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Bessie, 42

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About Me

First & foremost, I am someone's mother, someone's sister, & someone's daughter. Please keep that in mind when you decide you're going to toy with my heart & emotions. Think about how YOU would feel if someone disregarded the feelings of YOUR mother, sister, or daughter. I don't think you'd like to see someone you love get treated like their feelings are insignificant. This is NOT a game. We are all REAL people with real feelings & should all be treated with common courtesy, kindness, & respect. Has no one ever told you to treat others the way you would like to be treated?I'm very friendly, easy to talk to, & get a long with. I must have an old soul because people tell me they feel like they've known me forever. I'm a jeans & t-shirt type of girl but like getting dressed up too. I enjoy conversation or just comfortable silence. I'd rather sit in some dive with good company. I like outdoor activities as I'm not crazy about being cooped up. I go to the gym regularly. I like to keep active. My job keeps me in pretty good shape climbing up & down ladders & scaffolding. I swing a hammer for a living & enjoy every minute of it except when it's freezing cold outside. I have one teenaged child that lives with me & doesn't require a sitter. My schedule is routine yet flexible for the right person. I don't mind making time for someone as long as they are just as inclined to reciprocate. This is not a one way street. Communication & compromise are very important in a relationship.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Dorian

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    If I could get the Mini's top down, I'd drive in the rain with it wide open! Although not necessarily impulsive, I do 'just go' with minimal planning. Generally speaking, I'm fearless and fierce-in the cool way, compassionate and confident, grace-filled and grateful for where my path has taken me! I’m 44 and loving it! I love cooking and eating. While I take a lot of stuff seriously in life, I like to have fun and not take myself so seriously! I like to laugh until I cry at ridiculous jokes and have been known to snarf & snort as well. Outside of the basics that everyone should be expecting, here's what I'm looking for: someone who has that "fire inside"--has an inner energy and confidence that's not about the ego; someone who can argue passionately for what he believes with kindness in his eyes, someone who is not jealous; someone who makes me grin from the other side of the room; someone who can bring me to my knees when his hand slides into the small of my back; someone not intimidated by a strong woman who can rock out to AC DC but loves Neil Diamond. I like to balance my work by having fun with engaging, intelligent, adventuresome, stable people. If a romantic relationship develops, great. If not, that's great, too. I prefer to hang out with people who are not shy, are open about their opinions, like to debate, are not afraid of an intelligent woman who likes an occasional cigar and believes in having two bourbons available: one for sippin' and one for "those" days! I don't fit into any box of how most people think others 'should' be. My life and lifestyle are incredibly unique. I'm the most blessed person on the planet and bring that to others in a rather extraordinary fashion. Although how I live and what I do don't really require belief, they do require a special kind of support that I need in a partner. I do not, however, associate myself with any faith or belief system. I experience the world and move through it in a way most people don't. If you would be embarrassed to tell friends, mom or minister that you're seeing a cool 'healer-chick', we're not a good match. What I do is who I am and it sometimes requires moving through conflict zones to work and play. I'm proficient at things that go bang, like driving fast, hate the top sheet tucked in, am too lazy to regularly wear make-My rules to live by: Be nice. Breathe. That's it. Life is too short for anything more complicated. I forgot to add this: Coffee isn't a date. Wine is. When it comes to dating, I'm kind of old fashioned. Dinner, drinks, maybe an activity before or after. For me, movies are a bad choice for a date. And coffee just isn't a date.

  • Jami

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Adventurer, explorer, curious, generous, outgoing, loving and affectionate partner! I have had some very rewarding relationships in the past but no time to waste, I'm not going to settle! I have a busy life between my own personal interests, family, work and friends, but would love to share this amazing world with that special other half. My happy place is outside, be it hiking, biking, hanging by the ocean or just kicking it in the backyard roasting marshmallows under the stars. I am always up for an adventure and am ready for a spontaneous road trip, or even a chill night snuggling with my man. I am so lucky to have lived around the world and have had many incredible, humbling experiences, but really..life is short and I want to make the most of it today! A huge turn-on for me is a man who is honest and direct, educated, physically fit and will make our relationship a priority.

  • Sherrell

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I see myself married in the next 5 years to a nice sustainable man.I love cooking, traveling, playing tennis and staying active.I am extremely polite and well mannered, and I always create a nice home like atmosphere around me. I am looking for a polite man that could be a good loyal husband and a best friend. go for a walk or grab a coffee

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