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Tam, 41

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About Me

I am a very good hearted person who loves to be with those closest to me. I would help anyone- I'm the friend u call at 2am to come help, and I'll be there at the drop of a hat. I have my act and my life together. I have wonderful kids and a big heart. I am financially self-sufficient. I have long relationships and love big, sometimes life just doesn't work out the way you imagined. But that's ok, I am always looking ahead and at the bright side and all I have to be thankful for. I have always worked very hard, whether that is in school, work or life in general. I love to work out and want someone who enjoys that as well. I gravitate to intelligent, successful, FUNNY men- I love to laugh and be with someone engaging. Physical attraction is very important, but I can't have that with someone who isn't charming, no matter how good looking they are. I would rather have a relationship with someone with average looks and a killer personality. Money doesn't matter to me, but intelligence and drive do....as long as you live life to the fullest, use your talents and work hard I respect that. I'm pretty private, and I don't like to jump into anything. If you're calling me non stop and want some weekend get away first date, no thank you. I want to just make some friends and see where that goes. Very casual first date, like coffee or a drink. If it's meant to be, things will work out naturally. No pressure, I hate that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am someone that is excited about life. I need to be around positive people that have passion. I love art and do it for living. I love to be inspired by others and their uniqueness. Maybe meet for coffee? See if there is any chemistry and go from there.

  • Enriqueta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Shanelle

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Who am I? I’m an intelligent, responsible, loyal person who loves to laugh. I’ve been labeled as ‘the hugger’ by my friends because I believe in letting the important people in my life know how much I appreciate them. I think people hear the bad things in this world all too often. My parents taught me “if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all” and I try to live by that.I have a sense of humor (although it is sometimes considered a little 'off'). I truly believe laughter is the best medicine. I tell it like it is.;Monk-ish."I have two children who keep me busy and laughing and engaged in what is really important in life; you know, like cartoons, video games and halloween costumes. I love many different kinds of music and really enjoy live music. You won't normally find me sitting around watching TV, unless the Packers, Badgers, or Brewers are on.Recent accomplishments - competed in my first triathlon and completed a 100k bike ride (yeah, I'm talking pedal bike)!Things I find attractive in a man? A great sense of humor, good manners, a sense of responsibility and someone who’s ever truthful, even when he knows what he has to say is not what I want to hear.It's hard to put who you really are in this little space - in short, I'm me! And if you'd like to know more, you'll have to contact me so we can chat. Hope to hear from you soon. Open to suggestions!

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