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Mae, 42

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About Me

I'll preface this by saying I'm crazy busy at work right now, and may not have time to respond to messages or to develop the type of relationship I eventually want, so I'm changing my goal here to "wants to date, but nothing serious." I'm not looking to jump into a relationship just to be in one. I'm ok being alone. I do hope to find someone to spend some time with, have a few laughs together, and hopefully someday I'll find true love. When I love, I love for good. I'm as loyal as an old hound dog, and just as stubborn. I miss having someone to share my day with. I miss having someone who I just can’t wait to tell that bit of good news to…and someone to comfort me when the news isn’t so good. I want to know that the guy I’m crazy about is mine and mine alone because I don’t like to share. I can go a long time on just the very minimum of affection - but I don't want to do that anymore. I want someone who makes me feel that I'm important to him. That being said, I'm going to be picky this go-round. Being alone isn't a bad thing, and I'm not desperate for a man. I used to respond to every message, but I'm not doing that anymore. If you message me and I don't respond, I'll thank you now for your interest, but I won't waste your time or mine by messaging back and forth. I’m not perfect. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I’m a bad housekeeper. I don’t organize my time well. I’m a bit of a homebody, though I’d love to get out more. I take a while to warm up to new people (guys, especially), but once I get to know you, I'm awful at playing hard to get. But, even though I have my faults, I'm still pretty darn great.Please have your sh*t together. By that, I mean, have reliable means of supporting yourself, be completely over any exes, take care of your kids if you have them, know how to use spell-check and punctuate a complete sentence, and be willing to consider a long term relationship with the right person. I have all of those qualities and more. We'll figure something out together.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Katelin

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    SEEKING: Honest, caring, hard working, ambitious man who is kind and sincere. I am a single, independent strong woman who knows what she wants in life. I am an honest, sincere, loyal, caring, kind, creative, ambitious lady. I like to read, cook, exercise, go for nature walks, bike riding, and love the outdoors. Also, must love movies!! I live a simple quiet lifestyle and looking for someone who also likes this too. I have a daughter who is on her own now and I think I'd like to meet someone who is in the same stage in life as I am rather than someone with young children. If this means dating someone older, I am definitely ok wit this. It is hard to date when you are not at the same stage in life as the other person.PS Please no smokers! Also, no one who just got separated.... For a first date ... whatever feels right... coffee, a walk, dinner....

  • Evia

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am beginning the second half of my life and very much looking forward to all that life has for me. I am still very youthful. I am looking for a gentleman who will treat me like a his queen and in return I will treat you like a king! I enjoy cooking, dancing and new adventures.

  • Daphne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    **** A quick note: I am not looking for ***/ chat buddies - there is life beyond the computer - if nothing progresses beyond a few days of endless banter, say "it's been nice chatting with ya, good luck in your search", move on, tempus fugit! Life is too short and precious to waste such effort in nothing that will not progress. In fact, say that to everyone! It is only common decency.Also, when we progress to exchanging numbers, again... Not looking for endless texting... The purpose is to make a date and meet up for coffee or dinner...I understand there are plenty of other more beautiful and prettier women than I who like to tease, stroke and boost your ego and waste your time) Rant over lol *****.... wait, never mind, they all die at the end of the movie. A Yin to my yang or a yang to my yin. Anyways, you get the picture. Someone who is an equal and balances me out (yeah, the scale is a bit outta whack). So a bit about me: I'm just a bit shy and quiet when you first met me, yet easy-going and friendly and out-going once you've met me. I am not one to talk your ear off. I've been told that I am funny and make people laugh (not quite sure how to take this -- do they mean I make them laugh as comedienne, or a source of laughter and ridicule - I guess that's up for you to decide. I can and do tend to be sarcastic and snarky but only with good intentions. I love to laugh and not take things too serious (tried that route before, didn't quite work out well for me). Games are only fun when everyone knows and plays by the same rules. I am not a good game player, strategies always ellude me - Sun Tzi would make an example of me. Drama belongs on TV or the movie screen. (I tried to get rid of it but i think the Voodoo priestesses ripped me off) At this point in my life, I want simple and easy...Believe it or not I've made it this far without heavy duty baggage ( i think a lot of it got lost back in ***???? Any ways, I don't have the claim stub, so it doesn't matter) I like 60's and 80's music with a bit of ABBA and Mozart thrown in. But can rock out just as good.I like to learn new things and will try almost anything just about once (maybe). So with that said, I am always learning something new about myself and the world everyday. I just recently discovered that I might have the travel bug and would eventually like visit a few places. But for now, going to Vegas for long weekends is the extent of it. And just once, i would like to do a "guy's weekend in Vegas" the whole whiskey and cigars, all night long at the craps table sort of thing. A bit about you: Someone who enjoys laughing yet knows when to be serious...likes the fine and good things in life yet can appreciate Honest Ed's style. You "give in" to go ballroom dancing one night and "make me" go to a Jay's game the next. You know what Wednesday and Saturday matinees means. You like to volunteer and help out at charity events. There are times for going out or staying in and watching that night t.v line-up. Willing to try out new stuff but also know to stick to the tried and true. And once in awhile sit back and be amazed with what crazy and whacky things civilization is up to.Someone who willing to learn new things with me and teach me things they've learned. You like to suit-up and have legend- wait for it- dary day/nites (bonus if you know what this is in reference to)and go dancing and dining, but you don't mind staying at home and watching T.V. (and yes, we can even watch hockey, football or your guilty pleasure of DWTS***but my club days and nights are long gone and in the past (R.I.P.)But the reality is, we are all just looking someone who can be happy with what we can offer and vice-versa...If you made it this far, yay!If I added you as a favourite - was surfing on the phone and your profile caught my attention for one reason or another. Not for nothing but if you message me, please be able to string more than one word sentences. Good luck and happy fishing. An ideal first meeting would be to just meet up for a coffee or drink on a nice patio and have a conversation to see how things go to.

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