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Lilia, 45
United States, Michigan, Trenton

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About Me

Life is all about getting back what we put in. I am working hard at being positive and positive about working hard. My goal is to lead the most stress-free life possible and enjoy living every day. I would like to meet a man who feels the same way. Look~ in our age group we all have a past, we've been hurt, we have faced adversity- this is what makes us who we are and in my case this makes me strong. If you cannot meet new people and trust them until they give you a reason not to and treat them like you've never been hurt then.... well.. then maybe you shouldn't be dating until you work that out. I am happy in life: I live in a great community, have a decent job (two actually), 2 little furbabies who make me smile, grown children who are continuing their journey to be great men, and the desire to meet the final puzzle piece that will fit in and complete the picture.If you are ready for a grown up relationship that includes communication, spending quality time together, and leaving the past behind..... I'm your girl.Just a little information about me when it comes to meetville....... If I get an *** am not interested I don't respond, period. You may think that is rude and you have a right to your opinion, however, I have been online long enough to know it is a losing battle..... if I respond with a kind "thanks but no thanks" the next message I get asks me what the problem is.. then if I don't respond or I try to be diplomatic I get a rude message in return. It never fails and I refuse to battle with someone I had no desire to correspond with to begin with. And I do not respond if you do not have a picture, a picture of YOU, not a sunset or your car or your kid..... This is an INTERNET dating website, you have managed to make a profile so excuses like "I don't know how to add a picture" are unacceptable. We are human, physical attraction is normal, not to mention the people who creep around the internet behind hidden identities. So please have a picture (with all your clothes on).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Country Salsa Greek Portuguese Thai Turkish Vietnamese Fantasy Music Western
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    Jeniffer

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm far from perfect, as are you. :-) We all have some sort or another of "baggage". Likely some bad relationships that have affected us & hopefully that we've learned from. I know I have. I can say though, that my life's pretty darn drama free. At this stage in my life, I can't imagine any other way. I do find it amusing that a lot of guys (people ;-) state, "No drama please!". Yet they have loads of it in their lives. js... =)I'm not the freak out type... If there's an issue that can't be fixed, I walk away with my dignity. ;)I wont try to change you...If I don't like you, I won't date you in the first place... :-)I'm not here for "friends"... That doesn't mean I want an "instant relationship"!!! It means I'm not playing games! It means I don't use the "just friends" excuse...I'm not a serial dater & expect the same...If I'm not enough to keep your interest, don't waste my nor your time...I'm a good person & I know my worth & don't take any chit.At the same time, "I'm just a girl, wanting to love & be loved." :) What am I looking\hoping for?Someone that is as crazy about me as I am about them. And it shows!!! Someone with similar interests... Someone that, if they have just 2 minutes to spare, their first thought is to call or text me.Not check their ***, etc...Someone that wakes up & falls asleep, thinking about me... Someone that makes me feel the same...And...A no BS, straightforward, genuine mans man, without being an ass =), that appreciates being taken care of, without ever taking advantage of it! One that can appreciate a sweet, giving, attentive, though strong willed, strong minded, no bs woman, and is looking for something that will last, in the long run...Sorry about this part if it offends you but it will save us both some time.. """If You're Not"""Fairly fit, yet not a stick figure by any means!!!! ie: you're arms/muscles, face are smaller than mine. If you're not Caucasian, Hispanic/Latino, Native American, Hawaiian or a combination of the above & At least 5'7.... Then I'm highly unlikely to respond.... Call me shallow if you want, I'm a very good person & I have no control of what I am attracted to!!! Do you? If so, I know a real Sweet girl I could set you up with!!! Otherwise, don't be childish by writing rude, resentful things to me!! What am I Not looking for?Someone that messages me, even though they don't have any real similar interests as myself.. Someone that doesn't match my description above.. Especially someone that messages me & whines "But I'm a nice guy!" Well, good for you! As well, the man I am looking for is nice! But, nice is Not all there is to attraction! So, please do Not waste your nor my time with such messages...So, if I don't reply to you, please don't take offense! I just refuse to mislead anyone. I don't think of meeting offline so much a first date. More like a first meet. As a female, I take this with a bit of precaution & will meet in a public place for a drink or coffee or such...If she's amazing she won't be easy. If she's easy she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up you're not worthy...

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Living life to the fullest, scholar, athlete. I’m not shy, I’m not easily intimidated, and very confident in my abilities and talents. Look for self actualized people with lots of interests.

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  • Ethyl from Trenton | Woman | 44 years old | Pisces
    Ethyl

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    My hobbies are exercising, seeing movies with lots of action, sicencefiction & occasionally oh yes, chick flicks, I like listening to music 80's & some heavey medal. I love traveling & it's fun, I love animals especially dogs!!! I like reading, taking walks, hiking & having picnics, anything outside, gardening, cooking. I am a very caring, giving person but expect someone to respect me & be a giving person that likes to do things & have fun! If you are looking for sex or to show or brag about your package please move on because I want something more meaningful. On a first date I would like to go for coffee or a drink to talk & get to know a person.

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