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Acheflour, 41
United States, Michigan, Temperance

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*****Please READ profile BEFORE responding...I do NOT and will NOT respond to Auto Prompts saying "so and so wants to meet you.".... So, I stress that one needs to be honest in their profile. What is the point in lying? Clearly, I am not looking for a one night fling nor paying a bar tab and driving someone home. Honesty in looks, body type...TRUTH!!! No Living with parents or roommates!! The Twenty somethings might go for that... But I am well beyond the "Peter Pan Boys" We all have luggage from life-let's see if our luggage matches!I am looking for a Outgoing, Kind, Humorous, Intelligent, Financially and Emotionally secure MAN. He must be comfortable with who he is and confidant enough to handle a woman with an extreme amount of independence- Not to say that I don't enjoy being pampered from time to time... I just need my space and can't handle being called 10 times a day for no valid reason (once is fine)!!!! Ugggggg....Flashbacks to my last nightmare...since when does a date constitute "instant relationship"....?! OH-BTW yes these are Deal Breakers for Me!!!! I am not a B***H!!! I just Know what I like and Know what I don't. We all have Deal Breakers!!!!! THIS IS WHY HONESTY IS SO IMPORTANT!!!!! Oh, some other dating advice for some Gents out there...showing up half tanked before a first date is a NO! NO! As is proceeding to drive yourself home after having more. Drunk Calling is never cool!!! I am a sucker for Nice STRONG Hands, Eyes and Smile...No Nail Biters-that type of pent up anxiety just plain FREAKS ME OUT!!!!I am using one of my last dates as an example as I am still laughing that the universe was having a Jokey with me...Once I accepted the comedy of the situation and the fact that I could leave after he started quoting "Spock"...I had to be Honest...and Just spell it out...Not Going to Happen...I would like to avoid ever having to do this again. He should have just been up front and then none of this would have happened. I am told that I am funny, witty and often sarcastic...This I will never apologize for or change. If you are too serious or sensitive we will never work. I am looking for friendship/casual dating to start and we can see where things go... That seems to be the most logical approach? :)If you are still reading after all of this and are a positive up beat person- I would love to hear from you. I am always interested in hearing of ones experiences and have plenty to share.Thanks for stopping by. PS: I do not respond to the Auto Prompts that "someone would like to meet you". If you truly are interested in meeting me please have the courage to send a message. If you are married or looking for a fling do NOT even bother messaging me. Oh and if you are Taurus Or Virgo...Just Don't Bother...It will never work....I can't be controlled! :PCheers & Happy Fishing!================================================================================= It would purely depend on the person and what adventure we decide on for the day. It would need to be fun!!! Not into "coffee" dates.I am certainly open to suggestions! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Crime Fantasy Horror
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