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Jeniffer, 44
United States, Michigan, Trenton

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About Me

I'm far from perfect, as are you. :-) We all have some sort or another of "baggage". Likely some bad relationships that have affected us & hopefully that we've learned from. I know I have. I can say though, that my life's pretty darn drama free. At this stage in my life, I can't imagine any other way. I do find it amusing that a lot of guys (people ;-) state, "No drama please!". Yet they have loads of it in their lives. js... =)I'm not the freak out type... If there's an issue that can't be fixed, I walk away with my dignity. ;)I wont try to change you...If I don't like you, I won't date you in the first place... :-)I'm not here for "friends"... That doesn't mean I want an "instant relationship"!!! It means I'm not playing games! It means I don't use the "just friends" excuse...I'm not a serial dater & expect the same...If I'm not enough to keep your interest, don't waste my nor your time...I'm a good person & I know my worth & don't take any chit.At the same time, "I'm just a girl, wanting to love & be loved." :) What am I looking\hoping for?Someone that is as crazy about me as I am about them. And it shows!!! Someone with similar interests... Someone that, if they have just 2 minutes to spare, their first thought is to call or text me.Not check their ***, etc...Someone that wakes up & falls asleep, thinking about me... Someone that makes me feel the same...And...A no BS, straightforward, genuine mans man, without being an ass =), that appreciates being taken care of, without ever taking advantage of it! One that can appreciate a sweet, giving, attentive, though strong willed, strong minded, no bs woman, and is looking for something that will last, in the long run...Sorry about this part if it offends you but it will save us both some time.. """If You're Not"""Fairly fit, yet not a stick figure by any means!!!! ie: you're arms/muscles, face are smaller than mine. If you're not Caucasian, Hispanic/Latino, Native American, Hawaiian or a combination of the above & At least 5'7.... Then I'm highly unlikely to respond.... Call me shallow if you want, I'm a very good person & I have no control of what I am attracted to!!! Do you? If so, I know a real Sweet girl I could set you up with!!! Otherwise, don't be childish by writing rude, resentful things to me!! What am I Not looking for?Someone that messages me, even though they don't have any real similar interests as myself.. Someone that doesn't match my description above.. Especially someone that messages me & whines "But I'm a nice guy!" Well, good for you! As well, the man I am looking for is nice! But, nice is Not all there is to attraction! So, please do Not waste your nor my time with such messages...So, if I don't reply to you, please don't take offense! I just refuse to mislead anyone. I don't think of meeting offline so much a first date. More like a first meet. As a female, I take this with a bit of precaution & will meet in a public place for a drink or coffee or such...If she's amazing she won't be easy. If she's easy she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up you're not worthy...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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