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Adilene, 44
United States, Michigan, Wayland

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Well, hello there! Nice to meet you and thanks for visiting my page. What are you visiting meetville for? If it’s to share some (virtual, telephonic, and rl) time, then we’ve got similar goals. Endless ***, overnite first dates, sexting, booty calls, pic exchange... not so much. At our age, we’ve all got stories to tell, and I love hearing them. 20 Questions is one of my all-time favorite activities. I like how it helps us to get to know one another, sans the pressure of “making” chemistry happen. It’ll be there or it won’t. No harm, no foul.I'm a peace, love and happiness, boho flowerdy, bright colors, broomstick skirt, live and let live kinda girl. I'm nearly always in a good mood. That's probably mostly because I've gotten old enough to ditch the drama. I try to take delight in at least three things a day and do three good deeds. I giggle a lot, kinda bubbly. I've been accused of being "pollyanna" and "don't know what a stranger is," both of which I take as compliments. I'm that girl in the checkout line at Walmart just striking up conversations with people. I aspire to be the kindest, wisest, happiest person I know. As for work, I aspire to be an Organizational Development and Training Director, followed by becoming a Chief Learning Officer, followed by becoming a life coach. I find myself attracted to intellect, but more often the sweet, dorky kind than the self-glorifying kind. I’m not opposed to you being successful, sharp, and independent, mind you; I’m simply NOT a competitor and am much more impressed with genuine agape than grandstanding (even more impressed if you didn’t have to google “agape”). Also, I’m soft-spoken and prefer the same. I’m a “closet”% patience, joy, pampering, compassion, altruism, generosity, support, and above all, snuggles. My life’s never really held/made time for tv, movies, or most mass media. I’m a bit of a Netflix junkie now, but that still doesn’t make up for decades of missing all those memes and whatnot. I do read, and find other things to do with my time. I like music, and I’m not picky. In the car I keep on 100. I find I really prefer a QUIET house, though. Some folks love “background noise” all the time, but I like to hear myself think.I should share that I’m probably only about a 4 on the “outdoorsy” scale, maybe a 5 on the “college football” scale, only a 1 or 2 on the “Nascar” scale, and about a 4 on the “likes motorcycles” scale.. if you run high in those numbers and need your girl to, too, then hanging out with me might disappoint you. Also, I’m around a 2 on the “fighting” scale… being noncompetitive, I suck at it. So enough about me; tell me a little about you? A good game of 20 questions over coffee or dinner... extended to a walk someplace fun if the date's going well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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