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I'm ready to meet a great man and have fun! I'd love to exchange a few *** then meet for a quick drink or coffee to see if we like one another enough to move forward!!! I come with an open mind and a great attitude ... I hope you do the same!I've lived a lifetime for my age, both with personal travel and from being in the military (ARMY). I've come to know who I am and what I want. I like to see intelligence, honor, and stability in the guys I spend time with. I can offer a complete well rounded package to someone. I’m a mid-!.I’m known as the “funny” one in the group. I’m very energetic and extroverted most of the time, but relish my quite times and sharing silence with the person in my life!I just want to meet a nice person to spend time with…I’m easy going and pretty adventurous. Please be well rounded, cultured, and have a great mind to share things with!!**Dating notes: Being Late and Extreme Cussing are RUDE!! Yes this has been a pattern ... no it's not acceptable...it's a first date !!***Kids - Yes I would like to have one of my own. If you don't, no worries, but it's a deal breaker! I also don't mind if you have children as well, but having one of my own some day is also a priority!! Coffee or Drinks ... Move on from there ...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Arielle

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am looking for dating to get to know someone and hopefully in time, a long term relationship. I am not looking to jump into anything. This to me means several "dates" to see if we have the ability to have fun together and if there is some sort of spark. These are both important to me. If not, I am happy being friends, (if that is of interest to you, and who knows maybe something will come of it) or just saying good luck to each other and part ways, if that is your preference. I know that everyone has different intentions on here. I personally, am not interested in bringing sex into the equation until I know that I feel that these two connections.So we all know it is hard to describe ourselves in a box...but a few things. Me: I am honest, loyal and straightforward, big on good communication, introspective, and very supportive...I am very open minded but sometimes get caught up in my opinion and don't want to admit I was off base, but I will do it anyway (cause what else are you going to do :))...I am very focused on fitness because it makes me feel good...I am very independent and at times also like to be taken care of....I have days when I want to go out and be active all day and other days where I just want to relax...I like having a partner to do things with, and when I am in a relationship, it is my priority second only to my daughter (b/c she is my daughter :***I will drink on occasion, but do not want to go get drinks and am not a bar person. I work in Real Estate and have often odd and usually flexible hours. Oh, I like to type with "..." and " :) " intertwined. Goals:To stay fit and healthy; to have fun in life; advance my career; to consistently be able to travel; to set up my finances for retirement; constant self improvement; acquiring investment properties; to find someone to do all of this with, who is committed to us, and to hopefully at some point marry; to one day have a beach house; to spend more time playing guitar and keep active in my many interests; to improve my limited Spanish...oh, I could keep going!I am always trying to improve myself and learn. You and what I am looking for in a partner**I have had several guys message me "Good luck finding all that" & I to them I say "Thank you!"***SINGLE & looking for the end goal of a long term relationship and possibly/hopefully marriage.*Honest, loyal, committed, diverse*Emotionally stable and at least somewhat introspective*Able to communicate and willing to work through disagreements (as we all know life has bumps)*Open minded and non-judgmental*Intelligent and easy to talk to*Financially stable *Funny (I LOVE to laugh) and FUN (so important)*Fit and active*Like to try out new things, easy going, ok to plan a day/event or just wing it and have fun *Romantic (I like a man who is willing to plan a date, surprise me, bring home dinner b/c he knows I am busy, step out of work to meet for lunch, etc)*Affectionate... ( I am big on spending time together, touch, hugging, holding hands, a sweet text or unexpected phone call, even if only for a minute b/c you are at work)*And of course, good chemistry...really, you can't get too far without that.Bonus points if you are good at: *Planning fun, original and at time romantic dates. *Play guitar.*Are into investment properties.OTHER MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION ABOUT ME:Hobbies:Fitness (running, weight lifting, Bikram Yoga lately, kayaking, hiking, rock climbing at times, anything outdoors), Painting/Drawing, Photography, Reading, Exploring & Travel (ie.; salted caramel frozen yogurt), The beach, Learning (I am trying to teach myself guitar, have recently taken a few salsa lessons, read "self improvement" and finance books), looking for investment properties.Recent Reading:Books: The Passage, The Game of Thrones series, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo seriesMagazines: Money, Maxim, Men's Health/Fitness (It is better than the women's version), Popular PhotographyMusic:I will listen to most anything with the exception of heavy metal and hard core rap.Food:I do not really eat fried foods and I tend to eat healthy at home.When going out (or if you now how to cook it) I love ethnic cuisine, Lebanese, Mexican, Indian, etc.Did I say I am obsessed with salted caramel frozen yogurt...who invented that deliciousness. Dark chocolate.Movies:I like a mix...love the Marvel comic movies, comedies (not the overly stupid ones), anything with Will Ferrel, action movies, drama, a few of the artsy movies......lol...mindless things to relax to...(old TV: The Wire--great show)***Also, assuming you got this far, I have one child, I am not sure that I want more. If you are dead set on having children, you may wish to choose someone else or at least make this clear to at some point be discussed. I can be an idealist of sorts, but on this point, I am a realist and know there is not much of a way to "compromise" it. I am guessing this is what I would like to do for a first date?!?LunchHikingKayakingPicnicConcertCoffeeOR Pick me up in your private jet and take me to an exotic island to go scuba diving and have lunch on the beach...Anything else really cool that you can think of...Also, in the long run, I prefer talking to texting. Texting has a purpose, but I do not want a relationship by text :)

  • Cherise

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a single mom of 4 wonderful children, 3 who live with me. I work and pay my own bills, live on my own and have my own car. I am looking for someone to get to know and have a relationship with. I love all kinds of food and I am up to try new things, I just ended a 15 yr marriage so I am ready to go out and find new likes! I am not looking for someone to take care of me nor for me to take care of! I would like to find someone who likes me for me and values me as a equal, I AM NOT LOOKING for a booty call or friend with benefits I am not in high school!!!! I am a smart ass and want someone who is ok with that and can be a smart ass also! I like movies and listen to a wide range of music.

  • Harrietta

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am a 37 year old woman who is into starting slow by dating and then perhaps lead into a relationship. I have one teenage son that I adore. My match has to have or at least can tolerate children. I am a hard worker and am a single mother. I like to enjoy the outdoors as much as possible. I am not one for sitting at home all day on the couch watching movies. I love to go camping and hiking. Winter is my favorite season. I love spending weekends at DCL in a cabin with the snow falling outside. I also like going tubing as well. I am an easy person to talk to. I don't carry any drama with me. I am very compassionate and will respect you with the respect that is given me. I have been told that I am shy, but will warm up once I get to know you. I like 80's music. My goal is to be successful in life and have a second summer or winter home on the lake. I am ready to share this journey we know as life with that special someone :) Meet for some coffee or just go out to grab a bite to eat.

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