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About Me

Looking for a little bit of everything. Of course, all the cliches - kind, honest, great sense of humor. I'm active and athletic, love being outside and hope to meet someone with the same appreciation of nature. Still need to get to a beach when I want to feel like I'm home. It doesn't hurt that my father is a boat captain so I've spent most of my life not just near, but often on the water. Just enjoy being outside -I'm very energetic - I have a hard time sitting down most of the time - but a good movie always gets me to sit still for a few hours. Enjoy anything live - whether it's theater, a street performance, a concert, or something local in town. I don't watch much TV but love listening to music. Been through marriage, separation, and divorce. I've learned so much from the experience and am lucky to have had an amicable split and continued friendship, Have a rock solid belief that even in difficult situations, kindness and compassion are essential. No need to make something harder than it already is. Would love to meet someone who has also been through this process - because I believe it changes you - but am open to possibilities. I am fortunate to have a great job in a great community and love going to work each day.- especially when it involves ***teenagers each day. I teach high school English so, clearly, reading is a big part of my life. So is a good sense of humor which often means lots of sarcasm. Teaching is my 'second career' but I couldn't imagine doing anything else. Looking for intellectual stimulation - long conversations that keep me up much too late are my preference. If I can talk to someone for hours and hours, there's something there. Just coffee or a drink. Something simple. A nice conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Stacee

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I like to cook and play tennis - not at the same time of course. To me there's nothing better than cooking a great meal, it really relaxes me. Sometimes I end up chopping and slicing for hours, the same happens on the tennis court...he he he.Those are two of my passions, but no worries I have many others, see below. In general I'm outgoing, have a black belt in sarcasm (which has gotten me into trouble in the past, OY) and I keep myself on my toes. ;)But seriously I'm pretty easy going and like to joke around, but I'm also very affectionate, caring and loving. The usual drinks/ dinner to see if there's chemistry, then we could proceed with something spontaneous. I love dates where we just go with the flow and end up doing something we both enjoy. How about sightseeing in the rain? Or slow dancing at a rock concert? Bowling during senior's night? The options are endless...

