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Alla, 40
United States, Michigan, Southgate

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I've found that having balance in my life is very important. Lately things have skewed more towards my kids and work than I would have liked, but hopefully I can swing things back in the other direction soon. On the weekends we try to get out and enjoy the city. Eat lunch on a sunny patio, explore a new neighborhood, hit the park or the zoo, or grill out with friends. Weeknights are mostly spent at kid activities or at home getting things done. My daughters are five now and I love that they have more of a voice in what we do. It's nice not to have to make all the decisions, all the time.I´m open minded, honest, loyal, and generous. I've been told I have a strong personality, but I think that just means I'm not passive/aggressive. I love a good debate, a good meal, and a great glass of wine. I love to spend time at home, but try to be social as well. I´m a project manager by trade so I´m definitely organized which can come in handy. I´m a planner, but not of the crazy variety, I just like to make sure I get to the things I want to get to. I try to be more of a saver then a spender, eat more whole foods than processed, and leave work at work (although not lately, I need to work on that!) I´m looking for a partner in life. Someone who challenges me, but supports me. I make a lot of decisions throughout the day and appreciate when someone else can step in and be decisive in any situation. I want someone to plan adventures with, someone who is willing to think big to make it all happen. Someone who understands what is important, and more importantly what isn´t. Someone who is past the bar scene and ready for commitment and marriage. Between work and home my life is a little hectic and crazy, but there is definitely room for someone in it. I think a good first date allows you to really get to know the other person's personality which means conversation! A cup of coffee, a glass of wine, a beer on a patio - anywhere that you can talk and interact. Bonus if you pick the place and it allows room to do something after, just in case things are going really well.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    When it comes to most things in life, I subscribe to the ‘you never know unless you try’ way of thinking. It’s worked out pretty well thus far. Online dating is tough - scrolling through hundreds (ok - many?) profiles, first looking at pictures, then reading the highlights, then the details..trying to decide if you think there will be any chemistry or mutual attraction…then finally, you have to make a call on *** moving on to read the next. And then? Repeat. Yikes. What a process. I’ve seen it work for family & friends - I know 2 people that have met their current spouse online - so I figured, why not me? It’ So here I am. And here you are. =)I’ve made traveling more of a priority in my life over the past couple of years. I figure the time is now - unattached, no children, and it’s not putting me in financial harms’ way. I love it - seeing new places, meeting new people, exploring, having all of my senses tickled - it’s great. Being active is important to me - I ran my first 10k last year and plan on running another this spring, hit the gym pretty hard/frequently, and recently discovered a passion for yoga. I also like doing things outdoors. Hiking is great too - I like doing things that challenge my body - it energizes me in so many ways. I’d love to date someone who is equally active…there’ I’ve moved past the partying every weekend phase and am looking to spend my free time in different and more meaningful ways.So what am I looking for? What many people are - a connection, chemistry, a mutual attraction of the mind, spirit, body…the whole 9. I want it all! =) Settling is not something I do…I don’t think anyone should. I think it’s a recipe for divorce/dissatisfaction when you do - and who wants that?

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Looking for a sweet and thoughtful romantic man...Im a teacher and love my job...hobbies include movies..swimming ..beach...spending time with friends...travel...live music...happy hour....im not a barbie doll..curvy cutie here...im not looking to hook up so dont ask....looking to date Men who are between 30 and 42...looking for serious relationship and maybe children soon... Somewhere to talk and get to know each other...a nice romantic dinner...and a nice walk...

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    First let me start by saying im a big girl.. I know i dont look big in my pics and im sorry , i just take really good pics :).. If ur not into thick women please dont message me.. Im not going to suddenly be thin just cause ur wanting me to be.. I am who i am and am very comfortable with being me.. If im not ur type , thats cool dont message me then... I wont take it personally.. I am not sure what I am looking for right now but I know in the end he has to be my best friend. I just want to meet knew people and have fun.. If it turns into something that's awesome if not , well having friends is always cool.. ( when I say have fun , that DOES NOT mean I want to f $$&ck everyone I can ) If your looking for a one night stand , i am not your girl.. I love football !!! If it's football season im watching every game possible.. I like being outdoors no matter what the season.. Fishing is my thing , i will go as much as possible.. My friends think im funny , i think im a dork .. I won't lie to you , or play games with you , if im not feeling it i will let you know.. Like i said though friends are cool. I try to message everyone back cause you never know.. We all have a type obviously , but if you don't open your mind and give everyone a chance you might end up missing out on something amazing.. I have no past relationship drama , no crazy exes, and prefer you didn't either .. Anyways- I have a job , i have a vehicle , i have a place , im not looking for someone to take care of me , that i can do myself :) Im just looking for what's missing .. Fishing would be a perfect date we would be outside and it is quiet so we can get to know eachother

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