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Jolanda, 36

United States, Michigan, Southgate

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About Me

I am an honest and open-minded person. I love music, movies, art, tattoos & piercings, anything with an adrenaline rush, and travel. I've only been to warm, tropical places on vacation as of yet, but I would love to explore Europe, Asia, South America, Africa, and Australia and all small islands in between. My music tastes are all over the board. I love classic rock, 80's, pop, rock, rap, industrial, electronic, alternative, meditation, and even gregorian chant (extra points if you know what that is). I'm not a huge sports fan but love to watch live motoX and ice hockey. I've lived everywhere from S. I love to go camping and fishing. But, I also love to go out to a nice dinner and dancing... However, sometimes nothing beats staying home and doing absolutely nothing, just because we can. I am intelligent, educated, witty, and sarcastic. I love great banter and if I spar with you, chances are that I'm attracted to you in some way. I am confident and independent, but would love to share my life with the right person. I don't think those things have to be mutually exclusive. I appreciate honesty and constructive criticism, and strive to be the best me possible. I will never be perfect, nor will I expect you to be. I can admit my mistakes and laugh at myself on a regular basis. I love animals and think that there's something wrong with a person if they don't. I'm organized and a little OC, but spontaneous and fun as well. I don't believe in superstitions but believe my lucky number is 13... I had the benefit of being an only child as well as having siblings. My family is small but my heart is huge. I love to laugh and am not afraid to cry, sometimes both at the same time. I've been called a princess on more than one occasion and do like to be spoiled at times, but I'm also a bit of a tomboy at heart. I've always related better to men than women, mostly because I don't like drama. I like someone who is confident but not coc.ky, stable but spontaneous, and just generally fun to be around with a good sense of humor. If you think you can handle me (and sometimes I do need a handler), send me a message and maybe we can chat...***updates: i now have 2 piercings, feel free to ask where they are, no, not where you think, pervert, get your mind out of the gutter LOLanyway, if you're fake, aren't interested in putting any effort into spending at least a little bit of effort "nurturing" the possibility of a relationship sometime in the near future, or are just a completely shallow DB who can't carry on at least a mildly intellgent conversation, i'm definitely not the girl for you... i'm certainly not a negative person in the slightest, i'm just tired of the games - i refuse to play unless they're fun, and drama just isn't! :) also, just because i viewed your profile and didn't send a message doesn't mean i wouldn't like you, i'm just tired of always being the one to send the first message... come on guys, this is the internet, it's easy i promise! lol the worst than can happen is you don't meet the right person, but could potentially meet a really awesome friend :)life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you deal with it... would you rather be right or would you rather be happy? :)*** I am a big fan of fun first dates. Doing something where there's an opportunity to talk and get to know eachother a bit, but not the expectation of constantly talking is great. Finding something to do that we have in common is vital. I'd love to go to an amusement park and ride the rollercoasters, go for a walk on the beach at sunset, ride dirt bikes through the woods, or just go to dinner and a movie. I think anything can be a great time as long as you're in the right company.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Italian Japanese Animation Horror Western
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