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Ziba, 44

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About Me

My Motto: I mean what I say & I sat what I mean...Don't believe me...try me.I would like to be able to say I've led the good life, but life was hard the first 45 years. I've overcome numerous obstacles along the way and I find I'm still standing here. That tells me God still has plan for my life. I haven't yet accomplished what he sent me here for. Have I figured out what that is? Nope! Giggles...But I do trust in his word and he walks with me everyday.I DO NOT however attend church. In my walk I have found more non--believers. I DO NOT JUDGE LEST I BE JUDGED...As long as someone can accept me and my belief system and my quirks...I will do the same for them.Relationships always require work - Trust, Communication & Passion. But if the working on the relationship is harder than actually having the relationship...perhaps you're in the wrong relationship. If there's no chemistry between us...I will say Thank You, but NO Thank You.I want to enjoy the next half of my life for however long that is. I've done the dating and friend's with benefits and I've done the long term. I've discovered I prefer the long term...I just didn't quite have the right chemistry.The suggestion above says to talk about hobbies and such here...But the truth is...I don't want just anyone knowing and just agreeing to get a date with me. Talk to me. Get to know me. I'm a firm believer in starting early and having a clear calender. If we meet for coffee ( Not STARBUCKS!) and we are having a great time...then why does the date have to stop there? I just don't let protocol stop me. But please DO NOT be fooled into thinking that makes me easy...cause you'd be mistaken. If we curl each other's toes...let's just see what happens.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rosalinda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    "Searching for your soul mate is like finding the perfect stone along the shore, there are many lovely ones that get your attention but the perfect one may be lost among the crowd. Take your time! When you find the right one, you will know because they will be the perfect one for you."

  • Lizette

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm the only person I know who's cut herself on a first-aid kit. I'm surprised that our paths haven't already crossed at the Hyland Cinema, or the Barakat, where I'm laughing as I deal with the sauce from a shwarma dripping down my arm. I've been known to rescue worms stranded on the sidewalk after a rain. My odd extended circle of friends includes a couple of ex-boyfriends, one ex-boyfriend's ex-wife, and another's daughter. I'm hoping you cook: I consider the smoke alarm a kind of oven timer. You've been described as, dare I say it, a nice guy. You recycle. You have a well-developed silly streak. You know the difference between "peek," "peak" and "pique." Bonus points if you refer to females over the age of 18 as women, and open doors for them. (Heck, maybe even open doors for strangers!) You wear glasses. And chances are that you're left handed. I have a great smile and a bounce to my walk. I'm not conventionally pretty, but since many of my admirers have been photographers, artists and graphic designers, I figure I'm probably aesthetically pleasing. During an average year, I read about ***novels (rarely anything that's made it onto a bestseller list) and see 50 movies (many with subtitles - more reading!). I've been rescued from a 20-storey building during a fire department practice session.I'm not looking for someone to "complete me" - frankly, on pretty much every level besides the physical, there's already enough of me. But a partner in crime (especially someone who can drive the getaway car) would be lovely...Grouchy post-script: Clicking "Wants to Meet" is pretty lazy, and I don't think "HI" really counts as a message.

  • Kelsi

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    First of all I cannot believe that it has come to this, that I would have to post the following on a dating website...If you are interested and we click, that's great but if you are a serial texter please go on to the next girl. I'm here to find someone to spend time with, not to use my unlimited text package until my thumbs fall off. With that being said here we go.Music is my passion. I love to sing when I can whether it be weddings, cookouts, karaoke or in my car. I sing and like mostly country but do some classic rock and sometimes a little blues. Love many types of music except rap. I am looking to start a new chapter in my life and reinvent myself. I would like to meet someone who knows how to have a good conversation, not talk trash. I love to talk with people who are lighthearted and have a great sense of humor. I am straightforward and sincere. I'm not an ego builder and don't want any bs thrown my way. I love life and am usually pretty optimistic about what is around the bend.I'm not interested in just "hooking up". I'm looking for some cool people to spend some quality time with. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DATE BUT INTERESTED IN STARTING A BAND WITH A FEMALE SINGER SHOOT ME A MESSAGE. MAY AS WELL GET ALL THE USE I CAN OUT OF THIS SITE :)TO UPDATE AS OF ***I WAS INVITED TO BE A SINGER IN A BAND...FIRST SHOW IN ABOUT A MONTH....LOVIN' IT!! Hard to say what I would like to do on a first date because I would want to do something that interests both of us. Of course would love to go somewhere to sing if that interests the person I'm with or just go listen to some good music somewhere. Maybe a blues show or a good concert. If the conversation is good then I'm just happy to hang out and talk and learn more about you.

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