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Albertha, 36
United States, Michigan, Southgate

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I'm a bundle of contradictions as we all are. I'm very girly in some ways but not at all in others, I am emotionally and mentally mature but choose to live a younger person's life with a youthful attitude and outlook, I love my life now being single but I sometimes miss having someone I'd want to kiss, I adore dancing at very particular clubs (and to a certain style of music) but would not classify myself as a "club girl". If there is even a possibility of meeting someone wonderful (friend or otherwise) that I wouldn't have met otherwise, it's worth making a profile. I care more about your character and who you really are than I do about any accomplishments. I care more about how you think than how much you can bench press or how far you can run. I care more about your compassion than I do your car. I love your humor more than I love your status. Any relationship could last a month or a lifetime. Either can be just as real and meaningful as long as it's mutual. Attraction and chemistry yes but that entails so much more than looks. And it's rare. Or it should be. I want people in my life who are genuine, have pure intentions, free of self- I promise to return the favor.Good luck to all of you out there! Be honest with yourself and others and find what it is in life that supports the best of who you are!p.s. I don't know who wrote the options for the "personality type" section but those are some crazy choices. How is "athletic" or "vegan" a personality type? Granted, I'm sure many people make assumptions on someone's personality based on words like those but is that really fair? We've all heard that silly saying about assumptions... And when they asked me if I smoked the options were often, occasionally, or no. I am a smoker so I had to choose often? Really? Why not just Yes? It makes me sound like I'm a freakin' chimney. :P And I didn't know what to choose out of the "Intent" options. I'm not 100% on my intent here anyway. I chose the lesser of the evils. The others make it sound like I just want to get laid or I'm desperate for a husband. Even though my favorite color is black, there needs to be more shades of gray. Please don't think that was a reference to that book, not interested in that. heheOh...and I drink and "smoke" very little but there's no option for that, either. I had to say "socially" and "no". I am responsible and am always sober to drive myself and friends around. :) Let's not call it a "date" first of all. I would want to know I could be friends first and foremost and as we all know, we can't be friends with everyone. Let's chat over coffee, see if we'd want something closer to a real date. Nope, still don't like that word.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore American Middle Eastern Vietnamese Biography Crime Mystery Dance Golf Soccer / Football
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  • Steven from Southgate | Woman | 37 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ok. I'm tired of what everyone writes... I want someone honest, loyal, drama-free... blah, blah, blah! WELL NO KIDDING. Who is going to say I want someone who lies, cheats and has drama??? ha ha You want honesty? Here you go!!!!!..Ok, now reality ;***You know how to compromise and are your own person. I don't want to fulfill any void you have. I want to add to your life, but not BE your entire life.And what just will not be acceptable, sorry, I have standards:1) You are the same age as my father or closer to my 14 year old's age. You like older women? That's nice, I like men my age. You can keep up with me and want to date someone 20 years younger? Again, that's nice, I don't date my father's friends. 2) You are in between jobs or live with your mom... Sorry! I have a good job and support myself and 2 girls - not going to be supporting you as well.3) You still play "games" in this dating world, are too immature to show any feelings or feel the need to show off and brag about yourself - yuck, yuck and4) You are clingy or bossy. I am not clingy and can not stand a "needy" man nor can I stand someone who thinks they are my father. *Some people are saying my profile is superficial. That tells me they are insecure in the first place because the men who message me that they like my profile are more attractive to me off the bat anyway. If you don't like my profile, why do you message me? Anyway, back to being superficial... So do you guys like it when you meet a girl and she has nothing going for herself and needs you to step in and take care of her? Ok, well I don't like that either especially in a man. ESPECIALLY IN A MAN. If you don't follow, I respect that. I'm not superficial. I just want to be equally yolked. You should know something about that as well if you message me.* And just because this needs to be longer...someone pointed out I didn't take the time to say anything about myself, but just talked about what I do or do not want. Point taken! So... I have 2 beautiful daughters that are the center of my universe. My oldest daughter plays competitive volleyball so I spend countless weekends and evenings in gyms being her biggest fan. I work very hard and am passionate about my career. I've been known to bring work home with me. I'm always trying to balance the career woman/mom and homemaker roles. I love both and never feel like I have quite enough time for either. I'm very into self care and love dressing up and looking pretty. Yes, a total girly girl. However, I also love throwing on sweats and putting my hair in a ponytail and calling it a day. I'm not scared of getting dirty and love outdoor activities. (well most of them) The summer ones, camping, hiking, boating, etc. I can cook! I love to work out, but haven't had the as much time for it lately as I would like. I love God and will always put Him first in my life. I spent time after my divorce healing and not immediately jumping into the dating world. I took a year off to self reflect and "deal with it". I respect that everyone has a past, but I don't want to pay for what someone else has done to you. It's always best to take time off and not jump from relationship to relationship. Baggage isn't cute. I won't pursue a man and I expect him to pursue me. Guess I'm a bit old fashion when it comes to that. I am the boss at work so at home I appreciate the door being opened, the trash being taken out, etc. I like to feel like I'm with someone who can lead. I have no tolerance for judgemental people. How you treat others greatly affects how I feel about you. It's been a long time since I met someone I really liked. Feelings do not develop easily for me. Once they do though, I give my all to my relationship. People always say to me "I can't believe you are single" - that must be a good sign? - but I am single - so here I am... I'm too old for the bar scene. Did that in my 20's. I really want to find my best friend that is also my lover. As corny as it sounds, I think it's what everyone is searching for. And I will be honest up front because it seems to be a deal breaker. I do not want to have any more children. I would love and accept someone else's kids as my own if I found the right person, but I am done manufacturing them. So unfortunately, for the guys who are looking for a girl to marry and have children with I have to let you pass... If you are still reading this, wow, you must be bored. I phase out after a paragraph or two on anyone's profile. However, I try to appease the crowd so there's a little bit about myself. :-) Coffee? Something pretty laid back. You never know if you have chemistry until you actually meet in person. There is nothing worse than being stuck on a very long date if you're not clicking. So coffee seems to be the best way to decide if there will be a 2nd date.

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  • Patrina from Southgate | Woman | 38 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    One of my biggest passions in life is dancing.

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  • Deneen from Southgate | Woman | 39 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am pretty laid back. Try not to take things to serious. I am a single mother and have not dated for awhile. Just not a big 80s fan. I like the outdoors. I like to bake/cook. Have an interest in gardening, just do not have space to do it.

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