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Steven, 37
United States, Michigan, Southgate

Offline, last seen Sun, 31 May 2026 01:50:16

About Me

Ok. I'm tired of what everyone writes... I want someone honest, loyal, drama-free... blah, blah, blah! WELL NO KIDDING. Who is going to say I want someone who lies, cheats and has drama??? ha ha You want honesty? Here you go!!!!!..Ok, now reality ;***You know how to compromise and are your own person. I don't want to fulfill any void you have. I want to add to your life, but not BE your entire life.And what just will not be acceptable, sorry, I have standards:1) You are the same age as my father or closer to my 14 year old's age. You like older women? That's nice, I like men my age. You can keep up with me and want to date someone 20 years younger? Again, that's nice, I don't date my father's friends. 2) You are in between jobs or live with your mom... Sorry! I have a good job and support myself and 2 girls - not going to be supporting you as well.3) You still play "games" in this dating world, are too immature to show any feelings or feel the need to show off and brag about yourself - yuck, yuck and4) You are clingy or bossy. I am not clingy and can not stand a "needy" man nor can I stand someone who thinks they are my father. *Some people are saying my profile is superficial. That tells me they are insecure in the first place because the men who message me that they like my profile are more attractive to me off the bat anyway. If you don't like my profile, why do you message me? Anyway, back to being superficial... So do you guys like it when you meet a girl and she has nothing going for herself and needs you to step in and take care of her? Ok, well I don't like that either especially in a man. ESPECIALLY IN A MAN. If you don't follow, I respect that. I'm not superficial. I just want to be equally yolked. You should know something about that as well if you message me.* And just because this needs to be longer...someone pointed out I didn't take the time to say anything about myself, but just talked about what I do or do not want. Point taken! So... I have 2 beautiful daughters that are the center of my universe. My oldest daughter plays competitive volleyball so I spend countless weekends and evenings in gyms being her biggest fan. I work very hard and am passionate about my career. I've been known to bring work home with me. I'm always trying to balance the career woman/mom and homemaker roles. I love both and never feel like I have quite enough time for either. I'm very into self care and love dressing up and looking pretty. Yes, a total girly girl. However, I also love throwing on sweats and putting my hair in a ponytail and calling it a day. I'm not scared of getting dirty and love outdoor activities. (well most of them) The summer ones, camping, hiking, boating, etc. I can cook! I love to work out, but haven't had the as much time for it lately as I would like. I love God and will always put Him first in my life. I spent time after my divorce healing and not immediately jumping into the dating world. I took a year off to self reflect and "deal with it". I respect that everyone has a past, but I don't want to pay for what someone else has done to you. It's always best to take time off and not jump from relationship to relationship. Baggage isn't cute. I won't pursue a man and I expect him to pursue me. Guess I'm a bit old fashion when it comes to that. I am the boss at work so at home I appreciate the door being opened, the trash being taken out, etc. I like to feel like I'm with someone who can lead. I have no tolerance for judgemental people. How you treat others greatly affects how I feel about you. It's been a long time since I met someone I really liked. Feelings do not develop easily for me. Once they do though, I give my all to my relationship. People always say to me "I can't believe you are single" - that must be a good sign? - but I am single - so here I am... I'm too old for the bar scene. Did that in my 20's. I really want to find my best friend that is also my lover. As corny as it sounds, I think it's what everyone is searching for. And I will be honest up front because it seems to be a deal breaker. I do not want to have any more children. I would love and accept someone else's kids as my own if I found the right person, but I am done manufacturing them. So unfortunately, for the guys who are looking for a girl to marry and have children with I have to let you pass... If you are still reading this, wow, you must be bored. I phase out after a paragraph or two on anyone's profile. However, I try to appease the crowd so there's a little bit about myself. :-) Coffee? Something pretty laid back. You never know if you have chemistry until you actually meet in person. There is nothing worse than being stuck on a very long date if you're not clicking. So coffee seems to be the best way to decide if there will be a 2nd date.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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