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Ember, 41

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About Me

With much debate, I have decided to try to date... BUT with rules. No pressure for sex please... I can't deal with that pressure along with trying to meet new people... I would rather just go out and have fun... I am a single mom with very little time away from my kids. I also don't talk about my kids for there safety so pls don't ask. I use my cell to go online so be aware that it sometimes says I'm online... but I'm not. Looking to make new friends to help my journey through life. Not looking to commit at the moment as I'm working on myself physically & emotionally so I'm not ready to mess anyone else's life. Friendship is composed to smiles , laughs and comradery. Intimate relationships are confusing, sad and require work... A good friendship is more treasured than an intimate relationship especially at this time in my life.I have posted simple pictures of me. No make-up and exactly how I would look when we hang out, although I have recently discovered minimal makeup can enhance. :) Please understand that I'm not looking for a partner. I'm not interested in getting hurt. I'm not available for sex so don't waste your time. All I want is someone to hang with and re-discover living. We can either grab a beverage & go for a walk... or grab a bite to eat and talk...Break the ice and see if we have anything in common What I do NOT want... Someone that wants to have sex with me on the first date !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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  • Win

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    If you really want to know...then take the time to find out, I am an open book. "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." ~---coffee, lunch, etc...

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