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This thing says I want a relationship. I am in no hurry... friendships are relationships too...just of a different nature.I like to garden and paint...cook and be with friends. Spent most of my adult life (since my children were 2 and 3), alone and taking care of them. They are now 12, and 13. I stay away from dating for the most part because I don't want to loose. When a person loves someone truly, they reset their priorities to build a better relationship. I have friends....a lot of them and they all know each other. I know people from all walks of live, every race, religion, and sexual preference. I value my friendships like family. They are my family and have always had my back. I feel that if I were to fall in love again, the person would want to meet the people that come and go into my life. I've been in Cruces for 7 years. I have friends all over the country. I believe in perfect trust... If I were to date again, he would have to be capable of that. In my life I have learned that a relationship has to have three things: Trust, The willingness to be open for that person, and a killer sex life (If physically capable; that only comes w trust and open mind and heart). Without one of these........it is sure to fail. Id rather be alone if I have to sacrifice who I am, what I believe in, or the people I love and consider my family.I'm not a player, not into the party scene, and I do not pretend to be someone I'm not. Not a bad trade of for the seasonal broken heart. My sons have known only one man to seriously be in my life. It didn't last. They are still young and do not need anything but a friend....in the true sense of the word; be cool to them, respect their home and their opinions.... I home school them, and we are happy.Chivalry is not dead, I think a man should protect and care for his woman. Keep her safe, and look out for her mind, body, and heart. I think a woman should BE the 'safe zone' of a man's life....to care for him and trust his judgement.P.S. I clean houses. If you need yours cleaned, please hit me up. As long as it resulted in lightening my smile and a connection I think it wouldn't matter where we were or what we did. I can cook better than most restaurants, so I don't need to be fed lol. I do not need a roommate, I have a home of my own. I do not need presents (but I like flowers :)), I already have what I want.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Deidra

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm just a simple girl looking for a simple man...Anything outside is good with me,love summer spring and fall,not a fan of the cold so much..Just checking things out,see what's going on in the online world..I work a lot but doesn't everyone?? I'm a sweet girl,live by this saying.."Just because we can doesn't mean we should"..Alright enough about me.. ...........

  • Melantha

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi!! I just have one question, is there any real men left out there?!? I am an easy going female who enjoys the simple things in life. For me it isnt how much money you have or the material things you have. It is the quality time you can spend with me. I want a man who will treat me right, and be my rock when I am not strongI want a man who can make me laugh when I want to cry, and I would like him to make as important in his life as I make him important in mine.If you have any qurstions please ask me. Frist date? Well it has been a long time since I was on one of those. I would have to say dinner and a movie or just sitting and talking over coffee or going for a ride... But sometimes the best frist dates are the ones that you don't plan you just play by ear.

  • Kit

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am an honest, friendly, and compassionate person. I am looking for a good christian guy to do church activities with me. Must like to go to church and do church activities. I love the Lord and you must also. I am truly looking for a non-smoker and non-drinker. I just want to be loved and appreciated. I want someone who truly wants to spend time with me. I don't like to argue, I like peace. I am just very excited to meet my companion.Life is too short to live it by yourself. I am so ready to meet Mr. Right and be happily married. I want someone to love me for me and not try to change me. What you see is what you get. I am ready to share my christian activities with my companion.Take care and God Bless,Melanie I would love to be picked up and maybe a walk in a park to get to know each other more. I am very open, we could also do dinner and a movie.

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