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Alla, 40
United States, Michigan, Southgate

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I've found that having balance in my life is very important. Lately things have skewed more towards my kids and work than I would have liked, but hopefully I can swing things back in the other direction soon. On the weekends we try to get out and enjoy the city. Eat lunch on a sunny patio, explore a new neighborhood, hit the park or the zoo, or grill out with friends. Weeknights are mostly spent at kid activities or at home getting things done. My daughters are five now and I love that they have more of a voice in what we do. It's nice not to have to make all the decisions, all the time.I´m open minded, honest, loyal, and generous. I've been told I have a strong personality, but I think that just means I'm not passive/aggressive. I love a good debate, a good meal, and a great glass of wine. I love to spend time at home, but try to be social as well. I´m a project manager by trade so I´m definitely organized which can come in handy. I´m a planner, but not of the crazy variety, I just like to make sure I get to the things I want to get to. I try to be more of a saver then a spender, eat more whole foods than processed, and leave work at work (although not lately, I need to work on that!) I´m looking for a partner in life. Someone who challenges me, but supports me. I make a lot of decisions throughout the day and appreciate when someone else can step in and be decisive in any situation. I want someone to plan adventures with, someone who is willing to think big to make it all happen. Someone who understands what is important, and more importantly what isn´t. Someone who is past the bar scene and ready for commitment and marriage. Between work and home my life is a little hectic and crazy, but there is definitely room for someone in it. I think a good first date allows you to really get to know the other person's personality which means conversation! A cup of coffee, a glass of wine, a beer on a patio - anywhere that you can talk and interact. Bonus if you pick the place and it allows room to do something after, just in case things are going really well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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