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Lilia, 45
United States, Michigan, Trenton

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About Me

Life is all about getting back what we put in. I am working hard at being positive and positive about working hard. My goal is to lead the most stress-free life possible and enjoy living every day. I would like to meet a man who feels the same way. Look~ in our age group we all have a past, we've been hurt, we have faced adversity- this is what makes us who we are and in my case this makes me strong. If you cannot meet new people and trust them until they give you a reason not to and treat them like you've never been hurt then.... well.. then maybe you shouldn't be dating until you work that out. I am happy in life: I live in a great community, have a decent job (two actually), 2 little furbabies who make me smile, grown children who are continuing their journey to be great men, and the desire to meet the final puzzle piece that will fit in and complete the picture.If you are ready for a grown up relationship that includes communication, spending quality time together, and leaving the past behind..... I'm your girl.Just a little information about me when it comes to meetville....... If I get an *** am not interested I don't respond, period. You may think that is rude and you have a right to your opinion, however, I have been online long enough to know it is a losing battle..... if I respond with a kind "thanks but no thanks" the next message I get asks me what the problem is.. then if I don't respond or I try to be diplomatic I get a rude message in return. It never fails and I refuse to battle with someone I had no desire to correspond with to begin with. And I do not respond if you do not have a picture, a picture of YOU, not a sunset or your car or your kid..... This is an INTERNET dating website, you have managed to make a profile so excuses like "I don't know how to add a picture" are unacceptable. We are human, physical attraction is normal, not to mention the people who creep around the internet behind hidden identities. So please have a picture (with all your clothes on).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Country Salsa Greek Portuguese Thai Turkish Vietnamese Fantasy Music Western
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