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Afton, 44
United States, Michigan, Wayland

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I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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