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Lelah, 38
United States, Michigan, South Lyon

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About Me

I've been divorced for some time now and I'm honestly getting tired of the dating scene. I can't seem to find that one person that I can share my happiness with. I am looking for someone I can enjoy spending time with, with the potential for more if things work out. I'm not against the possibility of jumping into something serious. I know what I'm looking for and I don't play games when it comes to relationships. I live a drama free life and I don't need drama brought into it. If something is on your mind speak it, don't hold it back. I don't like lies just be open and honest with me. Communication is one of the keys to a healthy relationship. I can be shy at first but warm up once I get to know you. I'm a single mother of 2 wonderful children. I enjoy the outdoors and live life day to day. I'm understanding, funny, kind, passionate, and an outgoing girl. I want to meet that special person who can share these things with me. I'm not the kind of girl who needs material things to make me happy. I love being in my jeans or shorts and t-shirts with a ball cap on or my hair just pulled up. I enjoy being outdoors and don't care how dirty or sweaty I get as long as everyone is having a great time. However I don't mind putting on a dress and a pair of heels for a night on the town. I also like to spend time at home with my man on the couch watching a ball game or a movie. On a sunny day you can find me on the water, on a cool day you can find me in the woods getting as dirty as I can. I'm looking for someone that can get me off of here once and for all. I don't want to be shallow but please have a picture when you respond. I think physical attraction is just as important as emotional attraction. We will figure it out. Somewhere we are both comfortable and are able to talk and get to know each other. If we feel like there is a connection then maybe continuing the date on into the evening. Go with the flow and let nature take its course.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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