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Lilia, 45
United States, Michigan, Trenton

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About Me

Life is all about getting back what we put in. I am working hard at being positive and positive about working hard. My goal is to lead the most stress-free life possible and enjoy living every day. I would like to meet a man who feels the same way. Look~ in our age group we all have a past, we've been hurt, we have faced adversity- this is what makes us who we are and in my case this makes me strong. If you cannot meet new people and trust them until they give you a reason not to and treat them like you've never been hurt then.... well.. then maybe you shouldn't be dating until you work that out. I am happy in life: I live in a great community, have a decent job (two actually), 2 little furbabies who make me smile, grown children who are continuing their journey to be great men, and the desire to meet the final puzzle piece that will fit in and complete the picture.If you are ready for a grown up relationship that includes communication, spending quality time together, and leaving the past behind..... I'm your girl.Just a little information about me when it comes to meetville....... If I get an *** am not interested I don't respond, period. You may think that is rude and you have a right to your opinion, however, I have been online long enough to know it is a losing battle..... if I respond with a kind "thanks but no thanks" the next message I get asks me what the problem is.. then if I don't respond or I try to be diplomatic I get a rude message in return. It never fails and I refuse to battle with someone I had no desire to correspond with to begin with. And I do not respond if you do not have a picture, a picture of YOU, not a sunset or your car or your kid..... This is an INTERNET dating website, you have managed to make a profile so excuses like "I don't know how to add a picture" are unacceptable. We are human, physical attraction is normal, not to mention the people who creep around the internet behind hidden identities. So please have a picture (with all your clothes on).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Country Salsa Greek Portuguese Thai Turkish Vietnamese Fantasy Music Western
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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  • Gigi from Trenton | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    While i can be strong and independent, i have a soft sensitive side that is longing for a partner to look up to, love respect and support.. Nobody should do this alone. It's way to complex. And deserves to be lived together as a unit. Someone to enjoy a loud concert with and a quiet cozy night on the couch. Someone to enjoy a fast paced week and slow weekend with. Someone to enjoy the highs with and mourn the lows with. I am by and large a normal down to earth girl. What you see is what you get. I wear my heart on my sleeve and you probably won't ever have to guess what i am thinking. I have been lucky to have a great and stable sales career which offers me financial and personal freedom. I try to go to the gym ***days a week for mental and physical stimulation. I Played soccer for 15 years. I have cozy and warm house i am proud to called "home" and take great pride in. Two great twin girls who are going to be six in Oct. My friends and family are an extension of me. Little drama in my life. Divorce is biggest drama. And is very amicableUp for mostly everything any time. Love football. Big Giant fan. Are you ready to watch football on Sundays with me? With friends and family. I am looking for a relationship not flings or serialI am not reaching out because i am bored for the evening. Lol. If your too busy or aren't serious , please don't respond. Don't need an *** for a fun yet responsible and grounded man who I can trust, love, support and respect. Who likes a strong woman but knows how and when to support. Who wants to be with but gives me space to do my own things as well. If you don't have the time, energy or desire for a serious relationship than we probably won't work. It takes a lot of work ... To make it work. Nothing worthwhile is easy. Like a man who gets his business done during the day with focus and ambition, but can relax and knows how to have fun at night. Serious and conservative yet playful and edgy. I like a guy who cares about and knows a casual yet trendy style. Jeans / shorts and flip flops are a sexy look it you have nice feet. :). With a throwback t shirt. Looking for someone to bring out the best in me and vice versa. Looking to be someone's partner in all aspects of life. Please be social and family oriented. My friends and family and your friends and family will be an extension of us. My kids and your kids ... If you have .... Will be of the upmost importance. At the core though will be a tremendous friendship and connection between US. something informal to see if we connect. if we do well.....who knows!

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  • Faithe from Trenton | Woman | 41 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am definitely not the average girl, I'm a little nerdy and definitely quirky. I'm usually the odd ball in the bunch or at least that's the way I feel. I'm lucky to work doing what I love and it has become a huge part of my life. It has allowed me to met some amazing and talent people. Sometimes I work ***hr days***days a week/for 3 weeks at a time. This doesn't allow me much of a social life to get out and meet people. Not to mention, I sometimes work weekends and nights. It's all apart of the crazy but wonderful life I live.I have two boys old enough to take care of themselves, although one still lives at home and graduated. I'm looking to meet new people and if we can become friends and it leads to more then that would be great. Of course I do want to meet someone secure in his own skin and life, educated, can make me laugh, be fun, spontaneous; thin or athletic build, patient and have a good job.My personality, I'm nerdy, artsy, goofy, an 80's child, social and shy at the same time, fashionable and unique, passionate, quirky and a big kid all at the same time. Wherever the road leads, but nothing too serious. I want to have fun and get to know the person I'm with as a friend. On the 3rd or 4th date we can decide if we want to continue forward. I'm in no hurry and want to make sure Ive met the right person.

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