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UPDATE ***: Since you have to pay to hide your profile, I have met someone and will not be responding to anymore *** luck to the rest of you, I have actually found a wonderful man on here, it can work:)NO MORE CRAZY PLEASE!! If you are unemployed, psychotic, bi-polar, have multiple personalities, jealousy issues, or have any substance abuse problems, please do not read any further. I am an independent woman, with a full life. I am looking for someone to complete me, not change me. I love to travel, and would love to find someone that would like to see the world.I am passionate and loving and willing to try almost anything once. I am a funny, outgoing, sarcastic, and adventurous person, looking for the same. Good communication skills, honesty, and some semblance of normalcy are critical. I am an inner city English teacher, so nothing surprises me anymore, and good grammar and proper spelling don't hurt. :) If any of this sounds appealing, then I would love to hear from you.Update ***: I feel like I have to add to my profile, if you are looking for a stupid Barbie doll who has no opinion and only looks good on your arm, I am not the one. If you are looking to play games, and waste my time (I don't have much extra time anyway), please keep looking, and lastly if you are married, still hung up on your ex, have extra drama, are looking for a one night stand or booty call, and/or do not know how to be considerate of another persons feelings, please keep going!! Thank you!! Update ***: OMG, seriously are there any men out there that are a little bit normal? Someone who would like to actually date, have some fun, and maybe lead towards a healthy relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Quinn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Clearly meeting people the old fashioned way is not working for me. I am meeting wonderful people but none that make my heart skip an extra beat at the thought of them. Hopefully I will find that here, maybe in you.Before I continue, I should be honest with you, I do not check those "want to meet you" msgs when I get them, I just delete, sorry. I figure if someone is interested they will send me a msg. If you are too shy or lazy to put something creative (more than 5 different words) together, we aren't likely to be compatable. Also; I am not here for one night stands, I mean late night coffees/hugs with strangers just seems odd to me. Call me old fashioned. Speaking of that, I don't kiss on a first date. I'm not trying to be negative, I just don't want to waste your time. I am looking for someone with class and intelligence.I bet I just lost 50% of the men who were reading this from just 2 paragraphs. What? 75%, yeah probably.I will start with what you are and then say a bit about myself, so as not to waste your time if you aren't what I am looking for. Simply thinking of you....I'm like that. (smile)You are TALL, I wear heels a lot and am relatively tall to begin with. Please be at least 5'11", the taller the better. Nothing against those of you who are not that tall, I have tried, and it just didn't work for me. Sorry. And please don't tell me you can wear heels, I get that all of the time, (please... let's be realistic) or the really classy guys write and say, "we are all the same lying down..." Definitely NOT the type of guy I am looking for. Guys who call me Sexy, Hun and Babe who have never met me, such a turn off.You are sincere, and are honestly looking to get off this site. I'm not saying after a few dates, you are ready to close your account, but you know what I mean. You live relatively close to me. Hopefully no more than a 30 minute drive. You have a good sense of humour, wit and sarcasm tend to make me laugh the most. You are confident. You must like dogs, I have 2 and I'm not going to lie to you, they can be a bit hyper. You are not clingy/needy and always have your phone in your hand ready to text at all times and thus do not understand that some of us can go hours without even looking at our phone.For the few of you that are still here, I will now say a bit about myself.I am relatively fearless, I travelled a year by myself. A couple years ago, I bought a 48 ft boat, lived on it and fixed it up, and sold it, sorry. I love flipping houses.I am just a simple, girl next door type, very low maintenance. Please do not confuse my confidence for arrogance. I have done almost everything I have wanted in life and am just really happy with who I am. Hope to hear from you... Grocery shopping. No, I am not kidding, it can be so fun, and it needs to be done. If you really want, we could do some renos on my house....(smile)

  • Alexys

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a very kind, honest, compassionate, independent, witty woman. Have been know to be a bit impatient at times but to no avail am working on that. Laughter is the best medicine and if u can't laugh at the silly things you do yourself, your jouney in life will be a very quiet one.. I tend to talk a lot and when asked what I think, I usually have an opinion. I am a hopeless romantic. I enjoy day or weekend get a ways, quiet dinners, to live bands, blues clubs to acoustic even trips to the ocean or Vegas. Being outside, fresh air, hot or cold doesn't matter, sitting on a porch swing or just being outside. I believe in chemistry and karma. If the feelings are not there, not gonna force it, will just end up bloody for the both of us. I am a very selective person when it comes to the people I chose to surround myself and family with. I have a very positive attitude, moralistic values, am financially responsible, take pride in physical appearance and mental agility and am looking for the same. Am waiting for a guy with true compassion, A man that is honest to others as well as himself. One that notices the little things n life and appreciates those things. One that listens just doesn't hear. One that becomes my best friend and I his. Somewhere where we are able to converse and see if the chemistry is there.

  • Margorie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am extremely family oriented and love spending time with my crazy relatives and friends. My job is very important to me and I have been called a workaholic at times, but I prefer career oriented. ( I am good at what I do and proud of it!)I am content to just hang out on the couch at times, but also enjoy hiking and being active. I always have a project going whether it be photography, screen printing t-shirts, making jewelry or perhaps reinventing furniture. Some of my favorite outings include local sport events and area festivals.; Sons. Expect me to sing along!I love good coffee in the morning and a great microbrewed beer or glass of wine at night. I have a love hate relationship with running, I have been trying to be a runner for the past few years. I participate in several 5k and 8k races. Also have done a couple of mud runs which are incredibly fun! I am adventurous and spontaneous, from a last minute wine tour, hiking trip, amusement park or sky diving...I am usually up for it.

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