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UPDATE ***: Since you have to pay to hide your profile, I have met someone and will not be responding to anymore *** luck to the rest of you, I have actually found a wonderful man on here, it can work:)NO MORE CRAZY PLEASE!! If you are unemployed, psychotic, bi-polar, have multiple personalities, jealousy issues, or have any substance abuse problems, please do not read any further. I am an independent woman, with a full life. I am looking for someone to complete me, not change me. I love to travel, and would love to find someone that would like to see the world.I am passionate and loving and willing to try almost anything once. I am a funny, outgoing, sarcastic, and adventurous person, looking for the same. Good communication skills, honesty, and some semblance of normalcy are critical. I am an inner city English teacher, so nothing surprises me anymore, and good grammar and proper spelling don't hurt. :) If any of this sounds appealing, then I would love to hear from you.Update ***: I feel like I have to add to my profile, if you are looking for a stupid Barbie doll who has no opinion and only looks good on your arm, I am not the one. If you are looking to play games, and waste my time (I don't have much extra time anyway), please keep looking, and lastly if you are married, still hung up on your ex, have extra drama, are looking for a one night stand or booty call, and/or do not know how to be considerate of another persons feelings, please keep going!! Thank you!! Update ***: OMG, seriously are there any men out there that are a little bit normal? Someone who would like to actually date, have some fun, and maybe lead towards a healthy relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lakita

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I have two children, that I adore, a full time school schedule, and a house which I seem to chronically be either cleaning or painting. I go the the gym six days a week; it relaxes me and keeps me from the hurting others, and I need at least three hours more sleep a night then I seem to be getting. I will not camp out at your doorstep, or call you every hour to tell you what I'm eating; I just want a solid man who takes care of things...by that I mean himself, his children, keeps life-long friendships, knows a little bit about everything and nothing, and is going to make me want to be a better person--just like him. Being funny is a huge plus. First date, sitting outside any microbrewery and enjoying a nice IPA on a cool afternoon.

  • Karima

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    "I'm gonna make you see ...there's nobody else here, no one like me. I'm special, so special. I got to have some of your attention, give it to me!" - "Brass in Pocket", The PretendersHi there!- not to be put into a box-- are you? Not interested in casual encounters, but friendship is always welcome when there's potential for development into something more significant. This dance is about so many factors: attraction, compatibility, shared goals, geography, lifestyles, timing... Ultimately I seek stimulating conversation, romance and FUN w/ someone who has wit, charisma, a mischievious spirit and a heart of gold. A sparkling smile and bedroom eyes don't hurt a man's case in my book! I am standing on a firm foundation and seek someone the same who knows and loves God (or at least respects my commitment***but evangelical right-leaning types will NOT likely agree w/ me politically or spiritually, sorry). I am educated, cultured and a working professional who pairs best w/ others who are the same. I'm one who believes that although you may not be able to change your circumstances, you can always choose how you view things- attitude is everything and a good one makes all the difference in the world! In the end, what inspires me to take a leap is how someone treats me as well as others and how he makes me FEEL!.. "Imagine a tomboy in lace....." - (Frank Sinatra) Well, there's a "meet" and then there's a DATE...A "meet", being the first time you get together face to face (to see if there's any chemistry & attraction, etc to pursue an actual first date) should be someplace quick, casual and easy- lol, JK)... A bookstore? Coffee shop? Happy Hour? Ice cream parlor? Let's be playful and creative! Now, a first "date" is that well-planned, sweaty-palmed, nervous excitement-inducing event w/ someone you've already met and are crushing on a bit- and that's to be discussed later. ;-)

  • Alise

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    What I'm looking for A to Z:AppreciationButterflies in my stomachCuddlingDiscussionsEscapesFamily-oriented funGenuine supportHumorIntelligenceJudge notKeep good memories aliveLoveMake each other a priorityNever go to bed without calling to say goodnightOpen-mindedPassionate kissesQuality timeRespect each others' feelingsSupport each others' spiritual growthTreat every day together like it's our lastUnderstand and respect our differencesValentine's Day everydayWatch movies togetherX-rated fantasiesYou and me Zero-in on one anotherWhat catches my eye: shaved heads, nice biceps, tatsPet peeves: no smiles in your pics, spelling errors (especially when it's your home town lol) If you get that first date, chances are I'm interested in you. What we do and where we go is irrelevant.

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