Total users: 60,511,923 Online users: 218,143
Dorian, 44
United States, Michigan, Temperance

Offline, last seen Sun, 21 Dec 2025 13:36:51

About Me

If I could get the Mini's top down, I'd drive in the rain with it wide open! Although not necessarily impulsive, I do 'just go' with minimal planning. Generally speaking, I'm fearless and fierce-in the cool way, compassionate and confident, grace-filled and grateful for where my path has taken me! I’m 44 and loving it! I love cooking and eating. While I take a lot of stuff seriously in life, I like to have fun and not take myself so seriously! I like to laugh until I cry at ridiculous jokes and have been known to snarf & snort as well. Outside of the basics that everyone should be expecting, here's what I'm looking for: someone who has that "fire inside"--has an inner energy and confidence that's not about the ego; someone who can argue passionately for what he believes with kindness in his eyes, someone who is not jealous; someone who makes me grin from the other side of the room; someone who can bring me to my knees when his hand slides into the small of my back; someone not intimidated by a strong woman who can rock out to AC DC but loves Neil Diamond. I like to balance my work by having fun with engaging, intelligent, adventuresome, stable people. If a romantic relationship develops, great. If not, that's great, too. I prefer to hang out with people who are not shy, are open about their opinions, like to debate, are not afraid of an intelligent woman who likes an occasional cigar and believes in having two bourbons available: one for sippin' and one for "those" days! I don't fit into any box of how most people think others 'should' be. My life and lifestyle are incredibly unique. I'm the most blessed person on the planet and bring that to others in a rather extraordinary fashion. Although how I live and what I do don't really require belief, they do require a special kind of support that I need in a partner. I do not, however, associate myself with any faith or belief system. I experience the world and move through it in a way most people don't. If you would be embarrassed to tell friends, mom or minister that you're seeing a cool 'healer-chick', we're not a good match. What I do is who I am and it sometimes requires moving through conflict zones to work and play. I'm proficient at things that go bang, like driving fast, hate the top sheet tucked in, am too lazy to regularly wear make-My rules to live by: Be nice. Breathe. That's it. Life is too short for anything more complicated. I forgot to add this: Coffee isn't a date. Wine is. When it comes to dating, I'm kind of old fashioned. Dinner, drinks, maybe an activity before or after. For me, movies are a bad choice for a date. And coffee just isn't a date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Adventure Biography Crime Sci-Fi Bowling
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Margart from Temperance | Woman | 45 years old | Leo
    Margart

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Okay... I'm going to rewrite my profile and make it truly who I am. I'm going to let my freak flag fly. The first version was WAY too dry and nowhere even close to what my true personality actually is.First of all. I am a single mother of FOUR sons. Ya hear me? FOUR boys! Yup. Every time I went to get an ultrasound I was waiting to hear "It's a girl"... Nope. But they stack up good and thank goodness for storage totes. Shoes get nasty... Nothing a little baking soda doesn't cure. Even though my kids are runners, we recycle with bleach, febreeze and baking soda when possible.Now... All of the very funny things about me apply to being the mother of four sons and taking care of a houseful of kids and household chores alone. LIKE: I can't mow grass. I can't work a lawnmower. Every time I get on the mower, I hit a root, get stuck and until one of my older sons bends the blade back into its normal shape, I carve crop circles into the grass and create a cloud of smoke. Are you a landscaper? *** HOT!Next... Ever been in a mini van doing 80 down the Parkway in the dead of winter and all the kids are fighting and ready to kill each other. BUT... You control the windows and YOU have a heated leather seat. You know how to shut them up? I DO... I roll all the windows down but my own, I crank MY heated seat and I don't roll the windows up until they all shut up and apologize (to each other and me!).On the UP side... My oldest won the JV Conference Championship last year for Cross Country. The older two do triathlon and one does long course tri (just short of Olympic Distance). He also runs half marathons and has since he was 12. The oldest is in all honors classes and had over a 93 average in every one of his classes in high school as a freshman.So while there is total insanity, there is structure, discipline and expectation. I do MOST of the parenting alone, I always did, and it seems like I always will. I will accept the credit when credit comes due at my funeral. (not a minute before!)I bet you're wondering about my tender side. Of course I'm tender, loving, kind and gentle. I'm raising four kids and I'm humbled regularly by my life and my situation. I know exactly what I'm grateful for! I count my blessings every day! We might be a traveling circus but it's always an adventure!What do I like to do you wonder? Hmmm..... Well, I like everything, because I....I just do. If you ask me, everyone should want to do anything and everything. Why not...? There's nothing I wouldn't do and nothing I couldn't do and no place I wouldn't go and no place I couldn't go. I should write a Dr. Seuss poem on that... I am into experiential living. Just do it! Shut up... Embark! Engage! No fear!So yes... Here comes the sexy me... Slip into the fairy dress from the teen department. Pair it with feather earrings and a pair of moccasins I've had since college. Put on a head scarf that looks like a latch hook potholder. Add some Opium perfume and slip out the door in the rain to listen to a DEAD cover band.I am a liberal hippie chick. Now... Liberal hippie guys like the hippie chick in me... But conservative guys like the wild streak. I've homebirthed (truth!), I didn't vaccinate my kids (and have had chicken pox and whooping cough), I roll with flower children and I won't take "nonsense" (insert another word) from anybody about who I am.I am sooooo me.... I can't be anybody but me. I would never, in a million years, apologize for who I am because I am salt of the earth, true to my man, true to my family, true to myself, but never say die, unapologetically ..... ME.So....that's it. If you like girls like that... ***! Ha! :) We are going to build a bonfire on the shore by the river in my backyard. I have to make sure you can do this...it's a qualification for dating me. Then we'll hang on my raft and shoot the breeze.

    Chat
  • Bryn from Temperance | Woman | 45 years old | Virgo
    Bryn

    Offline

    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I\'m a very normal, accomplished person. I\'m intelligent, kind, and know who I want and what I want. I think of dating and marriage so I look for true Love and Family for happily ever.

    Chat
  • Tommy from Temperance | Woman | 44 years old | Leo
    Tommy

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Easy going grl that wants 2 have fun;) Do believe a strong relationship begins with friendship and trust 1st. I am looking for my happy ever after, not in 2 playing games or drama. love anything to do with water, swimming, fishing, poolside, beaches, also enjoy bonfires, camping, fourwheelers, cookouts with family and friends, and nascar. I work at a very hard at a sucessful job that i love very much. Looking to find the ***play with on my down time, if u think we could have fun get in touch. Good luck in your search............ nice setting where we can talk and learn more about each other:)

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: