Total users: 60,143,161 Online users: 216,228
Adilene, 44
United States, Michigan, Wayland

Online

About Me

Well, hello there! Nice to meet you and thanks for visiting my page. What are you visiting meetville for? If it’s to share some (virtual, telephonic, and rl) time, then we’ve got similar goals. Endless ***, overnite first dates, sexting, booty calls, pic exchange... not so much. At our age, we’ve all got stories to tell, and I love hearing them. 20 Questions is one of my all-time favorite activities. I like how it helps us to get to know one another, sans the pressure of “making” chemistry happen. It’ll be there or it won’t. No harm, no foul.I'm a peace, love and happiness, boho flowerdy, bright colors, broomstick skirt, live and let live kinda girl. I'm nearly always in a good mood. That's probably mostly because I've gotten old enough to ditch the drama. I try to take delight in at least three things a day and do three good deeds. I giggle a lot, kinda bubbly. I've been accused of being "pollyanna" and "don't know what a stranger is," both of which I take as compliments. I'm that girl in the checkout line at Walmart just striking up conversations with people. I aspire to be the kindest, wisest, happiest person I know. As for work, I aspire to be an Organizational Development and Training Director, followed by becoming a Chief Learning Officer, followed by becoming a life coach. I find myself attracted to intellect, but more often the sweet, dorky kind than the self-glorifying kind. I’m not opposed to you being successful, sharp, and independent, mind you; I’m simply NOT a competitor and am much more impressed with genuine agape than grandstanding (even more impressed if you didn’t have to google “agape”). Also, I’m soft-spoken and prefer the same. I’m a “closet”% patience, joy, pampering, compassion, altruism, generosity, support, and above all, snuggles. My life’s never really held/made time for tv, movies, or most mass media. I’m a bit of a Netflix junkie now, but that still doesn’t make up for decades of missing all those memes and whatnot. I do read, and find other things to do with my time. I like music, and I’m not picky. In the car I keep on 100. I find I really prefer a QUIET house, though. Some folks love “background noise” all the time, but I like to hear myself think.I should share that I’m probably only about a 4 on the “outdoorsy” scale, maybe a 5 on the “college football” scale, only a 1 or 2 on the “Nascar” scale, and about a 4 on the “likes motorcycles” scale.. if you run high in those numbers and need your girl to, too, then hanging out with me might disappoint you. Also, I’m around a 2 on the “fighting” scale… being noncompetitive, I suck at it. So enough about me; tell me a little about you? A good game of 20 questions over coffee or dinner... extended to a walk someplace fun if the date's going well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Animation Documentary War Western
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Afton from Wayland | Woman | 44 years old | Libra
    Afton

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm definitely not the typical female. At least I don't see myself that way. I'm very independent, can take care of myself financially, and am not looking for someone to save me. I don't need to be saved. Smiling is something I love to do and prefer to be around positive, uplifting people. Life is to short. My favorite quote is "Live, Laugh, Love". I enjoy going to the beach. We had a blast! I even ate shark at a local restaurant. Camping is fun whether it's in a cabin or tent, just depends on the time of year. And yes, I can pitch a tent and make an amazing meal over the fire. Cooking is something I'm extremely well at. Actually, before I started my own cleaning company (I have 6 employees***years ago, I used to cook for my neighbors. Back then I was a stay at home mom and really enjoyed helping them. Of course they paid me, I'm not that nice! I do enjoy getting dressed up for a nice dinner out occasionally, but I don't need to be constantly "wined and dined". Going to play a few games of billiards is fun too. I promise to not cry if you win as long as you promise the same;). I used to have a boat and loved going out on the lake or in the river. If you don't have one, that's okay, it's not a deal breaker. I'm more likely to be seen at a garage sale than the mall. Something about that bargain is a natural high for me. I'm not on drugs, I don't pop pills, but I do like wine. To sum it up I think you can tell I love to talk. I'm a very down to earth person. I don't have one fake bone in my body. What you see is what you get. I'm not outspoken, yet not shy either. I'm 44, but when people ask me how old I am they would have never guessed. I've been laughed at many times over this. Yes, I can still get by with wearing a bikini, but please do not ask me to text you any pictures. Basically I signed up for meetville because I am looking to meet some single friends as well as possible relationship with the right person. As for relationship, let's be honest. I agree that looks aren't everything, but if I'm not physically attracted, I'm not going to be interested. This does not mean that I am looking for a model, at all... And, for the men that send me messages like "Hey baby", "Hey sexy", I will not reply. I was faithfully married for 17 years (yes, faithfully) and would never settle for someone that doesn't have the same standards as I do. So, if you feel that you are "God's gift to women", I'm not interested. And, if you just want to text and ***, that doesn't impress me either. IF we plan to meet, lets plan it. If you are the type of man that needs to see what else is going on first with your personal life, that tells me that you would always put me on the back burner. I don't need to be the center of attention, yet I feel any relationship should be where BOTH people think of each other. Lastly, if you do not have time for a future possible relationship, it probably won't work out. I'm not looking to meet someone that I see once a week...Well, If you made it this far, either you have a passion for reading or you like what I wrote. Not necessarily a date. More like "lets see if we click" get together. Something simple such as meeting for a small breakfast, coffee, happy hour drink, whatever we decide.

    Chat
  • Tera from Wayland | Woman | 45 years old | Gemini
    Tera

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a high school German teacher. My pride and joy is my son, who is in his first year of college. I have a variety of interests. I love to travel. I spent most of my 20's living in and traveling around Europe. I enjoy going to concerts,at The Magic Stick and St. I like attending sporting events, and the theater. I am attracted to intelligent,funny, unique men. Someone who likes to laugh and isn't too serious. My family is very important to me, so I'd like to meet someone who loves to be around family. If we share the same interests that's great, but not necessary. I like to learn new things. I do consider myself a city girl. I'm not fond of camping, hunting,or fishing. I do enjoy a beautiful day by the pool or at the beach.I'm looking for a man who will enjoy spending his time with me. Going out and doing things couples do.

    Chat
  • Karima from Wayland | Woman | 45 years old | Sagittarius
    Karima

    Online

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    "I'm gonna make you see ...there's nobody else here, no one like me. I'm special, so special. I got to have some of your attention, give it to me!" - "Brass in Pocket", The PretendersHi there!- not to be put into a box-- are you? Not interested in casual encounters, but friendship is always welcome when there's potential for development into something more significant. This dance is about so many factors: attraction, compatibility, shared goals, geography, lifestyles, timing... Ultimately I seek stimulating conversation, romance and FUN w/ someone who has wit, charisma, a mischievious spirit and a heart of gold. A sparkling smile and bedroom eyes don't hurt a man's case in my book! I am standing on a firm foundation and seek someone the same who knows and loves God (or at least respects my commitment***but evangelical right-leaning types will NOT likely agree w/ me politically or spiritually, sorry). I am educated, cultured and a working professional who pairs best w/ others who are the same. I'm one who believes that although you may not be able to change your circumstances, you can always choose how you view things- attitude is everything and a good one makes all the difference in the world! In the end, what inspires me to take a leap is how someone treats me as well as others and how he makes me FEEL!.. "Imagine a tomboy in lace....." - (Frank Sinatra) Well, there's a "meet" and then there's a DATE...A "meet", being the first time you get together face to face (to see if there's any chemistry & attraction, etc to pursue an actual first date) should be someplace quick, casual and easy- lol, JK)... A bookstore? Coffee shop? Happy Hour? Ice cream parlor? Let's be playful and creative! Now, a first "date" is that well-planned, sweaty-palmed, nervous excitement-inducing event w/ someone you've already met and are crushing on a bit- and that's to be discussed later. ;-)

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: