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Tam, 41

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About Me

I am a very good hearted person who loves to be with those closest to me. I would help anyone- I'm the friend u call at 2am to come help, and I'll be there at the drop of a hat. I have my act and my life together. I have wonderful kids and a big heart. I am financially self-sufficient. I have long relationships and love big, sometimes life just doesn't work out the way you imagined. But that's ok, I am always looking ahead and at the bright side and all I have to be thankful for. I have always worked very hard, whether that is in school, work or life in general. I love to work out and want someone who enjoys that as well. I gravitate to intelligent, successful, FUNNY men- I love to laugh and be with someone engaging. Physical attraction is very important, but I can't have that with someone who isn't charming, no matter how good looking they are. I would rather have a relationship with someone with average looks and a killer personality. Money doesn't matter to me, but intelligence and drive do....as long as you live life to the fullest, use your talents and work hard I respect that. I'm pretty private, and I don't like to jump into anything. If you're calling me non stop and want some weekend get away first date, no thank you. I want to just make some friends and see where that goes. Very casual first date, like coffee or a drink. If it's meant to be, things will work out naturally. No pressure, I hate that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rosanna

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hmmmm..what to say! Well, first off, I am a single mom of 3 boys ages 22,17, and 12 and I have 2 grandchildren ages 4 and 1. I work at a long term healthcare facility and have been employed there for 8 years. I hope to further my education and enroll in college courses after the 1st of the year, however, I am currently trying to decide if I want to further my nursing career or become an attorney. As for me, the kind of person I am, what I like, dislike, etc.....I am just a simple country gal, nothing fancy about me, I am most comfortable in a pair of jeans, a t-shirt, and boots. Will wear a dress to church, but ain't too fond of it at all :) I believe myself to be a good person, I try to be good to folks and treat them the way I would want to be treated. I am honest, sincere, and not into playing games with other peoples lives and emotions. I despise lies and deception and have a strong dislike for folks who use others for personal gain. I believe in and love my heavenly father above and am thankful for the many blessings he has so graciously given me, even when I didn't deserve it. Things I enjoy doing include: spending time with my boys and grandchildren, going to the movies, camping, dancing, hunting, fishing, shooting pool, will sing a little karaoke every once in a while, bowling, and sometimes just building a fire in the back yard, listening to some music, eating oysters, and just relaxing. I would like to find that special someone I am meant to share the rest of my life with, however, I am not in a rush to just jump into a relationship, nor am I interested in jumping in bed with anyone. I am not that kinda gal, so if that's what your looking for, you can look right on past me. I want to take time to really get to know someone, see if we are compatible, and build from there. I am not desperate and will not settle for less than what I am looking for in a relationship. I am comfortable in my life and have realized that being alone is not near as bad as....wishing you were. I really don't know what else to say about me. I guess if your interested in knowing more, just ask and I will be glad to tell ya. My idea of a first date would be to possibly go out to eat somewhere, we could talk and get to know eachother a little better and see if there may be a spark of interest there to build on. If so, then maybe go for a walk in the park, or on the beach or by the lake somewhere and continue to just simply talk and find out even more about eachother. I honestly am not a picky person and I don't have just one set way that I believe would be a perfect first date. I really don't go anywhere or get out too much. I just work, come home and take care of lifes day to day stuff. So I am open to suggestions for a first date.

  • Aaren

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi there!If I had just one wish,it would not be for money,fame or fortune. It would just be to find my one true love. Someone who I can have a total connection with. I hope this doesn't sound corny or weird but it's from the heart. Why is it so hard? Where is that guy who is honest,affectionate...romantic(love to snuggle and kiss :)) hard working, good communicator loves animals and kids and just wants a lasting solid relationship? He need not be perfect because I certainly am not, a work in progress I like to say! I would hope we share some common interests but also be our own person by having our own hobbies. I have so many,I could stay busy if I lived to be 100! Let's see,love travel, cooking, being outside,walking,riding my bike,parks of all kinds, the arts,animals,watching movies and going to dinner or coffee are just a few.Oh and I love most music also,and concerts.I think I somewhat have things together and have come a long way as a single parent. I have a house/job and car.Always trying to improve myself and things around me. Try to always stay positive. I have 2 kids,one on her own and another teen.I am very much looking forward to hearing from some great guys!! :)) Coffee!! Love coffee houses! Or always up for suggestions!!

  • Kaela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I\'m pretty simple. I\'m easy going and I enjoy having fun. Don\'t really enjoy the bar scene. Looking for someone that is interested in cars maybe could teach me a thing or two about them.

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