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Ziba, 44

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About Me

My Motto: I mean what I say & I sat what I mean...Don't believe me...try me.I would like to be able to say I've led the good life, but life was hard the first 45 years. I've overcome numerous obstacles along the way and I find I'm still standing here. That tells me God still has plan for my life. I haven't yet accomplished what he sent me here for. Have I figured out what that is? Nope! Giggles...But I do trust in his word and he walks with me everyday.I DO NOT however attend church. In my walk I have found more non--believers. I DO NOT JUDGE LEST I BE JUDGED...As long as someone can accept me and my belief system and my quirks...I will do the same for them.Relationships always require work - Trust, Communication & Passion. But if the working on the relationship is harder than actually having the relationship...perhaps you're in the wrong relationship. If there's no chemistry between us...I will say Thank You, but NO Thank You.I want to enjoy the next half of my life for however long that is. I've done the dating and friend's with benefits and I've done the long term. I've discovered I prefer the long term...I just didn't quite have the right chemistry.The suggestion above says to talk about hobbies and such here...But the truth is...I don't want just anyone knowing and just agreeing to get a date with me. Talk to me. Get to know me. I'm a firm believer in starting early and having a clear calender. If we meet for coffee ( Not STARBUCKS!) and we are having a great time...then why does the date have to stop there? I just don't let protocol stop me. But please DO NOT be fooled into thinking that makes me easy...cause you'd be mistaken. If we curl each other's toes...let's just see what happens.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Hellen

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well I\'m a really open minded and outgoing person, and am also very spontaneous. I hate not having anything to do and get bored pretty easily. I\'m looking for someone that shares my interests and likes to take care of themselves and stay active.

  • Tomoko

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am in hopes of finding someone special to spend quality time with, not interested in anything longterm unless the chemistry is there...I am no barbie doll, but im not obese I like to think im very well proportioned . so if you like curves and a sexy voluptuous woman Its me SMILE.I am a football fanatic and have to say GO STEELERS .I have 3kids 28,25,13 my 13 yr old is my life I am a dugout mom, during baseball season snd a football mom as well I also love the outdorrs and think i long walk on the waterfront or in a beautiful park would be great for a first date. I love dining out and am old fashioned I guess because cozing up on the couch watching old flicks is just as appealing. If you are interested enough to send me a message and ask me to tell u a little about myself well you should know i am a honest person and that life is not all peaches and cream especially for a divorced single mother, so dont ask if you dont want honesty and if your scared to to take a chance with someone who is ***percent honest and real well im not the one for you. Im very much self sufficient and can take care of me and my son I am not on here for a hand out , and if just a casual date and friendship is all that comes from this well that is a step above the singleness I have had my fill of. So if you would like to try this site for what it is intended for send me a message. Intimate encounters need not respond, nor ***holes. On the first date I think it should be spontanious, depending on the mood. I like to take things as they come .planning tends to drain the fun out of first immpressions.

  • Kelsi

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    First of all I cannot believe that it has come to this, that I would have to post the following on a dating website...If you are interested and we click, that's great but if you are a serial texter please go on to the next girl. I'm here to find someone to spend time with, not to use my unlimited text package until my thumbs fall off. With that being said here we go.Music is my passion. I love to sing when I can whether it be weddings, cookouts, karaoke or in my car. I sing and like mostly country but do some classic rock and sometimes a little blues. Love many types of music except rap. I am looking to start a new chapter in my life and reinvent myself. I would like to meet someone who knows how to have a good conversation, not talk trash. I love to talk with people who are lighthearted and have a great sense of humor. I am straightforward and sincere. I'm not an ego builder and don't want any bs thrown my way. I love life and am usually pretty optimistic about what is around the bend.I'm not interested in just "hooking up". I'm looking for some cool people to spend some quality time with. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DATE BUT INTERESTED IN STARTING A BAND WITH A FEMALE SINGER SHOOT ME A MESSAGE. MAY AS WELL GET ALL THE USE I CAN OUT OF THIS SITE :)TO UPDATE AS OF ***I WAS INVITED TO BE A SINGER IN A BAND...FIRST SHOW IN ABOUT A MONTH....LOVIN' IT!! Hard to say what I would like to do on a first date because I would want to do something that interests both of us. Of course would love to go somewhere to sing if that interests the person I'm with or just go listen to some good music somewhere. Maybe a blues show or a good concert. If the conversation is good then I'm just happy to hang out and talk and learn more about you.

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