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Ila, 36
United States, Michigan, Southgate

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Here's a few things to know: Halloween is my favorite holiday. I love coffee and I'm not a morning person. The promise of coffee and sugar are the ONLY things that get my sorry butt out of bed in the morning. After which, I don't make my bed, except maybe on the weekends, but that's a big maybe. I've never seen The Notebook, so the chances of my making you sit through it are pretty slim. I do love scary movies though and if you're a fraidy cat don't worry, I'll hold your hand :) On the more ridiculous end of the spectrum I am completely terrified of spiders, so you (hopefully) should not be. Yes, I know it's irrational and ridiculous; at least I own it!Hmmm...what else....I find myself getting sucked into Law and Order marathons frequently, but my dirtly little TV secret is Wipeout. Watching people voluntarily subject themselves to getting the crap kicked out of them provides me with endless entertainment (I am easily entertained? Yes.) Okay, moving on.... If there's an easy way and a hard way to do something, I'm going the hard way each and every time. Sometimes on purpose and sometimes not; I can be pretty stubborn and won't let anyone tell me what I can or cannot do; I'm always up for a challenge. I'm a pretty kick-!), but I'm no gourmet chef; don't ask me to make you a porkchop. Overall, I'm pretty low-maintenance; a friend once described me as the girliest tomboy he ever met. Maybe it has something to do with growing up in a house full of boys? I don't worry about the rain messing up my hair, breaking a nail or running to the store without looking perfectly made-up. When I laugh, I do it out loud, no holds barred if it's funny. Funny is good. In general, I like people that are different than me; i don't need a twin. I like having the opportunity to see a new perspective or a different way of thinking. My interests range from dance, I take ballet, modern and jazz, to reading, to rocking out to the Deftones while (attempting to) clean my house, to hanging out at the beach (rain or shine, I love watching the waves). What I'm looking for? Possibility. Someone who could enjoy pajama Sundays and banana chocolate chip pancakes when it's a monsoon outside and building a fort out of blankets and watching movies is a better option than leaving the house. And now, the fine print: I'm a few months out from a pretty big surgical repair of my foot/ankle (see above reference to love of dance...), and am still in rehab/recovery, so although I'm getting back into being active I can't go crazy just yet! First dates can be weird; it's like trying to make new friends all over again. Second dates are usually better; less feeling like we're in a mutual interview. Meeting for a drink, GoKart Racing, or a walk around Greenlake is fun or anywhere where there's good people-watching. I've found that if there's chemistry, it doesn't matter what you're doing. It's just effortless.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Indian Vietnamese Animation Music Sport Western
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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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  • Romana from Southgate | Woman | 38 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Everyone says that they're "bad at doing this" ... so I'll refrain from repeating the obvious. But, to cover the basics: I'm a single (obviously right?) mother of five (my own basketball team) who works full time in education (obviously, I really like kids). I have a lot of interests and I'm always willing to learn new things. I tend to be an open, social individual - not much surprises me (though I might be highly amused :***who likes an easy going pace, no pressure, and can fit into most social situations comfortably: I like to dress up and go out just as well as I like lounging on the couch and watching a movie. I love to laugh - it's the best medicine! ... but sometimes a good cry at a cheesy flick can be just as good. I enjoy camping as much as I can a day at the theater ... with the right sort of company. I thoroughly enjoy holding a conversation with almost anyone ... as long as I have some intellectual return (and don't turn it into a boxing match of opinions). And I believe in things like: respect, manners, and open mind, the good old fashioned giggles, blushing occasionally, random inappropriate jokes, attempting to avoid negativity and a little bit (okay, a lot) of random Geek girl behavior that includes things like video games, movies and comic books.So drop me a line and see how it goes. I promise I don't bite (hard :)Some of my "Likes": Musically - Disturbed, Linkin Park, Evanescence, Shinedown, Staind, Metallica, 3Oh!3, Drowning Pool, Era, X-.. and lots more!Movies --; The Hobbit, The Mummy (All), Oceans Eleven, Silence of the Lambs, Shakespeare in Love, Titanic, X-Files, Les Miserables ... and lots more!TV Shows - NCIS, CSI, Psych, X-Files, The Office, Death Note, Cake Boss, Man vs. Food, Diners Drive-Ins and Dives, Supernatural, Teenwolf, Blue Collar, Glee, Walking Dead, Deadliest Warriors, Myth Busters (I don't tend to get to watch much regular TV ... but Netflix is one of my best friends :)Video/Computer Games -; 3, Halo, Bio-Shock 2, Fable 1, 2 &; Dance Central, Skyrim (Yes - I'm a Video Game/Computer Game/Comic Loving Geek Girl :)Foods - Mexican, Itallian, American! Pretty easy ...FYI: as clarification - "does not want children" means I don't want anymore of my own :) I don't mind meeting men that have children themselves ... (it just seemed so vague!)PS: So I've gotten several questions of "ust what are you looking for?" (because I do want to date, but I don't want the marriage/co-habitation type arrangement ... and I'm also not available for the "booty call") ... so I thought I'd preface the answer here:I'm not really looking for anything (marriage) serious right now. I'd prefer to keep things simple: messages, chatting, phone calls/texting, friendly hanging out and/or dating ... just keeping to a pretty low key kind of situation. It doesn't mean that I'm closed off to the possibility of a relationship developing in the future (I realize that I can't predict what will happen and you never know - things can and do change!) ... but I am focusing primarily on my family right now and the flexibility and understanding that I need to make it successful. Unfortunately, this does put some limitations on the relationships I can entertain at this time (and it does hamper travel/distance, also, as I tend to keep close to the home fort).But just because I'm not looking for the settling down type of commitment doesn't mean I will be (or want my partner to be) jumping from person to person, entertaining the attached or married kind (their significant others tend to get kind of upset) or having a casual fling. I'm sorry, but I'm not here for sex folks. So if you are looking for a quick fix ... I'm probably not going to be the right person for you. And please: just remember that in my world, my kids are first and foremost ... so if you can't handle my busy life style and the devotion to the smaller breed that that entails, you may also want to move along ... I can't do high maintenance right now. Money and prestige don't impress me. You can have all the wealth in the world, but without a moral compass and some basic intelligence to back it up ... you're no better than the next fellow on the street. I like someone who is real: now whether that means a simple movie and dinner, a walk along some random shore, a meet and greet for coffee, or maybe a round of drinks and (badly sung) karaoke ... that's fine all fine by me ... just as long as you have some basic manners, the sense God gave you, and a decent level of maturity. I enjoy someone I can hold a conversation with, laugh with, and who can appreciate the little things in life - and hold me accountable to the same. The rest is negotiable.

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