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Herta, 40
United States, Michigan, Sandusky

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About Me

HI! I've been here, before... And I'm baaaack. I guess you could call it a glutton for punishment. I'll stick with calling it optimistic.I'm still a widow, (he's still not back) been 9 years, like that. My daughters are 13 & 16.I apologize, but if we meet between now annnnd, maybe April or May, I will look like a marshmallow in 12 layers. Looking cute is not as much a priority as keeping my *** warm. I have girlfriends that go out in sleeveless & their teeth chatter all night. That's just dumb.I have an awesome sense of humor, and am also pretty sarcastic. Life is too short & I want someone to laugh with, have fun with, and be able to count on.**I have zero interest in giving birth to anymore children. That ship hasn't just sailed, it blew up & sunk, I'm not interested. Nor do I want to teach a 20 year old a thing or two. **I am a CNA, and I absolutely love caring for my residents. I work 3 days a week for now, however, I am self sufficient, own my own home and car. I don't need a man to save me, and I don't want a man that needs saving. With that said, last month I replaced my first faucet with sprayer, including shut off valves & supply lines and today I replaced a part on my dishwasher, that I figured out & ordered all by myself. Guys seem to take issue when I don't run to them like a sissy & ask for help. Unless it's automotive or electrical, odds are I'm going to figure it out, or hurt myself, trying. I think there is still a stone in my chin from the header off the ladder I took last fall cleaning out my gutters. I fixed 3 issues with my lawn mower last fall, which was promptly shot to hell this spring when I hit the patio with it.I love to fish, and have not done that nearly enough, this summer. My favorite place to be is on or near the water. Catching frogs, crayfish, or fish, or hanging out at the lake with a cold drink are what impresses me. Poetry readings, operas, fine dining & other lah-tee-dah crap does NOT. I can "clean up real good" for a company party, sure.Ideally, I want to be swept off my feet by a guy with integrity, intelligence, humor, and romance. I'm not your typical chick, by a long shot.I am looking for someone that is employed & supports themselves, does NOT live with Mommy & Daddy, does NOT do drugs, is *SINGLE* (as in NOT MARRIED), and is not just here for a booty call. Picnic by the water, fishing... you get the idea. Not the movies. First of all, you can't talk to each other, and second of all, I probably won't sit still that long. They aren't my thing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Skiing Traveling Adult Adventure Animation Cricket Shooting Sports Play Sport Games
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