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Demetria, 39
United States, Michigan, Saint Joseph

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About Me

Hello! I am 39. SWF. No kids, two dogs. No Drama, no baggage. I'm 5'6 and a size 16, so I'm not skinny, but I'm not quite BBW status. I have dark blond hair(sometimes highlighted), killer blue eyes, and I'm told I look like I'm still in my late 20's. Day to day, you'd probably say I'm "cute" in jeans and a T-shirt or as my mother calls me adorkable, but I can dress up and look hot when I need to. :-)Ultimately, I would love to find an *** and connection, so you probably need to know a little more.I am not religious. I respect and enjoy learning about them all, but I do not practice.I've VERY affectionate and then some...I'm liberal. I have gay friends.I'm 420friendlyI'm not a big drinker, usually only special occasions and I can't stand drunk people.I watch too much TV. I love movies. I read a lot too, and I'm a writer.I love Sci-Fi. Most recently a Doctor Who convert.I like to hike, dance, go to a karaoke bar occasionally, hit up AC if the mood strikes, or take a spontaneous road trip somewhere. I've spent way too much time at home the last couple of years because money has been tight, but I'm ready to get back out there.I'm looking for a guy between ***who is SINGLE, (divorced okay, separated not) with no drama or baggage. Kids are ok. I prefer a non-smoker as I'm in transition of quitting cigs myself. I don't have a specific type, but I tend to go for SWM who are healthy but not a gym nut. You don't need a six pack to be in good health. :-) Someone who has lost weight like I have and can be a workout partner with me would also be great.Some pluses but not deal breakers.I like tall guys.I like funny guys. I like romantic guys. I LOVE guys with accents, especially UK & Australian. I'm looking for someone who eventually wants a relationship via the dating process.I'm not looking to hook up one time.I'm not looking to jump into bed with you on the first date either. Maybe the third. ;-)So, if you're interested in starting off the old fashion way, you know, some ***, maybe a phone call if we hit it off, and then meet for a drink and see what happens....send me a note. I like to be surprised on dates.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Tennis
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