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About Me

After some time away from this site, I am back trying this again. What's the worst thing that can happen? I find the man of my dreams right? Right!I am a single mom of two great kids, ages 19 and 16. They are my world but I'm finding out that this empty nest thing is not all it's cracked up to be. I am a firefighter/paramedic and have been in the fire service for a little over 10yrs now. I love what I do but I have hopes of going back to school soon for nursing. I am generally a happy go lucky person. I believe laughter is the best medicine along with great family and friends. I love going out for a night on the town and think that I am overall a pretty social person. I love to be around people but I also love my quiet time at home. I am looking for someone who is intelligent, compassionate, has a sense of humor, is social but also knows how to relax. You must be self motivated, have a job and not live with your parents or do drugs. Yes it's sad that I have to put that but trust me, I've encountered it. I'm not looking for someone who likes to play games. I'm too damn old for that! I'm looking to date now, but would be pleased if things went to the next level. Ultimately, that's why I am here!If you think you may be interested, please message me. You should know I don't like to send countless messages back and forth. Let's meet and see where it takes us. In a public place of course!Hope to hear from you soon and happy fishing. I believe there is someone out there for all of us! Skydiving? Bungee jumping? Just kidding! I hate heights. I know what you're thinking, not a great trait considering my profession. Bowling? What's better than putting on a pair of ugly shoes that hundreds of other people have worn? That's living the dream! Seriously, Dinner or coffee/drinks is always nice but I'm usually up for anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Herta

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    HI! I've been here, before... And I'm baaaack. I guess you could call it a glutton for punishment. I'll stick with calling it optimistic.I'm still a widow, (he's still not back) been 9 years, like that. My daughters are 13 & 16.I apologize, but if we meet between now annnnd, maybe April or May, I will look like a marshmallow in 12 layers. Looking cute is not as much a priority as keeping my *** warm. I have girlfriends that go out in sleeveless & their teeth chatter all night. That's just dumb.I have an awesome sense of humor, and am also pretty sarcastic. Life is too short & I want someone to laugh with, have fun with, and be able to count on.**I have zero interest in giving birth to anymore children. That ship hasn't just sailed, it blew up & sunk, I'm not interested. Nor do I want to teach a 20 year old a thing or two. **I am a CNA, and I absolutely love caring for my residents. I work 3 days a week for now, however, I am self sufficient, own my own home and car. I don't need a man to save me, and I don't want a man that needs saving. With that said, last month I replaced my first faucet with sprayer, including shut off valves & supply lines and today I replaced a part on my dishwasher, that I figured out & ordered all by myself. Guys seem to take issue when I don't run to them like a sissy & ask for help. Unless it's automotive or electrical, odds are I'm going to figure it out, or hurt myself, trying. I think there is still a stone in my chin from the header off the ladder I took last fall cleaning out my gutters. I fixed 3 issues with my lawn mower last fall, which was promptly shot to hell this spring when I hit the patio with it.I love to fish, and have not done that nearly enough, this summer. My favorite place to be is on or near the water. Catching frogs, crayfish, or fish, or hanging out at the lake with a cold drink are what impresses me. Poetry readings, operas, fine dining & other lah-tee-dah crap does NOT. I can "clean up real good" for a company party, sure.Ideally, I want to be swept off my feet by a guy with integrity, intelligence, humor, and romance. I'm not your typical chick, by a long shot.I am looking for someone that is employed & supports themselves, does NOT live with Mommy & Daddy, does NOT do drugs, is *SINGLE* (as in NOT MARRIED), and is not just here for a booty call. Picnic by the water, fishing... you get the idea. Not the movies. First of all, you can't talk to each other, and second of all, I probably won't sit still that long. They aren't my thing.

  • Verdie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi! I am a funny, extremely sarcastic woman who is looking for someone who can enjoy life to the fullest I enjoy all things outdoors (running, camping, hiking...), and I am a huge fan of all types of music! If I could see one live show a week I would! I'm not one to sit around much! I am always up for meeting new people, so this is as good a way as any, right? :) Let's grab a drink or some coffee and have a great conversation to see if we click!

  • Louanna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im a bubbly person that likes to make people laugh. I am very out going, caring, kind, honest and trustworthy. I am the type of person that likes to do things on the spur of the moment. I love the outdoors, camping, bonfires, cookouts...I enjoy watching movies, taking walks, long rides to no where in particular. I enjoy children and if you have kids that is not a problem. I enjoy having friends over for dinner....I am a people person. I love country music and hip-hop for the most part but will listen to almost anything but heavy metal...If you like the bate so far then bite on! I just may reel you in! If u r a keeper u will know it...if not ill gently toss u back to sea and continue fishing! Not interested in liars, cheaters, alcoholics, drug abusers or dealers, game players or men who are in any way involved with another woman. IM ALLERGIC TO MEN LIKE THAT! If your looking for web cam action or just a quick hook-up then keep on moving. That WILL NOT happen here.Oh...and when a woman says she is BBW..UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS...NOTHIN WORSE THAN SHALLOW MINDED MEN SEEIN A PRETTY FACE AND MEETING YOU JUST TO MAKE U FEEL LIKE sh*t WITH WORDS THEY SAY AFTERWARDS! IF U ARE NOT INTO LARGE LADIES THEN STOP ANSWERING BBW ADDS!!!!!!! lets get to that point that we can decide together!

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