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Tobie, 41

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About Me

Hello..I'm 41 years young:) Just learning to live again after 18 years of being married.. I don't do drugs and I drink about once or twice a year but not against having fun and drinking a little more often.. I don't want a man that's a drunk or druggie!! I like to laugh a lot.. I Have 3 Great Kids!! My Son is my youngest he's 16.. I LOVe Watching him play baseball...Like sports... I am very independent and I will at least try to do most everything that needs done around my house.. My friends crack up cause I have even fix my car before lol.. Never hurts to try...I have a grandson 6 months old and I love being a grandma:) Must like kids!! I am honest,real,faithful.. Love being a mom 3... I can be a little hard to handle at times..! I like a Nice smile and Teeth ... A man that takes care of himself Because I Take Care Of Myself...Cleanliness is a must!! Thanks For Looking:) Good Luck UPDATE: If You Do Not Have A Picture Don't Bother Send Me A Message!! Also I Am Not Interested In Men Under The Age Of 36.. We'll See:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bryanne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello,***- anyone with property and/or in need of a caretaker -- or know someone who does please ***'t knock the self portraits taken in the car or my mirror!! It just means I want you to have updated photos so you know what I look like. I keep my circle small and didn't have anyone to take photos (small circle = less drama). They're not the greatest, so maybe you'll be pleasantly surprised if we meet, although I'm not sure they fully depict my 3D fluffiness ;-)PLEASE - READ!! READ!! READ!! my entire profile BEFORE contacting me. I'm very direct but don't mean to sound aggressive, arrogant or rude.... My intent is to help decide if we might be a good fit. I started a business selling security and learning software to Enterprise & K***school districts nationwide. I've taken a detour from this but am going to go back at it again, all in! So, If you're willing, I could absolutely benefit from your knowledge and experience to help make this successful. **Hint: If you don't have an EDUCATION beyond high school then we won't be a good fit - I'm looking for brains, not brawn. ***Not interested in anyone under age 35.I prefer one-on-one time more than being out in large groups/events. I'd classify myself as the 'girl next door' type, with a good bit of sassy built in ;-o. little girl. I'm a person of integrity, so if you're searching for someone who's loyal, passionate and can be your best friend, then I may be the one for you. I appreciate a gentleman who will open the door for me and have a somewhat traditional mindset when it comes to relationships. I probably won't ***, so please take that step! I'm comfortable letting you take the lead, most of the time. You should know that I don't do the endless ***, totally over it. At the same time, if you can't type more than a few lines and share some things about yourself to get to know each other a little here first, I'm not interested in meeting. Please don't *** snippet of your profile. After several ***, I need to add that I don't discriminate - so PLEASE don't *** I "date men of your race"....Race is a Non-Issue with me! I'm not looking to date a smoker, it's like kissing an ashtray if you're a non-smoker. If you believe I should pay, or want a coffee date because you're cheap, I can assure you we aren't a match ***if you want a coffee/drink date because 'time is of the essence' then you are likely too busy for me. Please, take me to lunch/dinner, a movie (do something) to show you're willing to put time and effort into determining if there's a spark between us!Look like your photo! Mine are fairly recent, I expect yours to be as well. In fact, I just updated mine June 1st ***. I am more than a 'few pounds overweight' for those who take issue with and don't like a thick woman, you will want to keep it movin' I'm working on shedding the extra pounds. If you feel the need to lie about your age or anything else, move on. I don't have the patience or desire to put up with lack of manners or outright deceit. If you're a player, cheater, liar.... If you're too insecure and/or sneaky, always looking for 'the next best thing' and won't leave this and all other dating sites (should we start dating seriously), don't waste our time, as I have ZERO tolerance for such ***, disloyal and disrespectful behavior! You know who you are....Lol! You are the ones who will be here, still alone, in another 3, 4 or 5 years!! Be mature, be real, or be gone.I'm looking for a sweet and generous man. A strong man with a kind heart, who believes in working through our troubles, rather than *** other. A little space is fine, but *** for days and I'm gone. By now you can see I'm strong-minded, but I truly appreciate having a man in my life who I can trust, let take my hand and lead the way. I'm searching for the man who still believes in romance and taking care of his woman. I find intelligence very attractive and love a man with confidence (not arrogance), the ability to show humility is a good thing (“True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less.” C.S. Patience is a must, as is willingness to compromise occasionally :-)If you've read this far, Thank you... Seriously. Only a few more things to share -- You won't find me watching sports, or see them on the TV in my home. If that's your interest I don't mind, I'd be happy to hit the mall with your credit card, while you watch the games! I'm a sexy & sensual woman, looking to give ONE special man the attention he deserves. I enjoy being protected, pampered, loved, appreciated and spoiled of course! ;-) The first date should be in a place where we can speak freely, get to know each other better and see if we have chemistry. A casual setting. Someplace we can relax, be ourselves and determine if there should be a second date.

  • Leta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm an independent person who is looking for somebody special to do things with...walks, picnics, beach, skydiving, hiking, apple picking, concerts, plays, cook for, go out to eat with, see a game (I love football), yadda yadda. I'm goofy, affectionate and loyal. It takes me a little bit to trust people, but once I trust you it is unconditional. I am not judgemental (unless I'm people watching) and am not looking for somebody to "change" me. Although I'm no prude, I'm also not a "booty" call, so please don't bother to contact me if that is what you're looking for.I'm undecided about marriage and kids....that being said, I could be swayed in either direction. If it happens, it happens, if it doesn't there's a whole big world out there to see. If you have children I have no problems with being the best "friend" they could have...as long as you don't have 6.I'm honestly looking to find that special somebody to have fun and grow old with.Good luck to all. Decide on a place to meet and go from there?

  • Sarina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a 41 yr old with 2 beautiful children 7 & 6 that are my first priority! I'm a really easy going person that likes to just about everything. I do enjoy just to sit and cuddle with a great movie or sit by a warm campfire! Been with my profession for 15 yrs! I love what I do! My music interest are Country -80's- Rock n Roll. So if u would b interested I'm open to getting to know you! I don't like lazy people!!!!! I'm a big Vikings fan! Supper and a movie or a walk!

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