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since everyone else puts their *** mine is kristivamp 76 i'm never very good at talking about myself. I can be shy when i first meet someone and it takes me a little while to get comfortable with people but once i trust someone its a different story. Trust is important to me if i trust you then at the very least you have a friend for life but if that trust is betrayed there is very rarely a second chance. I'm a forgiving person i dont hold a grudge but im not big on allowing my heart to be played with more than once. I love music all kinds but mostly im a rocker girl. I love movies horror action comedy. i read alot i write poetry and try my hand at fan fiction from time to time i enjoy the creative process of it all i suppose. i'm honest it saves drama ive found. I'd rather have someone hurt me with the truth than keep me happy with a lie because the truth will come out and i get hurt even worse. i can be random sometimes like texting someone and asking their fave ice cream flavor. i go with my feelings in the moment even if i regret it later which i almost never do anyway regret seems to be a waste of time as you can't take things back. i try to be positive though i have my moments of getting lost in the darkness of things. anything else ask. looking for new expierences and the like. someone cool someone fun ** Important announcement** if I message you first and you just are not feeling it for whatever reason maybe im not your type who knows its ok to tell me I won't fall apart I am made of tougher stuff than I look :) that is all** ok since i mentioned i write poetry people have been asking me to share some and since i'm currently tired and not thinking straight i've decided to share one poem.*update once again* i've been having some computer issues latley so its taking me a while to go through my messages on here and i seem to have alot of messages to respond to so please grant me paitence and understanding i'm not intentionally *** or blowing you off. I'm just a busy gal with technical problems :) update time again lol : i'm a slightly tall girl ***and i enjoy wearing heels too sometimes very high heels five inch heels even so if you have issues with height then i am probably not the girl for you. i tend to date guys withinn my own age range no one too much younger or too much older.as for psycial prefrences tat does tend to vary greatly. tattoos are cool even though im too chicken to get one my self. i can go for the long haired rocker guy or the military type. the clean cut type it depends if i feel a connection to someone and even i can't tell you what that takes. its a strange thing the mystery of a connection. if its there i'll know if its not well theres still hope *ANOTHER UPDATE** I have mentioned the age thing before but from some of the messages I get it seems im not clear. if you are much younger than me its never going to happen. if you are closer to my mothers age than mine then it defenitly aint going to happen. my mom by the way is 58 so if you are closer to that thean my age it wont happen. if you could have gone to high school with my mom im not your girl Just out of curiousity is it just me or does this site pick totally random people to consider a top ten prospect for you? I wonder what they are thinking sometimes. common intrests are important but not to sound shallow so is attraction. and another question do you guys read these things or just look at the pictures? wow this thing is long and if you get this far congratulations :) first dates are strange things so something simple no pressure casual. go with the flow kind of things

