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About Me

I asked (in my headline) that you please read this entire description before contacting me so that you don't waste your time or mine. I'm looking for something very specific.I'm not on here looking for a physial relationship, friends with benefits,none of that. In fact, you will NOT get intimacy with me until we have been dating 90 days, maybe longer. I want to be sure that the person I give myself to is one that is spiritually, emotionally and intellectually matched to where I am and where I'm going. I'm not here to judge, only God can do that. However, I will need to find you worthy of my time. In order to fall into that category you would be independent, employed, mobile, respectful, a gentleman, diverse, educated and well rounded.I also prefer African American men. That doesn't mean I'm not open to dating other races, it just means that's where I'm most comfortable and what I'm attracted to.All that being said you might think I'm a b*tch and you might be right. But I'm selective because I deserve the best. If you meet my standards and you are still interested and you're willing to wait on the physical aspect until we really get to know each other what you'll get in return is the most down, ride or die, faithful, supportive partner, friend, lover, companion and woman you'll ever meet in your life. Now...a little about who I am: I love the beach and I love to read. I like sports (football and basketball), I love music (r&b, jazz, Latin). I enjoy amusement parks, swimming, movies, parks, concerts, art shows, cultural festivals. I especially have a soft spot for pitbulls. Please don't judge a dog by their breed but rather by their individual personalites and characters just as we should humans! I have two teenage kids that both still live at home. I work out but not as often as I should, I need motivation! I think the first date is a mans chance to impress a woman. You show me how creative you can be. Any man can take a woman to the movies or to dinner but really how well do you listen?? Show me that you're interested and that you've listened during our conversations and plan something that I will absolutely love and will wow me!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Sanaa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello im Ann. 45 yrs old. I have 4 kids, the youngest is 15 and lives with me.. I like to do just about anything outdoors. Yes my divorce is final. Dont really care for the bars anymore. Dont do drama. I am not looking for a one night stand or a FWB. I am looking for a serious relationship. Anything else you would like to know plz feel free to ask. Im not looking for anyone to take care of me and my daughter. Im doing that myself. Depends on who you are, Sure we will figure something out..Its really up to the both of us...

  • Haydee

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I was here a while ago and I've come to the conclusion meetville is rather like roadkill. You don't want to look . . . but sometimes you just can't help itI'm mainly here for the forums, (yes they're still accessible), but I won't rule out communication with people I find intriguing.First things first...please contact me with more than a “hey”, “hi”, “how’s it going” "how are you" etc . . . If we met on the street that would be enough to start a conversation, but we’re not on the street, and you have a wonderful opportunity to set yourself apart from everyone else. I reserve the right to read/delete any and all messages containing just "how are you" or "wanna chat", or any variation thereof, on the grounds that you clearly failed to read and comprehend the actual text in my profile.***o***Put this***\***on your***\***profile if***\--\***you know***\---\***someone who***\***should be abducted***\-- and anal probed by aliensYou should know that I have weird things happen to me. Randomly. All beyond my control . . . I swear. I don't seek out drama, or cause it, but for some reason weirdness seems to follow me. If we should manage to make it out for a first meet...I would suggest maintaining a safe distance as I fear one day I may actually be struck by lightening. A select few *** . . 1. I once stopped to help a mentally challenged man who had fallen in the street and cut his head and hands. As I was leaning over him to clean his wounds, he reached up and pulled down the collar of my top and treated himself to a good gander at my boobs. I have to give buddy credit...he did what most of you think about doing!2. I was in a cab the other day and the driver farted. Not quietly, but actually leaned over and cranked out a real butt rippler. Hellooooooo.....buddy....did you forget I was there?! I now have no eyelashes or eyebrows. He got no tip.3. My apartment was blown up by someone cooking hash oil in my building. Who the hell blows things up making hash oil?! Was out for 15 months, but I am now back home! Woo Hoo! 4. I'm pretty sure I saw Yoda on the bus one New Year's Eve. He asked me the time. It sounded something like this "It, what time is. Hmmmmmm..."5. A date once picked my nose. Yep. PICKED MY NOSE!!! Wish I was kidding about this one. Nothing like feeling someone elses' finger up your schnoz. You can pick your date and you can pick your nose, but don't pick your date's nose!!6. Almost a year to the day, the apartment building I was staying in temporarily until I could move back into my exploded condo . . . CAUGHT ON FIRE!! Ya just gotta shake your head!Life sure can be entertaining! I love having stories to tell...And bugs are still just wrong. And now...on with the profile...I miss chillin' at home with someone special and then bustin' out in a pillow or tickle fight, wrestling and laughing until our smile muscles hurt. I'm looking forward to finding that again one day and I hope I'm not so old I break a hip while wrestling ;o)I’m like most of you out there, searching for something, someone . . . Why am I still single? It's simple really, I'm waiting to find my best friend.Do I know exactly what I want? Other than my best friend? Not really, but I’m enjoying the journey on the way to finding out who may be right for me. Am I in any sort of rush? Definitely not! Though I will make the time for those who I find special in one-way or another. Will I ever meet that one special man? I honestly don’t know but if I don’t, I find I’m okay with that. Life is amazingly fantastic these days and regardless of what happens romantically, that’s not going to change.’t you go raining on my parade! -..I hate that guy)In short...I don't want to need you. I want to want you. Like a drummer wants to play with a guitar player. It's more fun when you are around, but if you leave, I am fine playing drums by myself. (I 'borrowed' this from another profile . . . okay fine . . . I stole it . . . but it really says it all I think - thanks dude!)I am put-off when rushed into intimacy. I need to be able to take the time to get to know you so let's go slow, be friends first and see if we actually connect and get each other before we throw off our clothes and have wild passionate monkey sex. It's my belief that the best relationships are formed through shared experiences. So rather than me 'enjoying' some of the above experiences by myself, why don't you come share some with me? Just don't pick my nose! That will also put me off!I’m a goof in a fun sort of way, sarcastic, humorous, smart, speak my mind, loyal, honest, and it takes a particular sort of person who can handle my personality, as it’s a strong one. Not everyone likes me and over the years I’ve come to realize that’s okay as I don’t like everyone either! I'm done with the club scene and have been for a long time now. Doesn't mean I don't like to get out and shake my groove thang every once in a while, but nowadays I tend to prefer pubs.I’m active, I do the Grind and BCMC in the spring/summer and in the winter I like to get out snowshoeing. Hiked the Chief for the first time last year and did the Lions as well. I'm looking forward to trying some new hikes next year! I ride my bike to and from work most days and I also try to workout, but I find I get bored easily. I need to find something new that challenges me. I’m open to suggestions! I have absolutely no tolerance for any sort of drama. I’ve been single for quite some time now, all my baggage is safely stowed, and all skeletons have been de-boned. "You don’t love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear" Don't know show said it, but I like the sentiment. If you could hear my song what do you think it would be? We'll cross that bridge if we get to it

  • Aryanna

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi i am a single mom of 2 beautiful girls.I have 1 tattoo that i got over a dare lol..My goal was to quit smoking and i did that a month ago.I love to play pool doesn't matter if i win or loose .I like going for walks or sitting back and watching a movie.If u want to know more ask don't be shy..good luck..............please have a pic when u message me..TY A first date should be decided between both people after the first meet.On A first meet we can go for a coffee,a walk or even a friendly game of pool.

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