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Vinita, 36
United States, Michigan, Saint Joseph

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I am a 36 year old single mom, raising my 11 year son as best I can, he keeps me grounded in this crazy world. I was married for 10 years to the one man that I thought would be my forever ever after, until one day I woke up and realized he was not the same man I said I do to. He spent 15 months in Iraq and when he came home things where different. We had our problems before he ever left but the war did things that couldn't be changed without some help and he refused to admit he needed any. A strong marriage takes 2 people committed to making it work and I was tired of being the only one fighting the good fight. I walked away knowing I gave it 110% It was one of the hardest things I've ever lived thru but I am proof of what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger. I've been single for the last 5 years by choice, I've been taking time to find the real "me" again. I've started taking care of and loving me again, if you don't love yourself no one else can love you. They can try but you are just going to push them away. I can say I am healthy, happy and my journey is far from over! I'm now ready to find new friends and possible partner to go on this ride called LIFE with me. There is NO DRAMA with the ex, we are adults, we share a child, and we are friends for that reason. I've said all this to say I know a lot more of what I am looking for out of life, what I want, and what I don't want. I enjoy laughter and can be quiet goofy in a nerdy kinda way. I like to dress up and go out, but I love to get muddy just the same. I can hop on the back of a motorcycle and rock the windblown look. I enjoy the finer things in life, but I can get down to the nitty-gritty as well. A little sweat, dirt, and hard work NEVER killed anyone. I believe in treating people how you want to be treated. I'm a firm believer that you have to try new things at least 2x's, once to see if you like something or not and a 2nd time to be 100% certain either way. I love to talk, cuddle, kiss, and can dance for hours on end. I like the beauty of quiet nature and the magnitude of GOD's greatness in the things he created.I believe beauty is only skin deep that God creates a beautiful soul. (Yes I believe in God and I go to church.) But let's face it some things are a deal breaker....physical attraction will get a conversation started but it's the deeper stuff that will last. First and foremost I should say they are no more babies in my future so if you want kids you need to keep looking. I love kids just can't physically have any more. Good teeth is a must...I'm a sucker for a great smile! If you don't care enough to take care of yourself then you aren't my type. A stable job is another must, I've tried the we can live on love ~ IT DON'T WORK, you just might starve to death, well not me I went home. I have a great job, my own home, and take care of myself, not looking to support anyone; so if you can provide ***...awesome lets chat. I love a man with an edgy side, tattoos are a turn on, motorcycles are fun, but a country boy has his charms as well. If I could find a Bad Boy gone good I'd have the perfect man....But honestly, I am a pretty open person anything you want to know just ask and I'll tell you! I'm a quiet one until you get to know me...."haven't you heard it's the quiet ones you have to worry about". Get to know me and you may just like the total package. Libras are well rounded in all areas of life and adapt well to new things.All my pics have been taken within the last 6 months.... If you message me please start a real conversation if all I get is the one word Hey, mmmm, sexy, and the such You will be *** ASK ME A QUESTION OR TELL ME SOMETHING YOU LIKE. Intelligence is very attractive! Anything corny romantic is a plus.....unique well thought out will steal my heart! ANYTHING GOES IM OPEN TO TRYING NEW THINGS.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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