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Tobie, 41

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About Me

Hello..I'm 41 years young:) Just learning to live again after 18 years of being married.. I don't do drugs and I drink about once or twice a year but not against having fun and drinking a little more often.. I don't want a man that's a drunk or druggie!! I like to laugh a lot.. I Have 3 Great Kids!! My Son is my youngest he's 16.. I LOVe Watching him play baseball...Like sports... I am very independent and I will at least try to do most everything that needs done around my house.. My friends crack up cause I have even fix my car before lol.. Never hurts to try...I have a grandson 6 months old and I love being a grandma:) Must like kids!! I am honest,real,faithful.. Love being a mom 3... I can be a little hard to handle at times..! I like a Nice smile and Teeth ... A man that takes care of himself Because I Take Care Of Myself...Cleanliness is a must!! Thanks For Looking:) Good Luck UPDATE: If You Do Not Have A Picture Don't Bother Send Me A Message!! Also I Am Not Interested In Men Under The Age Of 36.. We'll See:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angla

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    As many of us on here...talking about yourself and trying to capture what's in your heart is not always easy. I am looking for someone who has traditional values...trustworthy, honest, and respectful. Just as many men have stated, I am not looking for drama in my life either. Just want a partner, someone to share all that life has to offer. My best friend, who I can laugh with, take weekend trips with and long vacations. I have had a very successful career and enjoy my profession very much. I work hard, but am learning to play harder. At 45, I no longer want to live to work, prefer to work to live now. A little about me...I am honest, sincere, fun, loving, and enjoy the finer things in life just as much as the simple pleasures. Getting dressed up for a night on the town, going out to dinner, a movie or a home cooked meal and some music are all great to me. I enjoy being active and simply relaxing on a beach. I love adventure just as much as being romantic. Nothing wrong with spending a quiet night at home in the arms of that special someone. I will try most things, at least once. I can be spontaneous and like to surprise my partner with things I know he will love. Can't give away all my secrets...I definitely have a sense of humor and can be playful. Never like being hurtful, harsh or crude. While I am independent and strong, I have a very soft, feminine side to me. I am comfortable in a nice dress or a pair of jeans. I don't love the gym, but I love how it makes me look and feel. Working with a personal trainer has been a great experience, as I love challenges. Being Italian...every occasion involves food! I'd much prefer to go to the gym rather than enjoy a good meal or skip dessert (at least sometimes)! Lol Life is short....Do what you say, say what you mean, and mean what you do! In return, I will do the same for you! Something we agree upon.

  • Tera

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am a high school German teacher. My pride and joy is my son, who is in his first year of college. I have a variety of interests. I love to travel. I spent most of my 20's living in and traveling around Europe. I enjoy going to concerts,at The Magic Stick and St. I like attending sporting events, and the theater. I am attracted to intelligent,funny, unique men. Someone who likes to laugh and isn't too serious. My family is very important to me, so I'd like to meet someone who loves to be around family. If we share the same interests that's great, but not necessary. I like to learn new things. I do consider myself a city girl. I'm not fond of camping, hunting,or fishing. I do enjoy a beautiful day by the pool or at the beach.I'm looking for a man who will enjoy spending his time with me. Going out and doing things couples do.

  • Diedra

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is the part I hate, I am not good at talking about myself, but I will give it a try. I am a little shy at first but once I get to know you I am pretty outgoing. I would describe myself as honest, trustworthy and I believe my friends would tell you that I am a true friend always there…good times and in bad. I am looking for someone who enjoys life and enjoys being w/me as much as I dohim. I would like to become friends and let things grow from there. I am looking for my Mr. Right not my Mr. Right now. I believe in being faithful and would expect him to be faithful as well. In the past I seem to pick the men who don’t know how to do that. I believe in treating people the way you want to be treated. I have one son who is in college, means the world to me. I am a very proud mom; he is the greatest kid anyone could ask for. I have a wonderful family who I am very close to and I spend a lot of time with, so he would need to enjoy my family a much as I do, as I would enjoy his family as well. I love to cook, cuddle on the couch and there is nothing like a GREAT KISS.I will end by saying that having a man in my life is a luxury not a necessity, I don’t have to have a man pay my bills or take care of me financially. I WANT a man who is as crazy about me as I am him; I am looking for that ONE special person who is everything to me. My best friend, my lover, my everything. So if I spark your interest give me a shout. If not I wish you well and hope you find what you are looking for..... Maybe coffee or a drink, get to know one another.

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