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Ember, 41

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About Me

With much debate, I have decided to try to date... BUT with rules. No pressure for sex please... I can't deal with that pressure along with trying to meet new people... I would rather just go out and have fun... I am a single mom with very little time away from my kids. I also don't talk about my kids for there safety so pls don't ask. I use my cell to go online so be aware that it sometimes says I'm online... but I'm not. Looking to make new friends to help my journey through life. Not looking to commit at the moment as I'm working on myself physically & emotionally so I'm not ready to mess anyone else's life. Friendship is composed to smiles , laughs and comradery. Intimate relationships are confusing, sad and require work... A good friendship is more treasured than an intimate relationship especially at this time in my life.I have posted simple pictures of me. No make-up and exactly how I would look when we hang out, although I have recently discovered minimal makeup can enhance. :) Please understand that I'm not looking for a partner. I'm not interested in getting hurt. I'm not available for sex so don't waste your time. All I want is someone to hang with and re-discover living. We can either grab a beverage & go for a walk... or grab a bite to eat and talk...Break the ice and see if we have anything in common What I do NOT want... Someone that wants to have sex with me on the first date !!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm recently divorced and have three children, only one still lives with me. I enjoy cooking out, going for walks, listening to music. Simple things mean the most. My favorite quote is "there are more important things in life than things" I'm looking for someone honest, aren't we all. Lol I believe the best way to start any relationship is by becoming friends first. I'm not here for a "hook up". Just depends, I enjoy going out,but just as happy staying in. Maybe coffee or a drink somewhere.

  • Deven

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Katee

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I like to go out with friends when I get a chance and listen to some karaoke or dance a little, maybe have a few drinks. Sometimes I just sit around and play games on the computer or on the PS3 with the kids. I like to sit and cuddle on the couch watching a good movie sometimes too.I am looking to find someone to hang out with, talk to and see where it goes from there. You have to like kids, if you dont, then no need reading any further. My kids are my life, I have 2 boys and 1 girl.I like about any kind of music.- I like alot more too, this is just a small list of some I like. A quite dinner somewhere would be nice. Possibly a movie depending on how the dinner went. Im not really sure what would be good to do, maybe the date could just surprise me with what we were going to do. :) That could be kinda fun too. Make the plans as we go. As long as its not sushi we are good.

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