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Fidela, 44

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About Me

Hey there! I find men that have a crazy sarcastic wit about them very attractive. A sense of humor is first and foremost one of the best qualities a person can possess. I love having debates and political conversations and I want someone to challenge me. It cracks me up that men on here (and women, I'm sure) can't be polite if someone *** they are not interested in. We are all adults. Being nice really isn't that difficult.While I realize we all have baggage I try very hard to keep my life simple and positive. I hope to find the same in a man. And, if you have a photo of you and a deer you just killed I'm pretty sure we won't get along too well! That, and nipple piercings are sort of dealbreakers!I work as a photojournalist at a newspaper and love my job...I can't imagine doing anything else.Money doesn't impress me and I get bored very quickly when men try to "wow" me with a laundry list of stuff they have bought.While I have some extra pounds on me I do go to the gym, go trail hiking, eat organic, and haven't eaten red meat or pork in almost 25 years. I have an extremely active job that keeps me running around each day. That said I am working on getting into better shape to feel even better about who I am.Many of my friends tell me I could get a wall to talk to me so I would say I can talk about pretty much anything. I randomly talk to strangers and love meeting interesting people that way. I am a very independent but I'm at a point where I really want to share the fun of life with another person. I want someone to cook for when I come home from work and go out to new, fun restaurants and try new food! Someone to pamper and spoil and watch football with all day on Sundays. I have that I don't want children only because realistically at 43 I just don't think it is gonna happen! However, I love kids and would welcome any man that has them.I'm easy-going and I'm up for almost anything....I'm a big explorer and love trying new things. Anything relaxed and fun....I'm not someone to be nervous on a date so I'm up for anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Dating is not the easiest thing to do. I had someone tell me once that he did not have time for me, so why did he even start to date me? Making time is more important to me than the amount of time spent together. I am all about being positive and making the best of every situation. No movies.....dinner and a chance to talk and have some laughs.

  • Lakeisha

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Since this is my first time on a dating site, I will do my best to tell you what you might want to know about me:). I am newly separated. I have 3 boys ages 7, 11 & 13. I spend a lot of time with my boys, but also like to go out & have fun! I love the outdoors, exercising, running, romance & laughing until my belly hurts. My favorite place to spend time in the entire world is the beach. Looking to date someone single, with or without kids. My goal is to work hard at everything I do & not take my life or others for granted, to be the best person I can be, & be happy! You only live once:) My ideal first date would be to do something adventurous & fun! Although, a coffee date or drinks would be great too!

  • Akira

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    First let me say ... If I peeked at your profile and did not message you it does not mean I'm not interested ... Many men do not like plus size women and don't have manners enough to politely say they are not interested if I say hello. Secondly, I do not have an interest in having a relationship with darker (black) men or considerably younger men....no disrespect but it is just a preference. So if you are still reading .. Yeah I'm excited and here's a little bit about me......I am an intelligent, vibrant 44 year old BBW or fluffy chick, however you want to refer to it. But I am so much more than a dress size. I am kind, considerate, loving (to a fault at times), and sensual. I enjoy being active and creative. I adore children, although I have never been able to have any of my own.I love to walk on the beach or go to a theme park and having someone to laugh and share it all with. I love the theatre and movies, although I do not go often as movies are so much better with someone to cuddle against and share popcorn with! I adore nature and love being out by or on the water or walking in the woods (and it’s been years but I love camping too). I am comfortable wandering a flea market in the morning and being dressed for an elegant dinner a few hours later.I am creative and make jewelry and like to sew. I am also a huge Renaissance Faire nut and attend various faire throughout the year dressed in costume. I would love to have someone who would enjoy these events with me. I love crime shows but am not a huge fan or horror movies.My music tastes are varied and usually driven by the setting and my moods, although I am not really a fan or rap or the popular “pop” music. I do love “old” music (50’s up through the 80’s), classic rock, classical music, showtunes, country, and I am a huge fan of celtic music and listen to it often.I don’t know that I have a favorite food, but I tend to avoid spicy foods. I was a country girl born and raised so I am not used to a lot of spices.Oh and p.s. .... A huge pet peeve for me is someone who is trying to gain my interest and can't take the time to use proper English ... "How r u ".

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