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Raphaela, 40
United States, Michigan, Southgate

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About Me

Just taking one day at a time! Whatever happens happens. All I ask is for honesty. I want to have fun and enjoy life.I like going to sporting events, playing soccer, shooting some hoops, music of all kinds, concerts, movies, the sun, the snow, traveling and just be with friends.I don't mean to be rude or mean but I get a lot of *** people that I know would not come up and talk to me in a bar so why are you *** on here. I don't consider myself to be over the top gorgeous or skinny but I do LOVE myself and think I am cute, fit, and alot of fun. I am just looking for someone that I am attracted to. I am sorry if that is not you. Please don't feel rejected or hurt. I have been turned down too. It just means I am not the one for you.Men on here seem to act interested for a little while and then they either get what they want (sex) or get distracted by a squirrel or something and disappear. I am looking for someone I can spend my time with. You know, meet up after work, have dinner at home, watch a little TV and either say good night or see you tomorrow. I am not looking to get married right now however I am not opposed to it either. I would like to just date someone for a few months. I am tired of first dates. That being said. I have gone on A LOT of first dates. So make yours memorable. Make yours stand out above the other guys out there! And I am not talking about spending more money. The date could cost nothing and be the best date ever!Like all women, I like to be persued. However I don't make you do all the work. I will let you know if I am interested in you right away if I am. But then you need to step up to the plate and be a man and court a woman. Yes I did say COURT! :o) I know this in not the ***'s but it's what I like. If your just looking for a hook up please move on. Don't you know it is easy for a girl to get sex if she wants it? We don't need to go looking for a hook up online. If you are looking to date me then don't get mad when you don't get in my pants on the first, second or third date. Just sayin! Happy fishing everyone and remember, just because your online doesn't mean you should talk to her. I think a first date should be short and sweet. Coffee, or a drink in a quiet public place so we can talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Techno Watching Movies Comedy Documentary Thriller Bowling
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  • Dona from Southgate | Woman | 38 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I know I should spend a lot of time on a description of myself, but, right now I really don't want to. Most people really are not going to read this anyway. Not sure....

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  • Mechelle from Southgate | Woman | 39 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ....;home" now. I have two wonderful careers and I'm a great multi-tasker and when I put my mind to it, it gets done no matter what the obstacles, but I always try to keep work at work and home at home :-) Must love dogs...ok, at least "like" dogs. I would consider myself somewhat of a world traveler- However, there are many more places I want to explore.I enjoy all outdoor activities and any that involve water; camping, fishing, hiking, boating, jets skis, ocean side walks on the beach...and the list goes on and on. I am a huge football fan and usually play Fantasy Football each season! I like to watch and play many other sports to include tennis, volleyball, baseball, etc...so if you know how to swing a raquet and hit a bouncing ball I may just challenge you to a friendly game of tennis (my fav, and I'm not too shabby at it either)Let me start by saying I am in between the "dating" and "looking for relationship" status....not in any rush. Dating and hanging out is always a good way to start and develop that friendship first. Anyway, looking for a man who knows what he wants out of life and a relationship, and has his you know what together. Shared common interests and life goals are important, what's the point when each of our paths are going the opposite direction. Want to develop a great friendship first (which should be the base of all relationships) in which to develop into something much more. Intimacy and closeness are very important to a successful relationship.P.S. If I don't respond to your *** get offended; that usually means I just don't think we are a good match. (it happens to me too!) ;-) I guess we can figure that part out later ;-)

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  • Romana from Southgate | Woman | 38 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Everyone says that they're "bad at doing this" ... so I'll refrain from repeating the obvious. But, to cover the basics: I'm a single (obviously right?) mother of five (my own basketball team) who works full time in education (obviously, I really like kids). I have a lot of interests and I'm always willing to learn new things. I tend to be an open, social individual - not much surprises me (though I might be highly amused :***who likes an easy going pace, no pressure, and can fit into most social situations comfortably: I like to dress up and go out just as well as I like lounging on the couch and watching a movie. I love to laugh - it's the best medicine! ... but sometimes a good cry at a cheesy flick can be just as good. I enjoy camping as much as I can a day at the theater ... with the right sort of company. I thoroughly enjoy holding a conversation with almost anyone ... as long as I have some intellectual return (and don't turn it into a boxing match of opinions). And I believe in things like: respect, manners, and open mind, the good old fashioned giggles, blushing occasionally, random inappropriate jokes, attempting to avoid negativity and a little bit (okay, a lot) of random Geek girl behavior that includes things like video games, movies and comic books.So drop me a line and see how it goes. I promise I don't bite (hard :)Some of my "Likes": Musically - Disturbed, Linkin Park, Evanescence, Shinedown, Staind, Metallica, 3Oh!3, Drowning Pool, Era, X-.. and lots more!Movies --; The Hobbit, The Mummy (All), Oceans Eleven, Silence of the Lambs, Shakespeare in Love, Titanic, X-Files, Les Miserables ... and lots more!TV Shows - NCIS, CSI, Psych, X-Files, The Office, Death Note, Cake Boss, Man vs. Food, Diners Drive-Ins and Dives, Supernatural, Teenwolf, Blue Collar, Glee, Walking Dead, Deadliest Warriors, Myth Busters (I don't tend to get to watch much regular TV ... but Netflix is one of my best friends :)Video/Computer Games -; 3, Halo, Bio-Shock 2, Fable 1, 2 &; Dance Central, Skyrim (Yes - I'm a Video Game/Computer Game/Comic Loving Geek Girl :)Foods - Mexican, Itallian, American! Pretty easy ...FYI: as clarification - "does not want children" means I don't want anymore of my own :) I don't mind meeting men that have children themselves ... (it just seemed so vague!)PS: So I've gotten several questions of "ust what are you looking for?" (because I do want to date, but I don't want the marriage/co-habitation type arrangement ... and I'm also not available for the "booty call") ... so I thought I'd preface the answer here:I'm not really looking for anything (marriage) serious right now. I'd prefer to keep things simple: messages, chatting, phone calls/texting, friendly hanging out and/or dating ... just keeping to a pretty low key kind of situation. It doesn't mean that I'm closed off to the possibility of a relationship developing in the future (I realize that I can't predict what will happen and you never know - things can and do change!) ... but I am focusing primarily on my family right now and the flexibility and understanding that I need to make it successful. Unfortunately, this does put some limitations on the relationships I can entertain at this time (and it does hamper travel/distance, also, as I tend to keep close to the home fort).But just because I'm not looking for the settling down type of commitment doesn't mean I will be (or want my partner to be) jumping from person to person, entertaining the attached or married kind (their significant others tend to get kind of upset) or having a casual fling. I'm sorry, but I'm not here for sex folks. So if you are looking for a quick fix ... I'm probably not going to be the right person for you. And please: just remember that in my world, my kids are first and foremost ... so if you can't handle my busy life style and the devotion to the smaller breed that that entails, you may also want to move along ... I can't do high maintenance right now. Money and prestige don't impress me. You can have all the wealth in the world, but without a moral compass and some basic intelligence to back it up ... you're no better than the next fellow on the street. I like someone who is real: now whether that means a simple movie and dinner, a walk along some random shore, a meet and greet for coffee, or maybe a round of drinks and (badly sung) karaoke ... that's fine all fine by me ... just as long as you have some basic manners, the sense God gave you, and a decent level of maturity. I enjoy someone I can hold a conversation with, laugh with, and who can appreciate the little things in life - and hold me accountable to the same. The rest is negotiable.

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