  • Arielle

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am looking for dating to get to know someone and hopefully in time, a long term relationship. I am not looking to jump into anything. This to me means several "dates" to see if we have the ability to have fun together and if there is some sort of spark. These are both important to me. If not, I am happy being friends, (if that is of interest to you, and who knows maybe something will come of it) or just saying good luck to each other and part ways, if that is your preference. I know that everyone has different intentions on here. I personally, am not interested in bringing sex into the equation until I know that I feel that these two connections.So we all know it is hard to describe ourselves in a box...but a few things. Me: I am honest, loyal and straightforward, big on good communication, introspective, and very supportive...I am very open minded but sometimes get caught up in my opinion and don't want to admit I was off base, but I will do it anyway (cause what else are you going to do :))...I am very focused on fitness because it makes me feel good...I am very independent and at times also like to be taken care of....I have days when I want to go out and be active all day and other days where I just want to relax...I like having a partner to do things with, and when I am in a relationship, it is my priority second only to my daughter (b/c she is my daughter :***I will drink on occasion, but do not want to go get drinks and am not a bar person. I work in Real Estate and have often odd and usually flexible hours. Oh, I like to type with "..." and " :) " intertwined. Goals:To stay fit and healthy; to have fun in life; advance my career; to consistently be able to travel; to set up my finances for retirement; constant self improvement; acquiring investment properties; to find someone to do all of this with, who is committed to us, and to hopefully at some point marry; to one day have a beach house; to spend more time playing guitar and keep active in my many interests; to improve my limited Spanish...oh, I could keep going!I am always trying to improve myself and learn. You and what I am looking for in a partner**I have had several guys message me "Good luck finding all that" & I to them I say "Thank you!"***SINGLE & looking for the end goal of a long term relationship and possibly/hopefully marriage.*Honest, loyal, committed, diverse*Emotionally stable and at least somewhat introspective*Able to communicate and willing to work through disagreements (as we all know life has bumps)*Open minded and non-judgmental*Intelligent and easy to talk to*Financially stable *Funny (I LOVE to laugh) and FUN (so important)*Fit and active*Like to try out new things, easy going, ok to plan a day/event or just wing it and have fun *Romantic (I like a man who is willing to plan a date, surprise me, bring home dinner b/c he knows I am busy, step out of work to meet for lunch, etc)*Affectionate... ( I am big on spending time together, touch, hugging, holding hands, a sweet text or unexpected phone call, even if only for a minute b/c you are at work)*And of course, good chemistry...really, you can't get too far without that.Bonus points if you are good at: *Planning fun, original and at time romantic dates. *Play guitar.*Are into investment properties.OTHER MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION ABOUT ME:Hobbies:Fitness (running, weight lifting, Bikram Yoga lately, kayaking, hiking, rock climbing at times, anything outdoors), Painting/Drawing, Photography, Reading, Exploring & Travel (ie.; salted caramel frozen yogurt), The beach, Learning (I am trying to teach myself guitar, have recently taken a few salsa lessons, read "self improvement" and finance books), looking for investment properties.Recent Reading:Books: The Passage, The Game of Thrones series, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo seriesMagazines: Money, Maxim, Men's Health/Fitness (It is better than the women's version), Popular PhotographyMusic:I will listen to most anything with the exception of heavy metal and hard core rap.Food:I do not really eat fried foods and I tend to eat healthy at home.When going out (or if you now how to cook it) I love ethnic cuisine, Lebanese, Mexican, Indian, etc.Did I say I am obsessed with salted caramel frozen yogurt...who invented that deliciousness. Dark chocolate.Movies:I like a mix...love the Marvel comic movies, comedies (not the overly stupid ones), anything with Will Ferrel, action movies, drama, a few of the artsy movies......lol...mindless things to relax to...(old TV: The Wire--great show)***Also, assuming you got this far, I have one child, I am not sure that I want more. If you are dead set on having children, you may wish to choose someone else or at least make this clear to at some point be discussed. I can be an idealist of sorts, but on this point, I am a realist and know there is not much of a way to "compromise" it. I am guessing this is what I would like to do for a first date?!?LunchHikingKayakingPicnicConcertCoffeeOR Pick me up in your private jet and take me to an exotic island to go scuba diving and have lunch on the beach...Anything else really cool that you can think of...Also, in the long run, I prefer talking to texting. Texting has a purpose, but I do not want a relationship by text :)

  • Felica

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I thought for a second I might have met someone. But, nope, still here :)...... But, I think friends only is what I need for a bit.Hi :) I'm a single mother of three. My oldest has moved out of the house. :( I've been divorced for 8 years and have well put that behind me. Well, let's see, I definitely would like to find a serious relationship eventually. But I think you have to spend at least a little time getting to know someone first to see if they fit into that category. Chemistry is more immediate, but you gotta have that too. ;). I'm sort of on a voyage right now to spend more time being happy. I woke up one day and realized that I was letting all my burdens weigh me down. It was making me someone I didn't want to be. Lol, this is a work in progress, but I am on my way. The biggest lesson in that for me has been my own mindset more than any external factors. I am sort of rediscovering how to have fun.Like everyone, I love to laugh. But, I really want to find that person I can be comfortable and silly with. You know, someone you can play with?;, that's bonus points. Yeah, I can be goofy at times. :)A good communicator is a must. *** Or at least you have to be ok with listening to me chatter away. I am a thinker in this aspect and I enjoy it. I like studying the world and myself trying to figure out the whys to things. A guy who is intelligent enough to keep up with me on this front is a huge turn on. That being said, sometimes I need someone to pull me out of my own head. :)I consider my spirit a dancer. :) And, as such, I love live music. Although, I haven't been to see near enough in recent years. I can be both extroverted and introverted. It all just depends on my mood. (Typical Gemini)Right now, I don't have a lot of freedom for the spontaneous trips etc. Lol, but I dream of the day that I will. I think I vaguely remember that I liked to travel. ;) My point is I can't be taking off as I still have children at home. But, I'd like that to change someday when empty nest hits. :)Lastly, when I fall in love with someone, I am crazy loyal to them and, in my eyes, they are the only man in the world. First date, let's decide what works for both of us. But, before that, let's meet for a half hour and see if we are even interested.

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