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About Me

This thing says I want a relationship. I am in no hurry... friendships are relationships too...just of a different nature.I like to garden and paint...cook and be with friends. Spent most of my adult life (since my children were 2 and 3), alone and taking care of them. They are now 12, and 13. I stay away from dating for the most part because I don't want to loose. When a person loves someone truly, they reset their priorities to build a better relationship. I have friends....a lot of them and they all know each other. I know people from all walks of live, every race, religion, and sexual preference. I value my friendships like family. They are my family and have always had my back. I feel that if I were to fall in love again, the person would want to meet the people that come and go into my life. I've been in Cruces for 7 years. I have friends all over the country. I believe in perfect trust... If I were to date again, he would have to be capable of that. In my life I have learned that a relationship has to have three things: Trust, The willingness to be open for that person, and a killer sex life (If physically capable; that only comes w trust and open mind and heart). Without one of these........it is sure to fail. Id rather be alone if I have to sacrifice who I am, what I believe in, or the people I love and consider my family.I'm not a player, not into the party scene, and I do not pretend to be someone I'm not. Not a bad trade of for the seasonal broken heart. My sons have known only one man to seriously be in my life. It didn't last. They are still young and do not need anything but a friend....in the true sense of the word; be cool to them, respect their home and their opinions.... I home school them, and we are happy.Chivalry is not dead, I think a man should protect and care for his woman. Keep her safe, and look out for her mind, body, and heart. I think a woman should BE the 'safe zone' of a man's life....to care for him and trust his judgement.P.S. I clean houses. If you need yours cleaned, please hit me up. As long as it resulted in lightening my smile and a connection I think it wouldn't matter where we were or what we did. I can cook better than most restaurants, so I don't need to be fed lol. I do not need a roommate, I have a home of my own. I do not need presents (but I like flowers :)), I already have what I want.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Well lets see, i'm a southern old fashion girl, with a big city punk rock attitude. I'm a bit of a home body, but i like to hit music weekenders and car shows, the drive in movie, collect halloween stuff, i'm heavily tattooed, and i like the same to be honest...helps when ya got more in common. I'm a notorious smartass with a big heart. It's all about the sense of humor, and being able to laugh at one self. I rather be goofy and have a good time than pick and nag. If something upsets me, I state what and move on. I work half the year in the Halloween industry and the other half depends on my mood. Sometimes ill get ***jobs out of boredom, others ill be lazy for 6 months. Been doing this for a long time and have no plans of stopping. That being said, my house looks like a Halloween attraction. I have more werewolves than normal furniture lol. Anyways, I have Peter Pan syndrome and refuse to grow up! Like a nice mellow guy who likes goin to shows, movies, shootin pool and hangin out drinkin a few beers. No one complicated!! And if you only want to talk bout my boobs or be a perv, there's other sites for that.

  • Louanna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Im a bubbly person that likes to make people laugh. I am very out going, caring, kind, honest and trustworthy. I am the type of person that likes to do things on the spur of the moment. I love the outdoors, camping, bonfires, cookouts...I enjoy watching movies, taking walks, long rides to no where in particular. I enjoy children and if you have kids that is not a problem. I enjoy having friends over for dinner....I am a people person. I love country music and hip-hop for the most part but will listen to almost anything but heavy metal...If you like the bate so far then bite on! I just may reel you in! If u r a keeper u will know it...if not ill gently toss u back to sea and continue fishing! Not interested in liars, cheaters, alcoholics, drug abusers or dealers, game players or men who are in any way involved with another woman. IM ALLERGIC TO MEN LIKE THAT! If your looking for web cam action or just a quick hook-up then keep on moving. That WILL NOT happen here.Oh...and when a woman says she is BBW..UNDERSTAND WHAT IT MEANS...NOTHIN WORSE THAN SHALLOW MINDED MEN SEEIN A PRETTY FACE AND MEETING YOU JUST TO MAKE U FEEL LIKE sh*t WITH WORDS THEY SAY AFTERWARDS! IF U ARE NOT INTO LARGE LADIES THEN STOP ANSWERING BBW ADDS!!!!!!! lets get to that point that we can decide together!

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