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Delana from South Lyon | Woman | 40 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm really surprised that the choice of mermaid is not available because that is what I would be!!!I crave someone who is ready for a dynamic relationship with a fantastic partner! I am looking for a spiritual, open minded guy who is ready to have consciousness expanded! Must be loving and kind, passionate, romantic, affectionate, intelligent, very mature, stable, ready and willing to give at least the same or more!! Someone who is honest, monogamous, has morals and high ethical standards.....someone who is conscious of doing the "right thing" at all times. Someone who is serious and responsible but also knows how to have fun, silly times when needed!!I am here for networking, friends, and dating with the intention of a serious relationship. I also love to have dynamic friends too! I don't like to rush things. I like to be friends for a while before anything serious happens. If nothing serious happens, then I still consider it a pleasure to meet you and hope to still be friends.....no hard feelings. One can never have too many friends!!!! I am extremely forward thinking but I am old fashioned when it comes to dating. I consider myself like a tomboy-princess....I like to be pampered (a little) and strive for nice things....but I don't mind getting dirty or playing rough either! I have the clothes, shoes, jewelry and all the necessary accessories for all occasions!! you should see my walk in closet!! :)I love outdoor activities....biking, playing in the woods...hiking, camping,etc. I love water....I love going to the beach or kayaking on rivers. Although I feel I have a ways to go before I can consider myself to be in great shape ....I like to be focused on health and fitness....keeping in shape, eating healthy and I love to exercise when I can. I like to surround myself with people who are similarly into fitness!I like listening to positive, influential and motivational speakers. I like taking classes and workshops on self improvement, higher knowledge, spiritual retreats and yoga! Occasionally I like to chill and just watch movies but keep television cut to a minimum. I much prefer to study, read or some other fun activity! I love the company of others but I like peace and quiet too! I don't like to hear too much profanity, smell smoke or date alcoholics!! If you drink a little that is ok!!And if you use drugs.....I am positively not interested...not even if it is just once a year! I really want a clean, sober man! And speaking of clean.... if you wanna be with me, it is required that you shower and brush teeth at least once a day!! Cleanliness is next to Godliness...or in my case goddessness!! ;)My Music tastes: anything ambient, underground alternative, world music, electronica, trance, spiritual, mantras/chant, dance music, some top 40, some r&b, some hip hop, some rock, anything I can dance to and anything with a good positive vibe! I will not listen to country, rap, or any sort of hard rock or metal.Movies: comedy, fantasy, sci-fi, drama, action/adventure, movies that inspire and are positive, movies that are profound and make you think! I don't like traumatic, disturbing or horror films. ( i don't mind sci-fi horror...that's ok(if it's not real, right?!)!!)And I believe in angels and such!!PS...I am working on a few extra projects right now, so don't be offended if it takes a minute or few days to get back to ya!PSS....I am very kind, loving, and big hearted but that doesn't mean that I will put up with any BS, drama, childish behaviour or anyone's crap. I am here for a TRUE person. I can be very assertive, I don't beat around the bush too much, I call it like I see it and have very keen skills for seeing through many people'BS and won't hesitate to confront it and then leave it in my wake. I don't tolerate abuse of any kind...physical, mental, or emotional. Life is too short for silly games. Good luck on your quest!! Somewhere that it is easy to talk and listen, no bright lights!! I love ambiance!! Go to a fantastic but different restaurant...I love ethnic food!! The beach in the evening!!skype?!! just kidding!!Play in the rain!!Walk in the park/beach!!Biking on the trails!!20 questions and answers!!Etc!It just depends!!...Update ***apparently I don't have much time for a date....so I was wondering if we could multitask together! I was thinking if you could ride around with me while i run my/your errands (if you drive that would be better!!) then we could stop and grab a bite to eat and then find something fun to do maybe? this way we could have fun, taking in the sites around town, chat a bit and also, see how each other drives...it could be a real adventure!! ;););)NEXT UPDATE!!! Looks like one of our dates will be playing in the rain!!! :DLATEST UPDATE: It has been really nice weather, finally.... and so nice outside....!!...ok...well maybe the one that only takes one person to hold it down....the kind that are 49' long....the octopus ones are really awesome to watch!:)Next latest thing....I think I want to learn how to wind surf! Anyone up for that!! :)

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  • Annamay from South Lyon | Woman | 36 years old | Leo
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    This has to be the worst part; writing about yourself . I like all kinds of music depending on what I'm doing or the mood I am in. I believe happiness makes you feel and act amazing. I love my children and my career. My favorite outdoor activities are biking and rollerblading & jogging. I recently found enjoyment in 5k's. I prefer movies on the couch with a blanket in lieu of the movie theatre. I like to fish, vacation & going out to dinner. I do not like going out to clubs. Not sure, meeting for a cup of coffee or a drink? Meet up for few drinks most likely, then if you hit it off plan dinner date. It would be very uncomfortable to have to sit through dinner if you don't hit it off or feel a connection

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  • Cathi from South Lyon | Woman | 39 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ******************** UPDATE*********************** I know I'm going to be looked at badly for this but, I would rather not start anything with someone who has young children. No offense! I'm sure there alot of nice guys out there with children but, I have older kids and prefer not to raise any more small ones. Thanks. So if thats not a problem.....continue on! LOL! I'm looking around to see whats out there. I have been single about ***years. I might be ready to meet someone. But not taking anything to fast.... ya know. As with most people on here my story is nothing new I'm sure. Bad relationship, cheating, lying, drugs, etc..... Soooo here I be, lookin around.Let us see, well, I have 2 older children. One *** home. I am not looking to meet someone right away. I would like to chat,text,email, etc. at first. I have found that u can determine some sort of personality this way. I would rather see if we "click" first before meeting. Some people seem to disagreewith my approach but, to each their own I suppose. This is how I prefer. LIKES: Cooking, grilling, music country,classic rock & rockabilly. Tattoos, camping,boating,games and just chillin by the fire inside or out. Just a few...DISLIKES: Prissy ass men! Blah!! ={ I like a guy thats not afraid to get dirty! I like a guys guy. Someone HONEST and no BS Drama! I WILL NOT DEAL WITH DRAMA!!!! Funny and somewhat outgoing. Someone that will protect and RESPECT me. If it ever goes that far. I would never ask more of someone that I would be willing to give in return. Give respect to get respect.NEED TO KNOW INFO ABOUT ME! I am NOT a prissy girl, like OMG I broke a nail or the wind blew my hair! Nope! Not me! I do like to get dressedup when I HAVE to, otherwise its Jeans and tshirt or hoodie. I LOVE the country, I want a small farm. Im a homebody, I like chillin at home, I pay for my house I figure I should enjoy it! I prefer a small group of people over a crowd. A bonfire and some music and the stars! Sounds amazing to me!! Dont mind gettin muddy and havin fun! I will have a classic pontoon with a slide in my future! =) Somewhere not crowded. Preferably not in the city. Maybe the lake or park.... hell IDK? LOL!

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