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Albertha, 36
United States, Michigan, Southgate

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About Me

I'm a bundle of contradictions as we all are. I'm very girly in some ways but not at all in others, I am emotionally and mentally mature but choose to live a younger person's life with a youthful attitude and outlook, I love my life now being single but I sometimes miss having someone I'd want to kiss, I adore dancing at very particular clubs (and to a certain style of music) but would not classify myself as a "club girl". If there is even a possibility of meeting someone wonderful (friend or otherwise) that I wouldn't have met otherwise, it's worth making a profile. I care more about your character and who you really are than I do about any accomplishments. I care more about how you think than how much you can bench press or how far you can run. I care more about your compassion than I do your car. I love your humor more than I love your status. Any relationship could last a month or a lifetime. Either can be just as real and meaningful as long as it's mutual. Attraction and chemistry yes but that entails so much more than looks. And it's rare. Or it should be. I want people in my life who are genuine, have pure intentions, free of self- I promise to return the favor.Good luck to all of you out there! Be honest with yourself and others and find what it is in life that supports the best of who you are!p.s. I don't know who wrote the options for the "personality type" section but those are some crazy choices. How is "athletic" or "vegan" a personality type? Granted, I'm sure many people make assumptions on someone's personality based on words like those but is that really fair? We've all heard that silly saying about assumptions... And when they asked me if I smoked the options were often, occasionally, or no. I am a smoker so I had to choose often? Really? Why not just Yes? It makes me sound like I'm a freakin' chimney. :P And I didn't know what to choose out of the "Intent" options. I'm not 100% on my intent here anyway. I chose the lesser of the evils. The others make it sound like I just want to get laid or I'm desperate for a husband. Even though my favorite color is black, there needs to be more shades of gray. Please don't think that was a reference to that book, not interested in that. heheOh...and I drink and "smoke" very little but there's no option for that, either. I had to say "socially" and "no". I am responsible and am always sober to drive myself and friends around. :) Let's not call it a "date" first of all. I would want to know I could be friends first and foremost and as we all know, we can't be friends with everyone. Let's chat over coffee, see if we'd want something closer to a real date. Nope, still don't like that word.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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