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Valarie, 37

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About Me

I love to laugh, love to be outside (which can be tricky since we live in the Great NW LOL), love to read, bike, shop, hike, cook (although I enjoy it far more when I'm cooking with someone else), travel, ride my quads ***raptor) in the dirt or at the dunes, kissing & PDA in general, play around with my kids, have grown up nights out, have a cold beer on a hot day, take day trips to no where particular & love to drive fast (minus children) etc. Bonfires are a great summer pastime, but hot tubs on a snowy night at a log cabin on the mountain is something I enjoy as well. I'm comfortable in my Keens & a baseball hat but I look great in a pair of heels with a night on the town dancing the night away. I'm 37, widowed, have three amazing young girls, an adorable pug who thinks she's a farm dog trapped in a tiny body to complete our crazy country home. :)I am quick whitted, hard working, sassy ;), VERY physically affectionate, and an amazing mom. I've been told I'm high maintenance ... but worth it! LOL (Although I don't think I really am that high maintenance... lol). I love to camp, although can I admit I prefer trailers to tents (& I have both!)?; loving this weather so we can head back to the dunes! I attend church occasionally (non-denominational) & would definitely prefer my future "partner" to attend with me. I am blessed to have a career that i love, I own my own home, and yes I drive a Suburban ... but it's super cool LOL.I am looking for someone to be my best friend, to try new things with, to enjoy life with me, romance me, to stay up late & watch movies with, or build a bonfire & share a drink under the stars, go camping, raise our family together, be passionate in an amazing love affair with; every day/every room/every way, emotionally connect with, travel with, laugh our asses off, wrestle in the kitchen, make memories with, and just to have fun together. A man who is rugged, honest, and appreciate his partner & their family. A man who will not only stimulate me intellectually but as well as physically ...basically the best relationship of my life. No pressure!Physically, I'm 5'4", sexy, curvy (not a Barbie but still rocking it), busty, big blue eyes, shoulder length hair that is brown with golden highlights. I am a girly girl complete with dressing up in heels to go out, getting pedicures & massages, and even have a shopping addiction. But I can handle & look great in holey jeans & baseball hat sitting around the bonfire. I guess I enjoy the best of both worlds... Definitely attracted to the same!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    There is always time for love, just have to rearrange a few things!!!

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Well, I just got back from spending 10 days on Oahu, HI. And absolutely fell in love with the people and the Island. I've been a mellow girl my whole lifPpe, and didn't realize I've always been a Hawaiian girl. Makes me believe in reincarnation... Almost. But now I know where I want to be.I know these are always somewhat lame! How to sell or explain yourself if a paragraph. But I can say, I am a very unique individual.. I know people say that.. but I can only pretend for about an hour to be like everyone else.. I'm a total contradiction! I am 3 or 4 opposing things at once... complicated. But NOT boring! I love to laugh, I'm rather clumsy, I have my blonde moment's where I say the oddest things, but they are always funny! If this was a Friend's episode, I'd be Phoebe. IBut I'm also a bit of a Tomboy - Frog hunting, Paintball and FOOTBALL!! I am not a Seahawks fan, I am a Seahawks Atheletic supporter!! And I like beer - Also a fan of the ka de Vod and some scotch, my Geno and I like Cutty. I think most reality shows are fake, especially The Bachelor and Bachelorette, fake, fake, fake! I have adventures by myself all the time! Just as an example: I went to the gorge ALL by myself! And I met some VERY cool people and had a great time! I am a pirate. ***Talk like a pirate day! I have a flight suit, that I wear for no reason at all! Camping, paintballing, working in the yard, grocery shopping, etc... its really cool! So many pocket's!I love to meet new people and hear their story's. I love music and concert's, (Jason Mraz and Matt Nathanson, maybe Gavin Degraw? Hoping AFI will be back soon!! And I've been kicking meself for missing Tool at the Key Arena a few years back...)and I'm a big fan of the car karaoke!! Course the other driver's probably hate me!I'm super fun! Love to laugh, mostly at myself. People watching for the absurd.. I seem to notice the silliest things that no one else seems to see?? So I could be imagining it??? Unless I am just more magical then everyone else! I'm a really good friend, I try to always bring a gift for the Host or Hostess, and clean up during the party as well as after. I'm amazing at giving advice for everyone else but myself! I can be embarassing.. cause I get a little too enthusiastic.. But I have manner's and know when to be girly too.I'm trying to get into college ***; So right now, I'm just trying to relax and have no pressure anything.. I got out of a very one sideded relationship, if that's what you could call it? Looking back it was me being way toooo available, for someone I thought the world of. And who was ultimately playing tic-tac-toe, he didn't even call me on my birthday! And even now he has this pull over me.. kind of like an addiction...So I am trying to be healthy and recognize this and cut that cord. I also only date my friend's, (gasp! shudder!), cause I want to be able to talk to any said person's and have them around my other friends and family! And seriously you should only date your friends, cause you know which one of your friends is datable! And which one stays in the "Friend Zone". - Write that down!And if you actually read any of this, I am only looking for a man of faith, I am a proud Christian.And no, I don't want to hang out. Picnic on a Ferry Boat or going to a Seahawks game, Jimmy's on 1st first for breakfast and then after the game a Tatupu dog ( Cheese dog with onions and cream cheese! Kiss's might not be such a good idea though!)Although a picnic at Gasworks park is nice too! At night! And a trip to the Troll!

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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