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Lily, 38
United States, Michigan, Sandusky

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About Me

After some time away from this site, I am back trying this again. What's the worst thing that can happen? I find the man of my dreams right? Right!I am a single mom of two great kids, ages 19 and 16. They are my world but I'm finding out that this empty nest thing is not all it's cracked up to be. I am a firefighter/paramedic and have been in the fire service for a little over 10yrs now. I love what I do but I have hopes of going back to school soon for nursing. I am generally a happy go lucky person. I believe laughter is the best medicine along with great family and friends. I love going out for a night on the town and think that I am overall a pretty social person. I love to be around people but I also love my quiet time at home. I am looking for someone who is intelligent, compassionate, has a sense of humor, is social but also knows how to relax. You must be self motivated, have a job and not live with your parents or do drugs. Yes it's sad that I have to put that but trust me, I've encountered it. I'm not looking for someone who likes to play games. I'm too damn old for that! I'm looking to date now, but would be pleased if things went to the next level. Ultimately, that's why I am here!If you think you may be interested, please message me. You should know I don't like to send countless messages back and forth. Let's meet and see where it takes us. In a public place of course!Hope to hear from you soon and happy fishing. I believe there is someone out there for all of us! Skydiving? Bungee jumping? Just kidding! I hate heights. I know what you're thinking, not a great trait considering my profession. Bowling? What's better than putting on a pair of ugly shoes that hundreds of other people have worn? That's living the dream! Seriously, Dinner or coffee/drinks is always nice but I'm usually up for anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Walking Chinese Japanese Middle Eastern Adventure Martial Arts Poker
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