Total users: 62,072,401 Online users: 223,583
Zona, 39
United States, Michigan, Sandusky

Offline, last seen Mon, 30 Mar 2026 01:57:09

About Me

This thing says I want a relationship. I am in no hurry... friendships are relationships too...just of a different nature.I like to garden and paint...cook and be with friends. Spent most of my adult life (since my children were 2 and 3), alone and taking care of them. They are now 12, and 13. I stay away from dating for the most part because I don't want to loose. When a person loves someone truly, they reset their priorities to build a better relationship. I have friends....a lot of them and they all know each other. I know people from all walks of live, every race, religion, and sexual preference. I value my friendships like family. They are my family and have always had my back. I feel that if I were to fall in love again, the person would want to meet the people that come and go into my life. I've been in Cruces for 7 years. I have friends all over the country. I believe in perfect trust... If I were to date again, he would have to be capable of that. In my life I have learned that a relationship has to have three things: Trust, The willingness to be open for that person, and a killer sex life (If physically capable; that only comes w trust and open mind and heart). Without one of these........it is sure to fail. Id rather be alone if I have to sacrifice who I am, what I believe in, or the people I love and consider my family.I'm not a player, not into the party scene, and I do not pretend to be someone I'm not. Not a bad trade of for the seasonal broken heart. My sons have known only one man to seriously be in my life. It didn't last. They are still young and do not need anything but a friend....in the true sense of the word; be cool to them, respect their home and their opinions.... I home school them, and we are happy.Chivalry is not dead, I think a man should protect and care for his woman. Keep her safe, and look out for her mind, body, and heart. I think a woman should BE the 'safe zone' of a man's life....to care for him and trust his judgement.P.S. I clean houses. If you need yours cleaned, please hit me up. As long as it resulted in lightening my smile and a connection I think it wouldn't matter where we were or what we did. I can cook better than most restaurants, so I don't need to be fed lol. I do not need a roommate, I have a home of my own. I do not need presents (but I like flowers :)), I already have what I want.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English German Indonesian Middle Eastern Spanish History Romance
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Shawanda from Sandusky | Woman | 39 years old | Virgo
    Shawanda

    Offline

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am an easy going person who enjoys my life by hanging out with great friends and family and appreciating every great moment I have with them. I love to laugh and talk about life experiences with people. I enjoy the outdoors and wish summer was longer than it is. I like differnet types of music mostly Pop music. Im a very honest person, prob the most anyone has ever met lol....Im a strong believer that honesty is the best policy no matter what, I hate being fake...I dont try to delibrately hurt someone feelings but if someone is looking for an honest opinion they usually ask me lolUPDATE: Here is some honesty for you....if you are looking for friends with benefits dont bother. Im not down with that...im looking for a one on one relationship with true meaning. Im also looking for someone mentally and financially stable. Hanging out anywhere you can have a conversation with someone to get to know them.

    Chat
  • Sharika from Sandusky | Woman | 39 years old | Pisces
    Sharika

    Offline

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Thought I would give this another try.Let's try honesty since quite a few people on here are not. I'm full figure woman with a head on her shoulders. I'm open minded, strong willed and confident. I'm not into BS and head games can't be bothered wasting my time on that. I have 3 boys, I do NOT do tattoos (if you read the caption on the picture you would know that), I work full time supporting my family. I'm looking for some one to compliment my life. I can dress up and go out on the town or pull the hair back and get dirty playing in the grease and mud. I'm looking for some one who has family values, and is not afraid to be themselves. Everyone has baggage in life it's just a matter if you have a carry on or you're dragging a trunk behind you.I'm a woman that knows what she wants. So with that being said don't bother wasting my time or yours if- you don't have a car- you only want a 1 night stand- you don't have a job - you drink more then twice a week- you are into drugs- I know more tools in a tool box then you do- You're still hung up on you ex- You go for manicures and pedicures- If all your pics are of you shirtless flexing your muscles. Though nice to look at it's not what's going to keep my attention Grab a coffee and see where it goes from there.

    Chat
  • Sacha from Sandusky | Woman | 37 years old | Libra
    Sacha

    Offline

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    More than anything I love being a mother to my children.I enjoy watching my sons baseball and football games very seldom do I miss a game. I do not like to get dirty but that is an exception.I work hard for everything i have i ask no one too take care of me or my kids. I always have and always will take care of myself. Just want to meet someone that i can laugh with,share my day and be comfortable with.anything else just ask and ill be happy to give you an answer. My 2 youngest graduate in 2 years and this is when hopefully I will be able to enjoy doing me a little more. I love being a mother but becoming 1 so young and being an only parent wares you down.I have missed out on doing me. So hoping to get a little traveling in and being a little more adventurous.My life has always been them so looking for love was never an option.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: