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Ila, 36
United States, Michigan, Southgate

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Here's a few things to know: Halloween is my favorite holiday. I love coffee and I'm not a morning person. The promise of coffee and sugar are the ONLY things that get my sorry butt out of bed in the morning. After which, I don't make my bed, except maybe on the weekends, but that's a big maybe. I've never seen The Notebook, so the chances of my making you sit through it are pretty slim. I do love scary movies though and if you're a fraidy cat don't worry, I'll hold your hand :) On the more ridiculous end of the spectrum I am completely terrified of spiders, so you (hopefully) should not be. Yes, I know it's irrational and ridiculous; at least I own it!Hmmm...what else....I find myself getting sucked into Law and Order marathons frequently, but my dirtly little TV secret is Wipeout. Watching people voluntarily subject themselves to getting the crap kicked out of them provides me with endless entertainment (I am easily entertained? Yes.) Okay, moving on.... If there's an easy way and a hard way to do something, I'm going the hard way each and every time. Sometimes on purpose and sometimes not; I can be pretty stubborn and won't let anyone tell me what I can or cannot do; I'm always up for a challenge. I'm a pretty kick-!), but I'm no gourmet chef; don't ask me to make you a porkchop. Overall, I'm pretty low-maintenance; a friend once described me as the girliest tomboy he ever met. Maybe it has something to do with growing up in a house full of boys? I don't worry about the rain messing up my hair, breaking a nail or running to the store without looking perfectly made-up. When I laugh, I do it out loud, no holds barred if it's funny. Funny is good. In general, I like people that are different than me; i don't need a twin. I like having the opportunity to see a new perspective or a different way of thinking. My interests range from dance, I take ballet, modern and jazz, to reading, to rocking out to the Deftones while (attempting to) clean my house, to hanging out at the beach (rain or shine, I love watching the waves). What I'm looking for? Possibility. Someone who could enjoy pajama Sundays and banana chocolate chip pancakes when it's a monsoon outside and building a fort out of blankets and watching movies is a better option than leaving the house. And now, the fine print: I'm a few months out from a pretty big surgical repair of my foot/ankle (see above reference to love of dance...), and am still in rehab/recovery, so although I'm getting back into being active I can't go crazy just yet! First dates can be weird; it's like trying to make new friends all over again. Second dates are usually better; less feeling like we're in a mutual interview. Meeting for a drink, GoKart Racing, or a walk around Greenlake is fun or anywhere where there's good people-watching. I've found that if there's chemistry, it doesn't matter what you're doing. It's just effortless.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Vietnamese Animation Music Sport Western
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