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Acheflour, 41

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About Me

*****Please READ profile BEFORE responding...I do NOT and will NOT respond to Auto Prompts saying "so and so wants to meet you.".... So, I stress that one needs to be honest in their profile. What is the point in lying? Clearly, I am not looking for a one night fling nor paying a bar tab and driving someone home. Honesty in looks, body type...TRUTH!!! No Living with parents or roommates!! The Twenty somethings might go for that... But I am well beyond the "Peter Pan Boys" We all have luggage from life-let's see if our luggage matches!I am looking for a Outgoing, Kind, Humorous, Intelligent, Financially and Emotionally secure MAN. He must be comfortable with who he is and confidant enough to handle a woman with an extreme amount of independence- Not to say that I don't enjoy being pampered from time to time... I just need my space and can't handle being called 10 times a day for no valid reason (once is fine)!!!! Ugggggg....Flashbacks to my last nightmare...since when does a date constitute "instant relationship"....?! OH-BTW yes these are Deal Breakers for Me!!!! I am not a B***H!!! I just Know what I like and Know what I don't. We all have Deal Breakers!!!!! THIS IS WHY HONESTY IS SO IMPORTANT!!!!! Oh, some other dating advice for some Gents out there...showing up half tanked before a first date is a NO! NO! As is proceeding to drive yourself home after having more. Drunk Calling is never cool!!! I am a sucker for Nice STRONG Hands, Eyes and Smile...No Nail Biters-that type of pent up anxiety just plain FREAKS ME OUT!!!!I am using one of my last dates as an example as I am still laughing that the universe was having a Jokey with me...Once I accepted the comedy of the situation and the fact that I could leave after he started quoting "Spock"...I had to be Honest...and Just spell it out...Not Going to Happen...I would like to avoid ever having to do this again. He should have just been up front and then none of this would have happened. I am told that I am funny, witty and often sarcastic...This I will never apologize for or change. If you are too serious or sensitive we will never work. I am looking for friendship/casual dating to start and we can see where things go... That seems to be the most logical approach? :)If you are still reading after all of this and are a positive up beat person- I would love to hear from you. I am always interested in hearing of ones experiences and have plenty to share.Thanks for stopping by. PS: I do not respond to the Auto Prompts that "someone would like to meet you". If you truly are interested in meeting me please have the courage to send a message. If you are married or looking for a fling do NOT even bother messaging me. Oh and if you are Taurus Or Virgo...Just Don't Bother...It will never work....I can't be controlled! :PCheers & Happy Fishing!================================================================================= It would purely depend on the person and what adventure we decide on for the day. It would need to be fun!!! Not into "coffee" dates.I am certainly open to suggestions! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ivah

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    How can one describe who they are when the process is incomplete? Each of us is a complex set of human emotions. The fun in finding who you truly are is something that should be explored together! Each of us wants to be love without fear, trusted without questioning and to be needed without demands. To be wanted without restrictions, accepted without change and desired without inhibitions. I have the same basic need that we all long for; wanting to be accepted and loved by that one special person.My friends say that I'm very optimistic and have a bubbly personality. I'm active. I'm looking for someone genuine, warmhearted, and energetic. I want someone who is real, knows what they want, speaks their mind but also loves having fun.

  • Jin

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Does anyone really read this? What can I say? Just like every other woman on here, I love to laugh and spend time in the mountains. I'm a good cook and love to bake , especially cookies and cupcakes. I'm fun and outgoing and passionate. I'm a toucher - I love to touch and be touched. I don't buy into games and will escape at the first sign of one so as not to waste both of our time. The rest? I guess you will have to get to know me to find out. :) I don't have a "type" per say but I do prefer to date someone who is taller than me when I wear heels. And a non smoker. That's a deal breaker. Also, someone who is as passionate as me both in and out of a bedroom. Great conversationalist is a must! And I need someone to also believe that actions speak louder than words. There's too much talk.......I've been single for a long time , busy with career and kids. But now really would love someone to share the fun of life with someone who can teach me something new , show me something different....... As a special person once said to me, this profile gets us to the coffee shop. The rest is up to us.

  • Lorriane

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    My friends know me as an honest, responsible, genuine and fun loving person who has a great sense of humor. I love to Iaugh & be witty and enjoy spending time with people who can do just that. I can be serious or goofy, depending on the topic. Good conversation and communication is key. I am a positive person and look at life's challenges as lessons from which we can grow and become stronger. With that, my marriage ended four years ago and I set out on a journey of personal growth and soul searching to become the best me and parent. There is nothing more important to me than being a positive role model to my son ***and my daughter ***who share my sense of humor, wit & zest for life.I'm happy and secure, love spending time outdoors...sitting on the beach, long walks, BBQ's, fire pits, etc. I don't really watch TV and need to be active. A perfect evening can be anything from going out to dinner and a show, to cooking dinner together and sitting outside talking. It's not about where you go, it's the company you keep.I am looking for that special someone to share my experiences with and hopefully the future with, as my equal. I desire a relationship that is based upon trust, respect and honesty. My ideal match is an honest and genuine person who has similar interests, family values, is ready for a serious committed relationship and is accepting of my children.If this description fits you, I'd love to hear from you. Thanks for reading and happy fishing!

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