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United States, Michigan, Sandusky

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This thing says I want a relationship. I am in no hurry... friendships are relationships too...just of a different nature.I like to garden and paint...cook and be with friends. Spent most of my adult life (since my children were 2 and 3), alone and taking care of them. They are now 12, and 13. I stay away from dating for the most part because I don't want to loose. When a person loves someone truly, they reset their priorities to build a better relationship. I have friends....a lot of them and they all know each other. I know people from all walks of live, every race, religion, and sexual preference. I value my friendships like family. They are my family and have always had my back. I feel that if I were to fall in love again, the person would want to meet the people that come and go into my life. I've been in Cruces for 7 years. I have friends all over the country. I believe in perfect trust... If I were to date again, he would have to be capable of that. In my life I have learned that a relationship has to have three things: Trust, The willingness to be open for that person, and a killer sex life (If physically capable; that only comes w trust and open mind and heart). Without one of these........it is sure to fail. Id rather be alone if I have to sacrifice who I am, what I believe in, or the people I love and consider my family.I'm not a player, not into the party scene, and I do not pretend to be someone I'm not. Not a bad trade of for the seasonal broken heart. My sons have known only one man to seriously be in my life. It didn't last. They are still young and do not need anything but a friend....in the true sense of the word; be cool to them, respect their home and their opinions.... I home school them, and we are happy.Chivalry is not dead, I think a man should protect and care for his woman. Keep her safe, and look out for her mind, body, and heart. I think a woman should BE the 'safe zone' of a man's life....to care for him and trust his judgement.P.S. I clean houses. If you need yours cleaned, please hit me up. As long as it resulted in lightening my smile and a connection I think it wouldn't matter where we were or what we did. I can cook better than most restaurants, so I don't need to be fed lol. I do not need a roommate, I have a home of my own. I do not need presents (but I like flowers :)), I already have what I want.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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