to travel, and would love to find someone that would like to see the world.I am passionate and loving and willing to try almost anything once. I am a funny, outgoing, sarcastic, and adventurous person, looking for the same. Good communication skills, honesty, and some semblance of normalcy are critical. I am an inner city English teacher, so nothing surprises me anymore, and good grammar and proper spelling don't hurt. :) If any of this sounds appealing, then I would love to hear from you.Update ***: I feel like I have to add to my profile, if you are looking for a stupid Barbie doll who has no opinion and only looks good on your arm, I am not the one. If you are looking to play games, and waste my time (I don't have much extra time anyway), please keep looking, and lastly if you are married, still hung up on your ex, have extra drama, are looking for a one night stand or booty call, and/or do not know how to be considerate of another persons feelings, please keep going!! Thank you!! Update ***: OMG, seriously are there any men out there that are a little bit normal? Someone who would like to actually date, have some fun, and maybe lead towards a healthy relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lavonne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am NOT looking to hook up so if you're not that dude please read onI am a very ambitious, confident and outgoing woman who loves life and lives it to the fullest.I have a variety of interests and am always on the goI stand about 5” I write as often as I can and am currently in the process of completing my first novel with ideas for a few moreI take life one day at a time but have goals set for myself and a 5, as well as a 10 year plan and much to do before I retireMusic: I'm strictly hip hop, Neo Soul and some R& My favorite poet is Maya Angelou I am a lyricist who is quite content spending hours playing with words and looking for beatsI appreciate anyone who is out there hustling their demos and trying to make it in this rap game! Do your thangI wouldn't say I'm OCD when it comes to music but if we end up in a 6 hour conversation discussing Pac, Biggie and the Suge Knight conspiracy, that would be fine *winksI'm deeply rooted and well groundedI am a great conversationalist and enjoy discussing anything but politics and religion because nothing good can come out of that lolI was on the debate team in high school and can be quite stubborn at times but usually because I know I'm right ha! Have a sense of humorLaughing is a good thing

  • Quinn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Clearly meeting people the old fashioned way is not working for me. I am meeting wonderful people but none that make my heart skip an extra beat at the thought of them. Hopefully I will find that here, maybe in you.Before I continue, I should be honest with you, I do not check those "want to meet you" msgs when I get them, I just delete, sorry. I figure if someone is interested they will send me a msg. If you are too shy or lazy to put something creative (more than 5 different words) together, we aren't likely to be compatable. Also; I am not here for one night stands, I mean late night coffees/hugs with strangers just seems odd to me. Call me old fashioned. Speaking of that, I don't kiss on a first date. I'm not trying to be negative, I just don't want to waste your time. I am looking for someone with class and intelligence.I bet I just lost 50% of the men who were reading this from just 2 paragraphs. What? 75%, yeah probably.I will start with what you are and then say a bit about myself, so as not to waste your time if you aren't what I am looking for. Simply thinking of you....I'm like that. (smile)You are TALL, I wear heels a lot and am relatively tall to begin with. Please be at least 5'11", the taller the better. Nothing against those of you who are not that tall, I have tried, and it just didn't work for me. Sorry. And please don't tell me you can wear heels, I get that all of the time, (please... let's be realistic) or the really classy guys write and say, "we are all the same lying down..." Definitely NOT the type of guy I am looking for. Guys who call me Sexy, Hun and Babe who have never met me, such a turn off.You are sincere, and are honestly looking to get off this site. I'm not saying after a few dates, you are ready to close your account, but you know what I mean. You live relatively close to me. Hopefully no more than a 30 minute drive. You have a good sense of humour, wit and sarcasm tend to make me laugh the most. You are confident. You must like dogs, I have 2 and I'm not going to lie to you, they can be a bit hyper. You are not clingy/needy and always have your phone in your hand ready to text at all times and thus do not understand that some of us can go hours without even looking at our phone.For the few of you that are still here, I will now say a bit about myself.I am relatively fearless, I travelled a year by myself. A couple years ago, I bought a 48 ft boat, lived on it and fixed it up, and sold it, sorry. I love flipping houses.I am just a simple, girl next door type, very low maintenance. Please do not confuse my confidence for arrogance. I have done almost everything I have wanted in life and am just really happy with who I am. Hope to hear from you... Grocery shopping. No, I am not kidding, it can be so fun, and it needs to be done. If you really want, we could do some renos on my house....(smile)

  • Lee

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Where to start. The basics are above. I live Baseball and NASCAR I like hockey and football. I am as comfortable in jeans shorts or heels. I am a part time photographer and a wanna be writer. I am tired of the games. I believe that relationships are not just for weekends. I like a good morning text or a good night phone call. When I date a man I make an effort and would appreciate the same. This isn't rocket science.. its meeting new people and making new friends and maybe if we're lucky..who knows One last thing... I get it. Bonus if you get it too

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